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Phyllis Leaders Obituary

Phyllis Alvina (Graalfs) Leaders, formerly of Minden, Iowa, passed away peacefully at Hansen House in Council Bluffs on Tuesday, October 26, her 91st birthday. Phyllis was born October 26, 1930 in Council Bluffs to Edward and Liz (Tiarks) Graalfs. She graduated from Abraham Lincoln High School in 1948. After marrying Lowell Leaders on June 18, 1949, together they lovingly raised 6 children and farmed until retirement. Phyllis enjoyed gardening, baking, puzzles of all kinds, and playing cards and board games with her kids and grandkids. She didn't know how she would've survived without her kids. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her brother, Eugene (Tootie) Graalfs; infant sister, Marilyn; son-in-law, Bill Papich; daughter-in-law, Lorraine (McIntosh) Leaders; and granddaughter, Laura Leaders. Phyllis is survived by her devoted husband of 72 years, Lowell Leaders; six children, Marcia Papich, Cindy (Bob) Koch, Beth (Bill) Young,, Gary (Sandy) Leaders, Barb Leaders, Gregg (Cathy) Leaders; 13 grandchildren, 16 great grandchildren; brother, Ron (Eileen) Graalfs; sister-in-law, Wanda Leaders; and many other relatives. The family would like to thank the staffs of Hansen House and Every Step Hospice for care provided. Visitation with the family, Monday, 5 to 7 p.m. at Cutler-O'Neill-Meyer-Woodring Bayliss Park Chapel. Funeral service, Tuesday, 11 a.m. at the funeral home. A lunch will immediately follow at the Walnut Hill Reception Center, 1350 E. Pierce St. Interment Silver Valley Cemetery, Hancock, Iowa. In lieu of flowers, please consider sending memorial contributions to the Alzheimer's Association or Every Step Hospice.

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Published by The Daily Nonpareil on Oct. 30, 2021.

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George E Ayres Jr

November 3, 2021

My sympathy to Lowell, Barb, and the entire Leaders family. She was a very kind human being. So sorry for your loss.

Carol Ann Ivers

November 1, 2021

Remembering Phyllis with love and appreciation. She was such a good neighbor, always so kind and generous, an amazing mother and farm wife. The funniest thing I remember Phyllis saying was that Lowell did all the talking and she did all the listening. My condolences to Lowell and the entire family. May the peace of Christ be with you.

Katie Wade

November 1, 2021

Gregg and family - I'm very sad to hear the news. Prayers of peace go out to all of you.

George & Pat Ayres

October 31, 2021

Barb, Jake and Grant,
We are so sorry for your loss and grieve with you. Sorry we cannot be with you but you are definitely in our thoughts.
Love and Hugs,
Papa & Nan XOXOXO

Janet Graalfs Dargin

October 31, 2021

Lowell and family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Linda Salvo

October 30, 2021

Cindy & family, my sincere condolences to you and your family for the loss of your Mom. My prayers go out to your family.

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Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Cutler-O'Neill-Meyer-Woodring Funeral Home and Crematory

545 Willow Avenue, Council Bluffs, IA 51503

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11:00 a.m.

Cutler-O'Neill-Meyer-Woodring Funeral Home and Crematory

545 Willow Avenue, Council Bluffs, IA 51503

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