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David Flath Obituary

David (Dave) Edward Flath March 3, 1939 - August 7, 2013 Pomfret Center - David (Dave) Edward Flath, 74, son of the late Ruth Stiles and Elmer A. Flath, born March 3, 1939, in White Plains, NY and long-time resident of Pomfret Center, CT passed away on August 7, 2013 after a 3 year battle with lung cancer (PLEASE STOP SMOKING). David was active in the Pomfret Lions Club, the Republican Town Committee, the Pomfret Economic Development Commission, the Red Cross, and was the Chair of the Pomfret Board of Finance. He was a graduate of East Hartford High School, Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute and earned his MBA at Nichols College, Dudley, MA. He also served in the Coast Guard. He loved and supported girls' softball, as a fan and coach, was an avid golfer, an active parishioner of Christ Church, Pomfret, and was a sports enthusiast, who loved the Cleveland Indians and UCONN Women's basketball. He was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather whose life was centered around his family. He was also an accomplished artist and founder of Common Sense Payroll, LLC. He is survived by his wife, Sandy, children Dayna Flath and husband Mike Fineran, and Leslie Flath Ganz and husband Mark Ganz, grandchildren Hannah and Paloma Flath and Clara and David Ganz, brother Robert Flath, nieces Jen Cague, Rebecca Cague and husband Glenn Greenstein and son Liam, Karen Hunter and husband Larry, and nephew Bobby Flath. He was just, humble and merciful and had a peacefulness about him at all times. His family loved him dearly and we will miss his quiet smile, sense of humor and dry wit. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Community Kitchens, PO Box 502, Danielson, CT 06239. Relatives and friends are invited to celebrate Dave's life on Friday, August 16th at 5pm at Christ Church, 521 Pomfret Street, Pomfret, CT. To share a memory with his family "Light a Candle" at www.smithandwalkerfh.com

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Aug. 9, 2013.

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Scott Riegelhaupt-Herzig

August 23, 2013

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Dayna. Your father was a true gentleman.

Greg and Kathy Panu

August 16, 2013

Sandy, Dayna and family,

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy to your family. We so enjoyed Dave as a client of his. He always had a sweet smile and the happiest dancing eyes and always a nice word to say. He was a very interesting man. We will miss him. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you.

Bob Dourandish

August 16, 2013

Dave was the epitome of kindness who found a place in his heart for anyone he met. I became a better person because of the privilege of spending some time with him, and have often used him as a standard for the type of a man I'd like to be.

Sandy, Dayna, Leslie, and the entire Flath family: Please accept my deepest condolences.

Cindy Murray

August 14, 2013

So sorry for your loss Dayna. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

August 13, 2013

To Dave's Family, I am so sorry for your loss of a loving, creative, community-oriented, athletic, and kind person. With deepest sympathy, Court (aka Corky) Smith, Corvallis, Oregon.

Phillis Jaeger

August 13, 2013

Dayna & the Family: I will always remember Dave's wit and warm smile. It was always a pleasure too see him. He was a dear friend to Community Kitchens as will be sadly missed. God Bless you all.

Bonnie Ryan

August 12, 2013

Dave will be sadly missed and remembered well. My thoughts and prayers to his family.

J Bennett

August 12, 2013

When i worked at Putnam Bank he came in just about every day and it was always a pleasure to wait on him. One day he brought in a half a dozen roses for all of the tellers to show his appreciation, he was always very thoughtful and just a great person he will be missed by many.

Gerry Tetreault

August 12, 2013

Dear Sandy and your loving family, I really enjoyed working with Dave those many years ago. We had lots of good conversations and he taught me so much about computers. Actually it was the beginning of Common Sense. Also it was the time the girls were in school so that was always was a happy topic. Lots of fond memories and I know you have many. Most sincerely.

Melissa Franklin Duncan

August 10, 2013

To the Flath family,
My deepest sympathies to you all. David was a wonderful, caring and funny man who always had a smile on his face. He will be missed by they community in which he served. May peace sustain you in the days ahead.

Julie Quinn

August 10, 2013

My deepest condolences to the family. I was blessed to know Dave as a client of his but was touched by his gentlemanly manner.

Charlie & Alice Archambault

August 10, 2013

May memories of life and happiness shared sustain and comfort you in present sorrows and may the caring presence of family and friends comfort you always.

Tom and Maureen Fullmer

August 9, 2013

Our prayers to the entire family! We met David when he was visiting daughter Leslie and her husband Mark Ganz in Portland, Oregon. We immediately connected and his gentle spirit and smile clearly shined through.
God bless to all who knew and loved him. Another star in Heaven guides us and brings us peace.
Tom and Maureen
Raleigh Hills, Oregon

Doug Porter

August 9, 2013

Dayna, Sandy and family, I will miss Dave. It was always a pleasure talking with him about local politics or the UCONN girls. His smile was contagious. I will remember Dave and your family in my prayers.

August 9, 2013

Dear Mrs Flath, Dayna and Family, We are saddened to hear the loss of Mr. Flath. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Becky and Chris Rainville

Margaret Mullen

August 9, 2013

So sorry, Dayna, to learn of your Dad's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm in Maine but saw the obit. this morning.

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