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Gregory Shadek Obituary

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Gregory of Alpine passed away on March 13, 2016. Loving son of Larry and Pat (nee Lewis). Beloved brother of Mark and his wife Caitlin and Chris. Devoted uncle of Logan Mark Shadek. Also survived by many loving aunts, uncles and cousins who meant so much to Gregory and played an important unmeasurable role in his life. Gregory was a 2008 graduate of Tenafly High School. He graduated from St. John's University in 2013. Interment private. Memorial Mass Saturday 11:00 AM St. John's R.C. Church Bergenfield. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to: For the Special Needs for Michael J. Stinelli, P.O. Box 436, Alpine, NJ 07620. Arrangements by the Barrett Funeral Home of Tenafly.

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Published by The Record/Herald News from Mar. 16 to Mar. 17, 2016.

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Jennifer Poremba

March 13, 2023

Love you always! Aunt Jen

Jennifer Poremba

March 13, 2022

It´s been six years already and I think of you every day! Love and miss you, Aunt Jen

Lineia Martino

January 25, 2022

Greg, I will always remember you. Love you forever. My heart is bleeding.

Joanne

March 13, 2019

Remembering you today, Greg

August 1, 2018

Happy Birthday, Greg!

Joanne

March 14, 2018

I know your loving spirit is here with your family and friends. Thank you for continuing to be a light for us. We remember, we appreciate.

Ginny and Bob Duffy

March 13, 2018

Remembering you today, Greg....

Joanne

March 11, 2017

We all got together at Mark's today to have lunch with you. Your nephews luckily bring so much joy because we all miss you so much. Today and always...

Xoxo,

Linny

Beach buds

Daniel Christopher

November 24, 2016

Rest in peace my friend. We've been out of contact for a year and I'm just finding out now. Love you and I'm glad to have known you.

August 2, 2016

Happy Birthday Greg!!!!

August 1, 2016

Happy 27th Birthday my sweet nephew!!!

Tarachand Deodat

June 15, 2016

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Shadek,
I have had the brief pleasure of knowing your son Greg and I have to say that he was a true gentleman. He was very kind and respectful. His quiet and gentle way about him left quite an impression on me. May you find some comfort to know that your son was a wonderful person.
With my sincere thoughts of sympathy on the loss of your beloved son.

Tarachand

Virginia Duffy

June 13, 2016

Dearest Pat, Larry, Mark, Caitlin and Chris,

Life is not measured by its length but by the amount of love given and received. I know that Greg was adored by his family and returned that love abundantly.

It was a short life, but one in which he had many accomplishments. He proved his naysayers wrong in his high school classrooms, on the football field, and by graduating from St. Johns. He had a wonderful girlfriend, Jules.

I wouldn't be surprised if he chooses to be born again into the family he loved so much. Meanwhile, his sweet loving spirit is here with you wishing you peace, as do Bob and I.

Ginny Duffy

May 17, 2016

Saw your Mom today and we shared stories and memories of you! Love you buddy!

April 20, 2016

Love you Gregg and I'm going to do my best to take care of your wonderful parents, your brothers and all your family! God Bless, Aunt Jen

Michele & David Slaff

April 3, 2016

Dear Larry, Pat, Mark & Caitlin, and Chris,
Our hearts are sad and our thoughts and prayers are with you all - may your family heal and find comfort together in the days ahead.

Eric & Lynn Hurst

March 19, 2016

Dear Larry, Pat and Family,
We are so saddened by the news of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With our deepest sympathy,
Eric & Lynn Hurst

Peggie & George Azzariti

March 18, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.We will always remember young Gregory with happy memories.

Jeffrey Bunin

March 18, 2016

Dear Larry,

I just learned of your son Greg's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences.

March 18, 2016

Pat, Larry and family, please accept our condolences and our prayers for the passing of Gregory. God bless you all. Love Nancy & Art Lair

Rob Nelson

March 18, 2016

Larry and Pat,
We were sadden to hear of your loss. May God give the strength to get this difficult time. On behalf of the entire Nelson family, our thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

Mary Grant

March 18, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry,
My heart is filled with sorrow for you.
May Gregory's soul rest in peace!
Affectionately,
Mary Grant

Mary Kupferschmid

March 18, 2016

To the Shadek Family:
We have so many fond memories of Greg (or Shadek as we liked to call him at the Alpine Swim and Racquet Club.) We are all so heartbroken to hear of Greg's passing. May God Bless your loving family and may Greg rest in eternal peace with the Lord. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now.

March 18, 2016

Dear Pat, Larry and Family,
We are so sorry for Gregs passing. He will be remembered always. May the love and prayers of family and friends get u through this difficult time.
Warm regards
Cyndy and John Pierce

Lawrence Mayer

March 18, 2016

Saddened to learn of greg's


So sorry about Greg's passing. He was a special young man who I came to know, understand and respect during our time together at THS. Loved reading that he made it through St. John's. Such a loss at such a young age. He and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. He is at peace.
Lawrence Mayer

John Boese

March 18, 2016

Dear Larry and Pat,

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.

John and Cathy Boese

Kathleen Pless

March 18, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of Greg's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

Pat Aquilano

March 18, 2016

Pat, so sorry to hear of your loss, he is now at peace, stay strong. Fond memories will last forever.

March 17, 2016

Dear Pat, Larry, and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May Gregory find peace and light.

Deborah and David Wismer and family

Marie Rizzo

March 17, 2016

Words could never express my sincerest condolences for your sorrow..I pray Our Lord holds fast to Gregory's hand as he is lead into a land of eternal peace..my love & prayers go out to you in the days ahead

Jody and Ron Grunfeld

March 17, 2016

Dear Pat,Larry and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jody and Ron Grunfeld and family send their heartfelt condolences.

Barbara & Bob Sarvis

March 17, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry,
Barbara and I just received the sad news about your son Greg. We are at a loss for words. Please know that our thoughts are with the entire Shadek family.

Ken Miller

March 17, 2016

Dear Shadek Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of your son, Gregory. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Alice Beezer Sullivan

March 17, 2016

Pat,
My deepest heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son. May he eternally rest in the arms of his Savior.

March 17, 2016

I was saddened to learn of Greg's death. So young. So tragic. We shared a greatt deal during our three years together at THS. He had his struggles but made it through. So proud to learn he graduated St. John's as you must have been. I'll remember him and you in my prayers.
Lawrence Mayer

Robert & Joanne Hammer

March 17, 2016

Dear Larry,Pat and Family,
Our deepest condolences go out to you at this time. Our hearts are truly saddened. May the love of your family and friends help you get through this difficult time.

Bob & Candy Olender

March 17, 2016

Larry & Pat: You and your family are in our prayers. We hope you take comfort in knowing that Greg is free of the pain he has endured. Your faith and love will help you through this tragic loss.

David & Jamie McLain

March 17, 2016

Larry and Pat, we are truly saddened to hear of your family's loss. Please accept our sincere condolences, and your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

The Garcia Family

March 17, 2016

Mr. And Mrs. Shadek,

Our Family is feeling loss of your beloved Gregory.

No words can express how immensity sadden we are.
Please know that our thoughts and
Prayers are with you.

May God and Greg's smiles shine upon you, Mark, Chris and family.

With deepest sympathy,

Martha Garcia

March 17, 2016

Mr and Mrs Shadek we are very sorry to hear about your loss our deepest and sincere condolences. I remember all the good times I had with him when I babysit him ... Martha Garcia and family

Jannica Valenzuela

March 17, 2016

Dear Shadek Family,

I always felt like Greg was part of the family. He was like a brother and there are no words for how deeply he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

meredith & Carl doerge

March 17, 2016

Pat and Larry and family, We are so sadden by your loss. We know the years of worry and suffering that families go through with this terrible disease. It is not just for one person to deal with, but for whole families and loved ones. Losing Greg is the worse result. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. Greg is at peace. with Love , Meredith and Carl Doerge

March 17, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry,
I just heard about your terrible loss. I am so very sorry. My most sincere condolences.
Kindest regards,
Kameron and Richelle Rabenou

Ferolie

March 17, 2016

Larry, Pat - Our hearts go out to you and your family. We will all miss Greg. Peace.

Jimmy, Leslie, AJ and Jamie Ferolie

Joe Keefe

March 17, 2016

Dear Larry and Pat,
The entire Pax World family is heartbroken for your loss and you are very much in our thoughts and prayers. We send our deepest condolences together with our love to you and your family.

Alex Parlamis

March 16, 2016

Shadek family:

Please accept my condolences on your tragic loss. May Greg's memory be eternal! My thoughts are with you all.

March 16, 2016

Dear Larry and Pat,
Linda and I are heart-broken over the loss of your son. Your family has been such an important fixture to our Alpine community and School for so long that we all feel pain when the Shadek family suffers.
God Bless.
Philip and Linda Simotas

March 16, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry,
Debbie and I send our condolences. We are so sorry for this incredible loss. We will keep the entire Shadek family in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Debbie and Pete Abitante

Archie Picinich

March 16, 2016

Dear Larry and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on your loss. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Archie and Nancy Picinich and Family

March 16, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
We send our deepest sympathy,
Linda and Jim Robinson

John & Gigi Owens

March 16, 2016

Dear Larry, Pat and family,
Our sincere condolences on your loss. May your fond memories of Greg bring you strength during this difficult time.

Alicia & Keith DuBois

March 16, 2016

Larry, Pat and family,

Our hearts ache for your loss. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Bill Whited

March 16, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry, there are no words that can heal your hearts at this time. You lost your child here on earth, but I assure you, you will see him again in Heaven. We place our trust in Jesus Christ and can know He understands our pain. He Loves us so. Continue to place your needs and hurt in His hands and believe one day we will never have pain and loss and grief again! We have His word on that! Love Pattie, Bill & Cory W.

March 16, 2016

Dear Larry and family,
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marc and Judith Pozner

March 16, 2016

Larry and Pat: Our family mourns the loss of Greg. Our son, James, was his Tenafly classmate. We offer our prayers and sincere condolences.
The Sullivan Family John, Brendan, Meggie and James

Barbara & Chris Cole

March 16, 2016

Pat, Larry & Family
May your memories of Greg and the love of God and your family surround you and give you strength and peace in the days ahead.

Peggy Wissler

March 16, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. Greg will be remembered with fond memories.

Chris and Donna Brown

March 16, 2016

Larry and Pat,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

John Westervelt

March 16, 2016

Larry, So sorry for your loss. Jules and Greg were in my math class their senior year at Tenafly. I enjoyed getting to know Greg and watching him play football. We had a great time in that class. My God Bless Greg and his family.
John Westervelt

March 16, 2016

Larry & Pat,
The Malesardi Family sends their deepest condolences. May Greg rest in peace.

Steve, Tammy, Michael, Paul, Christopher & Maraea Hamersma

March 16, 2016

Pat & Larry, May Greg no longer be in pain, and have peace with God. It can never be easy to loose a child. Greg was very special, and we are honored to have known a fine young man that lost his way.
Our Love is with you all during this time.

March 16, 2016

Larry & Pat and family
Our heartfelt condolences on your loss.
George & Sandy Bonifacio

Lisa Sherman

March 16, 2016

Dear Pat & Larry,

Our most heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May Greg rest in peace.

Lisa, Eric, Brian and Carly Sherman

Joanne Benitez-Clark

March 16, 2016

March 16, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this tragic and sad time.
Barbara Cicco

Nancy Taylor

March 16, 2016

Wrapping the all of the Shadeks in soft prayers.

Sue DePalma

March 16, 2016

Dear Larry & family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. I wish you peace in your heart as time passes. Regards, Sue DePalma (Alpine Board of Education)

Joanne Benitez-Clark

March 16, 2016

Chris Natoli

March 16, 2016

Dear Pat and Larry:

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. There are no words that come to mind that will ease your pain so all I can say is that I have been thinking of you and your family and may the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Love, Chris and Joey Natoli and Mark Carlson

Benitez-Clark Joanne

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Joanne Benitez-Clark

March 16, 2016

Greg has been a member of our family since he was a junior at Tenafly High School. No holiday and birthday celebration was complete without him at the table, right next Jules. We loved Greg like our own and he will always have that special place in our hearts. He is now with God and finally in peace. Our hearts are heavy and we will continue to love and miss him.

Our heartfelt condolences to Pat, Larry and their whole family. Please find comfort in the knowledge that he is now free and peaceful. His life path on earth was short but it was also a difficult one. Now he is free.

Greg, we love you so very much. Be happy and peaceful....

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