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Shirley Smith Obituary

SMITH Shirley Guidry Smith was called to her heavenly Father on Monday, April 7, 2014 at the age of 87. Shirley was born on July 1, 1926 to Benedict Charles Guidry and Rita Manuel Guidry. Shirley was the loving wife of the late Lamar Smith, Sr., for 55 years. She was preceded in death by her sisters: Lucille Frazier, Rosemary Payne, Mildred Rochon and her brothers Joseph, Alton, Gordon and Benoit Guidry. She is survived by her brother, Mitchell Guidry (Marie), brother-in-law, Ernest V. Frazier, Sr. and Aunt Helen Wright of Seattle, WA. She was a loving mother and is survived by her nine children: Cheryl Gerdes (Louis), Madeline Stewart (Bruce), Catherine Boveland (Wilson Charles), Lamar Smith, Jr., Virgie Smith, Dr. Debra Feemster (Lonnie) of Reno, NV, Melvin Smith, Gail and Rhonda Smith of Memphis, TN. She is also survived by twelve grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, as well as, many nieces, nephews and friends. She lived for her children and was a devoted grandmother and great-grandmother. She was a superior cook who enjoyed watching "The Young and the Restless" and "Wheel of Fortune," and occasional trips to the casino. The family would like to say a special "thank you" to all who supported her during her final days, especially the staffs of Kindred Hospital, Uptown Nursing Home and Uptown Nephrology. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian burial at 11:00 am on Friday, April 11, 2014 at St. Maria Goretti Catholic Church, 7300 Crowder Blvd, NOLA. Visitation will begin at 9:30 am with the rosary at 10:15 am. Interment: Mount Olivet Cemetery. Arrangements by Rhodes Funeral Home. Please visit www.rhodesfuneral.com to sign the online guestbook.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Apr. 8 to Apr. 9, 2014.

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Lewis & Jiles Families

April 21, 2014

Debra Smith-Feemster & The Smith Family:

You are in Our Thoughts as You Honor Your Mother. We Will Never Forget Your Mother's Face, The Sound of Her Voice nor The Tenderness of Her Touch ...

Your Mom-Dad's 'HOME' Welcomed ALL. They Ensured THE 'HOME' was Worthy Of and Treated With Reverence; by Respecting and Appreciating Each Individual.

Their Prominent Roles Held in Family-Extended Family-Community and The School System; Were Evidenced in The Respect Accorded.

That Respect was Not Only Attained, But Imparted by Them. To Be Surmounted SOLELY by Their Devotion-Sacrifice-Commitment to Their Family and Every Individual Encountered.

The Constructive-Rewarding Atmosphere They Created-Nurtured at 'HOME' Was UnMistakable; And Inspired Our Family to Celebrate Holidays and Special Moments with You By:

** Gathering at Their Home **
** Being Part of Your Family **

And, As We Adoringly Recognized Them

"MR/MRS Smith-Mama Shirley-Daddy Don-Smithy-Shirley-Don-... ";

** By Experiencing and Being Clothed With Their !SPECIAL-LOVE! **

Your Mom-Dad and Their 'HOME' Was Consistent with the VALUES Bern-Rudy Espoused-Embraced for Us.

Your Mom-Dad's 'HOME' Was The True EMBODIMENT Of Their Impressive DIGNITY & INTEGRITY; Conspicuous In The Following Ways:

'LOVE-WISDOM-ERUDITION-TRANQUILITY-HARMONY!'

Deepest-Profound SYMPATHY & COMFORT!

Your Mom-Dad Were Not Only Role Models-HEROS of Ours Too; But Had An Enormous Impact on Our Lives. They Were Indispensable Matriarch-Patriarch Extensions for Our Family.

LOVINGLY,

Bern-Steph-Rudy Lewis Sr.
Margaret-Rudy Jr. & Family
Merrill-Israel Jiles & Family

Rhea Anderson

April 17, 2014

Virgie, Dr. Debra Feemster and Smith family, sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. Virgie, I know you provided the best of care for your mother. You and Debra were a great team for your mother, fighting for her till the end. God will bless you abundantly.

KAREN PAYNE

April 16, 2014

TO THE SMITH FAMILY MY HEART IS BROKEN BUT NOTHING IS TO HARD FOR GOD I TRUELY BELIEVE THAT . I PRAY YOU ALL STAY HOPEFUL FOR THE FUTURE AND HOLD ON THE TO THE BEST OF THE PASS LET GO OF ANYTHING THAT ROB YOU OF A GREAT FUTURE & AWESOME FAMILY. I PRAY GOD KEEP YOUR MINDS AT PERFECT PEACE KEEP YOUR MIND STAYED ON HIM WHO YOU KNOW LOVE YOU ALL UNCONDITIONALLY AND SO DO TYRONE AND I, ALL I SEE IS AUNT SHIRLEY'S AWESOME SMILE I SEE A BEAUTIFUL ROSE WHO GOD HAS CHOSEN FOR HIS GARDEN WHERE LOVE WILL KEEP GROWING FOR YOU ALL.WE THANK YOU GUYS FOR THE WARM WELCOME JUST KNOW WE CARE AND LOVE YOU ALL.JESUS SAID HE IS THE WAY THE TRUTH & THE LIGHT !!! THAT'S WHAT MAKE HIM THEE ONLY RIGHTOUS ONE TO WHOM WE CAN LOOK TO FOR COMFORT, CAUSE WE ALL HAVE COME SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD MY BIBLE SAY. ALL NOT YALL, KNOW HE WANT US ALL TO LOOK TO HIM. HE IS ABLE TO LOOK PASS ALL OUR FAULTS AND SEE OUR NEEDS HE'S ABLE TO GIVE GREAT RESULTS. WE LOVE YOU ALL AND PRAY FOR PEACE TO BE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME OF LOST, WE KNOW AUNT SHIRLEY IS WITH THE FATHER BECAUSE SHE HAD TO FIRST BELIEVE IN THE FATHER HER GOD.I KNOW, BECAUSE YOU ALL ARE SO BLESSED I KNOW SHE WAS A GREAT MOTHER . IF YOU NEED US CALL . KAREN & TYRONE PAYNE MARRERO LA.

April 16, 2014

My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief. May God's loving-kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. (Psalm 119:50,76)

Connie Culbreth

April 16, 2014

To Vergie , and the Smith family:
I am very saddened to hear of your loss. May God give you comfort and peace in your time of sorrow. Mrs. Smith was a very loving person, and she will be truly missed. I will continue to pray for the family.

Welton Smith

April 15, 2014

To Virgie ,Lamar and Family. My Thoughts and Prayers are with you in this time of Grief. May your Memories bring comfort in the Days to come.Stay Strong and Keep the Faith. Virgie I will try to contact you.

Lonnie Feemster

April 15, 2014

God will bless you for your devotion and love to your children and husband. You survived two disastrous hurricanes and remained strong for years to come RIP Your son in law, Lonnie

Amanda Baptist

April 15, 2014

To my sisters and brothers my condolencs your mom was a lovingly mother, she welcomed me into her home many times. My prayers will always be with the family just know she is cooking that pot of beans with your dad together.

Chery Theard-Gilmore

April 14, 2014

To the Smith Family and especially my BFF Gail, May you find peace in knowing Mrs. Smith is amongst the angels and reunited with the Lord. My deepest condolences to you all!

Maureen Fitch

April 14, 2014

Debbie and family, So sorry on the loss of your mom. She was a kind and gentle lady always thinking of others. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

LynellSr.,Jeanique,Lynell Jr. Christina,Jennifer Desdunes

April 13, 2014

To the Smith's and Gerdes family may the good lord bless you all during these difficult times.May he strenghten you and give you peace.

Derek Gray

April 12, 2014

To the family of Mrs. Smith. My condolences go out to you for the loss of your mother. She touched so many individuals in her lifetime. It was an honor to have known her and her lovely family.

Jennifer Colbert

April 11, 2014

Cheryl and Family,

We want to extend our sincerest condolences to you and your entire family on the loss of your precious Mother. You are in our prayers.

Ed and Jennifer Colbert
Maxine Christophe, Natchitoches, LA

Jamilah Young & Family

April 11, 2014

My deepest condolences to the Smith family. Be comforted in knowing that Ms. Shirley's work here is done, she is at peace now and with our Lord. You all are in my prayers for strength and peace. Love you Nanny (Virgie) and Kim. Rest in peace Ms. Shirley.

April 11, 2014

You have our deepest condolences in your time of grief. Be blessed and assured that Mrs. Smith is rejoicing in her new life with our Heavenly Father. Our prayers are with you all at this time.
Nadia Martin and Family

Gilbert P. Bennett Jr.

April 11, 2014

You know, Our Father has a book on all of us, and when our final chapter comes, I hope we can all gather again to start anew in our Father's Kingdom, where we'll meet our love ones again. To God Be The Glory. Amen

Lois Joseph

April 11, 2014

my prayer are with the family .god bless all of youre,

April 10, 2014

April 10, 2014
To the family of Mrs.Smith:
You have our deepest sympathy for your loss,May God continue to
Strengthen and Bless all of you!!!!!
Freddie & Barbara Netter

April 10, 2014

may you fine comfort in knowing you had a loving mother savor the memories. The Howards St. maurice St.

CYNTHIA WHITE

April 10, 2014

To the Smith Family - Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your mother. My thoughts will be with you during this time of unspeakable loss. Sincerely, Cynthia White Swain

Joycelyn Palmer

April 10, 2014

To the Smith family, y'all have my deepest condolences and may God be with you and your time of grieving. may God be with you all.may God give you all the strength that y'all need to carry on the legacy and memories your mother leave behind. it will be difficultand hard at times but know that your mother is with you at all timesin Jesus name amen.

Ara Perry

April 10, 2014

To Catherine and the Smith Family; may you find peace and solace in the loss of your loved one. My prayers are with you.

Japa Volchok

April 10, 2014

My thoughts and sympathy are with you all. I am humbled to have met Mrs. Smith and proud to have known her. I know that each of you loved her and will carry her in year heart always. She was a special woman.

Diane Staes & Family

April 9, 2014

Our Deepest Sympathy to The Family of Ms. Shirley Guidry Smith.Our prayers are with all of you on your loved ones loss.May Ms. Smith R.I.P.

Jane White

April 9, 2014

Catherine and family,
God will see you through this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you and the family.

Apostle Leonard and Varanise Lucas

April 9, 2014

We offer our sincere condolences to the Smith Family, our prayers are with you. Praying that you remain strong and always stay together.

Alex&Ruth Clark

April 9, 2014

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Geraldine Moloney

April 9, 2014

So sorry for your loss; may you turn to each other for strength and support at this difficult time.

LaTasha Robinson

April 9, 2014

I'm sorry for your loss. I pray for your family's strength during this difficult time.

Thomas & Pinky Bradford

April 9, 2014

Rest in peace, Ms. Shirley. Prayers to the Smith Family.

MR. JOSEPH GUZMAN SR. & FAMILY

April 9, 2014

To The Family Of Mrs.SHIRLEY GUIDRY SMITH.NOTHING CAN EVER TAKE AWAY THE LOVE A HEART HOLDS DEAR. FOND MEMORIES LINGER EVERYDAY REMEMBRANCE KEEPS HER NEAR. .FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS.

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