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John Scalice Obituary

SCALICE
John J., 89, of Fair Lawn, NJ passed away on Monday, February 6, 2012. Born and raised in New York City, he resided in Fair Lawn since 1964.
He graduated in 1980 from Thomas Edison College in Trenton with a bachelor's degree in education. A proud Army Air Corps veteran of World War II, he was a member of the Air Force Club. Mr. Scalice was a parishioner of St. Anne R.C. Church, member of the Cosmos Club, Senior Center and Chrysathemum Club all located in Fair Lawn. John enjoyed dancing and oil painting.
Prior to retiring, he was a teacher with Passaic County Technical and Vocational High School in Wayne for twenty years.
Beloved husband of the late Lucy (Zoccano) Scalice. Loving and devoted father of Douglas, Ronald, Richard and Gregory Scalice. Cherished grandfather of seven and great grandfather of four.
A funeral mass is planned for Friday, February 10, 2012, 9:30 AM at St. Anne R.C. Church, 15-05 St. Anne Street, Fair Lawn, NJ. Interment will follow at George Washington Memorial Park in Paramus. The family will receive relatives and friends Wednesday and Thursday 3-9 PM at Vander Plaat-Caggiano Funeral Home, 13-31 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ, 201-797-3500. For additional information, please visit,
www.vpfairlawn.com.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Feb. 7, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for John Scalice

53 Entries

Ronald Scalice

February 8, 2023

Anniversario 2023. I was just thinking of you today realizing that it is two days past the 11th anniversary of your passing. As you know I just celebrated my 36th anniversary of my 29th birthday back in December. That was always a month you and I shared. My Chance dog's anniversary of his passing is 2-13. Although it's just been one year since we lost Chance, I can't tell you how much I miss him. He was a great dog. Now I am dealing with my knees, so Tucker is now with Michael and Nicole. I guess that is best for now. Please know that I love you dad and I'll be seeing you one day. Until then, I'll have to get on with the work for today.
Love Ronald

Ronald J Scalice

December 7, 2022

Ronald J Scalice

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Ronald J Scalice

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Ronald J Scalice

December 7, 2022

Dad,
Buon Compleanno. Hope all is well with you today. Just now and then, I like to update you on family matters and the way we are here. Cindy and I are grandparents for one year now. Adelynn's birthday is October 30th. We love her and although she still hasn't gotten any teeth as of yet, she loves my meatballs. I know you'd enjoy them as well. I've been trying to finish Kim and Kevin's house but still find myself behind the 8-ball, so to speak. I really am blessed with the amount of work I've had in the last couple of years. I spent the time and money back in October to refinish the carriage house. I had to unload everything from the garage and had an epoxy floor installed. Then I ordered new cabinets and a car lift. I know you'd like to see what an improvement it is. Michael and Nicole have just celebrated 10 years together. I've been able to help them make some improvements to their house as well. I always remember your birthday and the "day of infamy". I know you wouldn't be happy to see the state of affairs this country is in currently. We are very close to all-out war in so many ways. I pray for peace in this corrupt world that we must endure. Greg had come back with a clean bill of health for now on his lung cancer. What a blessing it is to speak to him and he really knows what counts. He has now mentioned The Lord in speaking about his remaining time here. That in itself is comforting to know that he is on the right path. Our new dog, Tucker is staying with Mike and Nicole as my knees have been severe at times and I can't walk him too well. You and mom are in my daily prayers and wherever you may be at this time, I know that we will meet again. So for now dad, know that I still love you very much and think always of your immense influence in my life.
Love Ronald

Ronald J Scalice

December 9, 2021

Dad,
Sorry, I'm a day late, however, you were on my mind yesterday and your birth date did not elude me as it's been 80 years since that "Day Of Infamy" December 7, 1941. This year literally has been a blitz with work being so busy, it's hard to catch up. Cindy has just started to go back into the office after a year and a half. Chance has been in and out of the vet with minor issues. As you know, it's better for me to be busy and keep my mind on the importance here in this life. I wish you were here to share in the birth of our first grandchild. Her name is Adelynn and she is preciously 6 weeks old now. She came into this world a month early weighing in at just 5 lbs or so. I have been trying to research our family a little, so I've been through a bunch of pictures from the past. It's pretty interesting. I only wish I had made the time to sit with you when you were with us to find out about these things. Covid-19 is still the rage so you don't really know what to think. I did lose a good friend in all this, so it does hold some merit in my books. I wanted you to know my heart is very close to you and have been reading quite a bit in the Bible. I will always profess my immense love and admiration for my dad. Love Ron

Our place 7-3-20

Ronald Scalice

December 6, 2020

Dad, Happy Birthday 2020. This has been the year of the pandemic alright! Uncle Pete passed in October of this year and 18 years after Aunt Joyce. She is probably saying "what took you so long?" Cindy's dad, Richard, just passed 11-29-20. Please pray for her mom who is now in the hospital fighting. Kimberly and Kevin were married 7-3-20 as you know and have just closed on their first home. The closing was exactly 40 years after our first closing 10-28-80. I am paying it forward as my father in law did for us and am helping them get situated in their new home. Please say hello to mom for me. I love you always, Ron.

Michael & Ron out for a spin 03-28-20

Ronald Scalice

April 6, 2020

Dad,
I'm sorry I missed writing to you this past February 6th. A lot has happened in just two short months. The world has changed in ways we could never see coming. Maybe that's the key, to always stand ready. To keep awake and be ready to accept the things that we cannot yet understand. I can't wait to see you again. You were a marvelous example for me. I've been continuing to write my book. I'm savoring the memories in a book through all the cars I've owned. I love you, dad. Please pray for us here while we wait patiently for our reunion.
Love Ron

Future engineer

Ronald Scalice

February 6, 2018

Happy Birthday dad. Not much to write this cold February night. I sent you a picture of our family tradition of engineering minds. Michael is still trying to put our '72 back together after rebuilding the heads almost 2 years ago! Oh well what can I say, he's in love now and you know how that goes... I think Richard will be writing to you sooner or later. Doug and Rich still at odds. I'm still praying. The Lord works in mysterious ways and in His time. He always knows what's best. Amen I love you dad

MIKE & NICOLE 12-3-17

Ronald Scalice

December 7, 2017

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD "BUON COMPLEANNO"
I always remember Pearl Harbor Day.
I love you and miss you. Donald Trump was elected President last November. I think you'd agree he's a good President. The world is a mess, but I can't wait until the day we meet again. I wanted you and mom to know that Michael got engaged last night to Nicole. She's very nice, a good cook and her family is very nice as well. He's been going with her since Dec. 2012, just after you left us dad. I know you guys would love her too. Her dad has another brain tumor he is having chemo therapy for. Please pray for him to get well again. Michael and I sold our 2011 Camaro; not much time for the cars this year. I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you dad.

January 29, 2017

1995 COMP T/A

December 10, 2014

Dad,
Just thought of dropping you a note, since your birthday just passed. I always felt badly about my birthday being in December, but loved the fact that I shared that birth month with you. A lot has happened this past year, some of which you'd be happy about. I've learned that, some things never change. I know that you'd be happy with the way your house turned out. I know you wouldn't be happy with all the bickering. I am appreciative that I did get a little sum and have spent most of it to pay bills. However, there is one purchase I made with your legacy. I bought another Trans Am. This one is pretty rare and is one of only 164 made from '95-'97. Anyway, I know you'd be happy that I'm driving another fine automobile. I do still miss you from time to time, but I know that you are consumed with the Almighty. Please give mom a kiss and tell her I love her.
Your loving son,
Ron

June 12, 2013

Hi Dad:
Happy Father's Day. It's been a trying and turbulent year and a half without you. Many times I have gone to dial your phone # (as we used to speak at least 1x per week) only to remind myself that you could not answer the phone. After a while, I finally had to delete your phone # from speed dial.
I hope you received all my best thoughts for you.
I'm sure you are @ peace with God, Mom and everyone else who touched your mortal life. Say hi to Aunt Bessie too!
Miss speaking with you. Little things remind me of you often.
Love you always,
Greg

2010 Trans Am

Ron Scalice

June 11, 2013

Dad,
I'm sorry I haven't written in a while, but I didn't realize this is a permanent book. This weekend is Father's Day. To celebrate the day, Michael and I will be at the Wings and Wheels show at Teterboro Airport. I'm sure we will see a lot of friends from your club. It will certainly bring back fond memories of you and spending the day with my son will be special. I love you and hope you're praising the Lord with mom. Attached is a picture of the car we'll be bringing. I know you'd love it dad.
Peace be with you and enjoy your father's day with our Father.
Love Always,
Ron

February 7, 2013

Poppy John,

It is one year since your passing. I miss you dearly each and every day, especially your great stories and paintings. I'm grateful that I got to spend as much time with you as I did and will see you one day in heaven.

Love Always,

Kim

Ronald Scalice

February 7, 2013

Dad,
It's been one year since your passing. I miss you immeasurably. I wish you were here to see how we've grown. I know you'd be proud. Please give mom a kiss for me. I now understand how tough it is to be a parent through living this life. This is indeed God's way having us see His light and how much He loves us. Thanks for the many ways you guided us along the way. I know Kimberly and Michael wanted to write but are so busy in their own lives. You've been an important force in my life and shaping my beliefs and convictions. I love you and mom always for putting up with me and loving to see a job well done to its completion.
Love Ron

February 7, 2013

One year ago, you left us Popps... quietly slipping into the realm of the Higher-up; to the Heaven above; to the arms of Jesus. This past Sunday, our church family was in rememberance with me, of the special moments we had, in the day before you left, as well as the year prior. What love was expressed from these brethren, in our reminiscing, as well as the totality of all they gave to you!! This truly shown as the example(s) that Christ showed, & what He encouraged that we follow in. Amazing how many years you were on this earth; & yet, it is all so short... so quick... so fleeting. Like the time since Mom has passed, over 9 yrs ago, & yet seems like just 5 Mo's ago. Amazing how many things came out, when you knew you were departing, Popps... how much insight you gained, & how many sage words you had...only those things which are known in the Heavenly, & are greater than all the knowledge you gained on this earth! I am still humbled by how much I was priveleged, to be able to have taken care of you...the year was destined by GOD, that you were led to your greater attainment, in fully being given the Grace & Salvation of Jesus. Only those who witnessed it, can attest to that transformation. How much my heart sings knowing you are in that better place, that many will expect to attend, but fewer will attain. You knew so much more in your final days here; you knew of those who were doing things because you shared behind-the-scenes things, that can only be known with Spiritual Enlightenment. If only more could have witnessed your Celebration Service... that even those words that I chose to call it...feeling that it would be a celebration of your recovery; and, it was, just not in the way I anticipated. Oh, I knew you were telling me things in advance of departing, sharing things about family members, and giving me instructions; but, still, I didn't want to let you go. Yours was a special life. Blessed in so many ways. It was made even more special when the Angels came to take you home...I will only know when I see you again, if Mom was with them; or, if she awaited in The Beyond. Amazing things came from your time here... only I saw your eyes open wide, during your final days when your body was quite unresponsive (physically)... how you opened them, so quickly, so sharply, so wide, & looked up toward the corner of the ceiling... I knew then, that either Jesus, or the Angels were near. Unbeknownst to me, till after you passed were the words of sister Monica, who, while she was in the dining room praying for you, during service, told me she saw Angels above you. She knew nothing of what I had previously witnessed nor of your eyes opening wide to see such a Glorious sight!! I gained new perspecctives about your life, with the stories you shared; some that were previously unknown, or made clearer. One aspect was your love of flying. That you went to Aviation High School; immersed yourself in all things aeronautical, got to be part of your instructors design, building & flying his experimental aircraft; then, unxepectedly got to work as a Procurement Officer, as such a young age, because of your knowledge, expertise & dedication to precision detail. Being part of the critical nature of the Norton Bombsight was well beyond your years. Even later, entering the Army Air Force, & working on the planes, as an Aircraft Mechanic; then, later still gaining entrance into Aviation Flight School to become a pilot. We can never know what lay ahead, if you got your wings & went overseas...GOD had other plans, and we are here because of them. How ironic that you were "called home" because your Dad was dying. That your Dad remained long enough for you to come by train, arrive @ his bedside & die in your arms. The irony being that you were again "called Home", on February 6th, the same date as your Dad passed, in your arms. Only those who got to witness, could see that as the song "Oh Glorious Day" was playing, that you lifted both your arms, in praise of GOD, & in affirmation that Jesus is coming back, and that He was taking you into His arms. Was it also the songs words, "My Savior Jesus is mine"? Only few witnessed it; but, on telling & re-telling it, the miracle is evident.. you were not even able to lift your hand to a hand-shake level, nor have much voluntary movement to even scratch your nose.. YET, in worship service, oh, how your life was a testimony that there MOST DEFINITELY IS more to this life, than what ends w/ our physical bodies... that these events can well be tahe light that illuminates the minds of many others; some who have such hard hearts, doubt, and no desire to know more. And, even still, in remembering your final day, it did not end with your 5a.m. de-parture... that you designed a visit, to awaken me @ 2a.m. that night, & let me "see" the Glorious & Brilliant Light that you were (now) part of. And, to let me see that you were sitting @ 'The Banquet Table' in Heaven. The seque was stark,,,you saw what was happening even before you left; but now, even more clearly you see... yes, that one of us, "will be going into The Master's Program", or, "going for The Master's Degree". Failing that, will mean kicking forever. Well, appropriately, I found these shots of you, with your Air Force Association, and @ the air show, w/ your favorite B-17. Truly, you ended up getting 'your wings', and are flying high!! Except now, you don't need your oxygen mask above 10,000 feet. Love you always Dad, until forever, Richard

October 29, 2012

Dad,
I've been thinking of you a lot lately. I hope all is well where you are. I wanted to share our latest project with you. Michael and I completed this Trans formation of a 2010 Camaro into our favorite brand, "Pontiac". Yes that is a 2010 Trans Am. I am proud to tell you that my son has your logical engineering mind. This took us about 40 hrs. in the garage.
Love Ron

September 4, 2012

Today was the 9th anniversary of Mom's passing... been thinking of it all day. Since Dad's passing this year, it's made it all the more acute, in knowing both our parents are gone. I do take heart that both Mom & Dad reside in the presence of our GOD. When Dad & I were departing the hospital, after Mom passed, she let me know she was with us... as I opened my car door, her redolence unmistakably wafted out of the car. There was no way it could have gotten in there before...Mom never drove in my car!!! I had the distinct sensation Mom was letting me know she was going on up ahead, & that she was ok. (I wonder if they have any harps that need "jubileeing" in Heaven?) I also realized that Mom respected Dad...his collection of shoes were about the only things that she didn't apply Jubilee to!! In so many ways, I have thought of many of life's lessons that Mom imparted, after her death...they seem to float back @ times when I need them. Thanks Mom. If they have pasta up there, I'm sure you have a pot of 'sauce' on for Dad!! Your # 3 son (yes, always had to remind her which one I was), Richard

August 22, 2012

Melanie,
Please add this photo to last entry.
Thank you

August 22, 2012

Cindy & Ron 8-19-12

Ronald Scalice

August 22, 2012

Dad,
I was thinking of you this past Sunday 8-19-12. Cindy and I went to the Greenwood Lake Air show. We spoke with some of the people in your club. Paul and Donna Cusano were missing you. I wished you could have been here. We really had a good time and we entered the new car in the show. Attached are some pictures, so you can see.
Love Ron

August 22, 2012

Dad,
Sure missing you. I wish you could see the progress in our garage. Michael has great aptitude with cars. I just want him to finish his education first.
Love Ron

Ronald Scalice

June 17, 2012

Ronald Scalice

June 17, 2012

Dad,
Happy Father's Day
I had a great day today with my family.
I treasure these moments and miss you even more. I know you are in great hands,for, Our Father's hands are all love. Michael sends his love as well.
Love,
your son Ronald

Kimberly TCNJ Graduation 5-11-12

Ronald Scalice

May 22, 2012

Kimberly and Dad

Ronald Scalice

May 22, 2012

Kimberly and Michael

Ronald Scalice

May 22, 2012

TCNJ 5-11-12

Ronald Scalice

May 22, 2012

WPU Graduation 2008

Ronald Scalice

May 22, 2012

I miss you dad and know that you'd be very proud of your grand daughter Kimberly. She made her Masters on May 11, 2012. I know you were an inspiration for her, throughout her educational studies.Just remembering the day she graduated William Paterson University, in the rain. You still offered us that smile, of a man happy to be there, regardless of the weather.

May 3, 2012

Just sharing this for those of you who haven't seen before. Dad's care and precision were prevalent wherever he went and for no other reason than to do the right thing.

May 3, 2012

I just wanted to add this about our dad that some never knew.
Love Ron

Ronald Scalice

March 13, 2012

This was a reminder of how good dad was to me, in never forgetting to praise me for the work I did. Through all the floods- trials and tribulations, dad always had a positive perspective of the good outcome. If we listened, he always gave compliments and praises as we were growing up, even though he may not have been there at the time. The message is: we should All make an attempt, daily, to compliment and give praises to others. It may just lift another human being out of the muck and mire of the daily life in this world. And I say thanks to dad, he did that for me.

Love Ronald

"Mans Best Friend"

Ronald Scalice

March 3, 2012

God's Creations are all in harmony.
Shadow and Champ will miss Pop too.

Ronald Scalice

February 22, 2012

Dad,
I'm missing you today, this Ash Wednesday 2012. As I receive my ashes today, I will say a special prayer for you dad and think of you in your glory with mom and your brothers and sister and with Christ who suffered the ultimate for us all. Please hold the gate ajar for me dad, knowing that I'll be far behind you on the road to glory. My only desire is that I can attain satisfactory marks for my efforts while I'm here.
Love,
Your son Ronald

Greg Scalice

February 13, 2012

Dad had a wonderful outlook on life, enjoyed a long and full life and was a man of pride and honor.
It was very touching to me that everyone who knew him all said he had a great smile that would light up a room, had many talents and made others around him happy to know him.
I'm grateful he was my Father.
With love his son Greg

Dad and Michael 1991

February 12, 2012

Carolyn Jones

February 9, 2012

I was blessed to serve John in his walk to wellness and in his time of decline. He had a fighting spirit and love for life that showed thru his community involvement, friends and family. He even made the papers with his thespian endeavors. I watched Richard direct his treatment that tranformed John to be able to have quality of life. My speical memory is Little "Amori' who comforted John on his bed to the end. John was an inspiration to me and showed me there are no real barrier with age and we are never too old to embrance and benefit from change. I celebrate his life and his new life in Jesus Christ - he fought the good fight!

Leah Brown

February 9, 2012

Although I didn't know Papa john for very long, he will remain in my heart forever. I will always remember him as someone who smiled and loved life and lived it to the fullest. He never let things get him down. I remember when he found Magical Moments and got to perform Singing in the Rain and How much is that doggie in the window. He couldn't wait to share those experiences with everyone. He reminded me that no matter what is going on in our own lives, we should enjoy the life we have and share that joy with others. I know he is singing and dancing in Heaven.

Ed Jones

February 9, 2012

All who knew John knew of his great sense of humor, and gusto for living life to the fullest. Even as he worked to keep his physical well being, he gave to others in many ways. It was a privildege to know him.

Richard Scalice

February 9, 2012

My Popps was special to so many people. He affected so many lives in a positive way. To a person, all who knew him were enriched by him.

John Scalice

February 8, 2012

I would like to express my deepest condolences to my cousins and their families on the recent passing of your father and my godfather John Scalice. My wife, Lygia also sends her thoughts and prayers to you and your families at this difficult time.
Although I haven't seen your dad that much in recent years but over the years that I did see him and spend much quality time with him I came to love and respect him a lot. I realize his great kindness and compassion towards his friends and family. And that he was very highly respected by his professional and personal friends.
You were all truly fortunate to have a man such as your father in your life serving as such a great role model.
Warmest regards
Your cousin John Scalice

Lanny Allen

February 7, 2012

Mr. Scalice was my HVAC teacher at Passaic County Tech. Very nice and knowledgeable teacher.

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