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Robert Pendergast Obituary

PENDERGAST Robert J., of Woodcliff Lake on January 19, 2011. Beloved husband of Suzanne J. (nee Kann). Devoted father of Andrew J. and Brennan W. Loving brother of Mary Ritter and her husband Wolfgang, Edwin T. and his wife Teresa, Patricia Carroll and her husband Brian and James M. and his wife Gwenaele. Dear uncle of Stephen, Maria, John Cayetana and Liam. Cherished nephew of Sister Patricia Walsh O.P. Son-in-law of Alice Kann and Brother-in-law of Garry Kann. Bob was a graduate of Clemson University. He was President of Access Risk Services, New York. Bob was a member of Hackensack Golf Club Oradell. He was a member of The Samuel Zell and Robert Lurie Real Estate Center at Wharton. Bob was the Treasurer of the Diamond Club at Bergen Catholic H.S. Oradell and the General Manager of the Pascack Colts Baseball Team. Friends may call at the Barrett Funeral Home, 148 Dean Dr. Tenafly on Sunday 6-9 PM and Monday 4-8 PM. Funeral Mass Tuesday 11 AM Mt. Carmel Church, Tenafly. Interment Brookside Cemetery, Englewood. For directions visit www.barrettfuneralhome.net.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Jan. 21, 2011.

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Marty Stakem

February 4, 2024

Hello,
I was an early friend of Bob's at Clemson. We called him Pendo. I was feeling nostalgic today and started looking at some old friendships. I was shocked and saddened to read about Pendo. Taken so soon. I always knew that he would have a successful life and share it with great family.
That's all. Best to all of Bob's loved ones.

Marty Stakem

Len Resto

January 15, 2023

Hard to believe 12 years have gone by for what seems like only yesterday. Bob, you are frequently in my thoughts and miss you dearly. Thank you for being a part of my life.

Leonard Resto

January 15, 2022

How quickly the years have gone by. I miss you and thank you for all the mentorship you provided me over the years. You were my biggest supporter and I will never forget that! Until we meet again.

Len Resto

January 15, 2021

Hard to believe that 10 years have gone by. I think of Bob often as he was one of those individuals that impacted my life in a very positive way. The entire family is in my prayers this day.

Angelo Sapuppo

January 31, 2011

Dear Suzanne, My deapest sympathies to you and your family. I cant believe I just read this. I just saw him a few weeks ago at your house, and was very surprised as I'm sure everyone else was . If you need anything done around the house , please call me. My prayers are with you.

Gary Scheumann

January 31, 2011

My condolences for the loss of Robert. I have not seen him since High School, but remember him as a very genuine and considerate. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Greg Henkin

January 25, 2011

I had not seen Bob in many years but remember his wit and compelling personality from my Aon days. What a tragic loss at such a young age my deepest sympathies to Suzy, Andrew and Brennan!

Marianne Maloney

January 24, 2011

Dear Ed and Terri and Maria- know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other.

Rich Wolfin

January 24, 2011

Dear Suzanne, Andrew and Brennan,
Please accept our families profound sympathies on this sudden terrible loss. Bob and I attended high school together. I will always remember his quiet dignity and wry sense of humor. He will be missed by many. May he rest in peace.
Susan, Rich, Jake, Samantha and Ben Wolfin

Donna Barron

January 24, 2011

My deepest sympathy and condolences on Bob's early passing. I worked with Bob at Aon and continued to do business with him at Access. He was always quick with his wit, so personable, smart thinker and a friend. He will be missed.

Gary Mathieson

January 23, 2011

Dear Suzanne, Andrew, Brennan and the Pendergast family,
We are deeply saddened and our hearts reach out to you at this sudden and unexpected loss of our good friend. I knew Bob for the last 17 years and experienced his unique and passionate approach to his business and family. In business, Bob literally dragged the rest of us along with him in attaining the best result and often made one feel the “magic” of the Bob experience. His greatest joy was talking about Suzanne and the boys. Whether it was a milestone in sports or education, or simply relaying the latest vacation details, Bob had a twinkle in his eye as he told the stories about the family. Bob was a unique blend of the Irish storyteller , technology enthusiast and friend that simply wanted to make your experience ,and life itself , memorable with a special dash of Bobby style.
Our prayers are with you all,
The Mathiesons

Scott McCollum

January 22, 2011

I have known Bob for a little over 4 years now. We worked business together between Dubai and New York. Bob was always the most professional and dedicated individual in everything he did. He spoke warm and loving of his family on his frequent business trips to Dubai when we would meet. I know he leaves behind those wonderful people, as well as those he worked with at Access Risk, who loved him and will miss him dearly. I just wanted you all to know he touched me as well and I am so sorry for your loss.

Nelson Family

January 22, 2011

Dear Suzanne, Andrew & Brennan
We were shocked & deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved Bob. It is with deep regret that we are unable to attend services, for we are away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Luciana, Brian, Wes, Adam and Natasha Nelson

Catherine Whitney

January 22, 2011

Suzanne and family, I worked with Bob for many years. As I recall our association, I realize how fortunate I was to know him. He was more of a friend than a colleague. His integrity and sparkle improved the quality of my life. Bob's passing is so unexpected. I thought there were decades of more time to be with him. He so often talked of the family. I join you now in the mourning of this loss. Bob leaves a void, but it will be filled by all the good memories of his company and lessons learned from his wisdom.
With much symapthy, Catherine Whitney

Steve Zaretsky

January 22, 2011

To the family of Robert Pendergast ,
Bob and I were classmates at Pascack Hills high school and I have only the fondest of memories of him. I would like to express my heartfelt sorrow in your loss and may his memory be a blessing to all!
Steve Zaretsky and family

Susan Noss

January 22, 2011

Sear Suzanne and Family. My heart is with you. I knew Bob when we were growing up in Woodcliff Lake. He had a beautiful and cheerful demeanor that I will always remember. Love & Blessings, Susan Noss

Susan Noss

January 22, 2011

Suzanne and Family, My heart is with you during this most sorrowful time. I knew Bob when we were growing up in Woodcliff Lake. I remember his beautiful and cheerful demeanor. Love and Blessings, Susan Noss

Angie and DJ Psarras

January 22, 2011

Dear Suzanne,Andy,Brennan and family,
Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time.
"I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." Leo Buscaglia

Annie, Gary & Kathryn Pawlak

January 21, 2011

My heart goes out to Suzanne, Andy, Brennan and the family,
Words can not express my sorrow for the loss of my dear fiend, colleague and mentor. You will be so missed. There will always be a space in my heart for Bob and his memory forever.
Can not imagine not talking every day but know you will looking down on me and keeping me on my toes.
All our love and prayes. Annie and family

Al Diamond

January 21, 2011

Suzanne,

I was stunned to hear of Bob's early passing. He was one of my favorite people: always with a ready smile, a wry barb or a thoughtful comment. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons.

January 21, 2011

Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time in your life.

Gabriela, Jorge and Keith Ferrero
Woodcliff Lake

Michael Haviland

January 21, 2011

Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

MIchael, Susan, Michael, Tyler & Lauren Haviland

January 21, 2011

Dear sweet Suzanne my heart is broken for you and the boys at this time. It was so wonderful seeing you and Bob during the Christmas Season. Your freindship will always be treasured. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love and hugs. Kathy Moore (Anderson, SC)

Seymour Williams

January 21, 2011

Andrew:
May God give comfort to you and your family in this your time of grief.

January 21, 2011

Condolences to Mary and Wolfgang and the entire family on your tragic loss.
Susan and Robert Flamholtz

Julie Pitrelli

January 21, 2011

Suzanne, Andrew and Brennan

My prayers are with you at this difficult time. Bob was a wonderful man and he was proud of his beautiful family. He will be forever in your hearts.

Sherry Hines

January 21, 2011

Andrew, I am so sorry to here about the passing of your Father, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Carin Gannon

January 21, 2011

Andrew: My condolences on your loss. May your memories be long and your grief short. (ACE-Global Services-CMP)

Leonard Resto

January 21, 2011

Bob always treated me so well, it was such a pleasure working for him. I am stunned at his early passing and extend my heartfelt sympathy to Suzy, Andrew and Brennan. Bob could always light up a room and took things in stride. He was a kind boss who would go out of his way to do unexpected things for you. He was one of a kind. May God be with you at this time and in the days, weeks and months to come.

January 21, 2011

My son Ryan played baseball for one of the Pascack Colts teams with Brennan. I remember when I first met Bob how warm and welcoming he was. All the parents really liked and respected him. He was very dedicated to the team and made a huge contribution to all the boys as well as the parents. He was one of those special people that will never be forgotten.....that's the type of impression he left with me and I only knew him for a short time. My heart goes out to his family with my deepest sympathy. Harold and Lori Robbins

January 21, 2011

To the family of Robert Pendergast, I express my sincere sorrow.
Barbara BenDavid.
Friend of Mary and Wolfgang

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