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for Heather Bartholic
Jessica Despathy
April 3, 2009
Happy Birthday Heather!! Just wanted u to know that i am thinking of u!! U are so deeply missed!! Love u lots!!
Heather Carchidi(Gilmore)
April 1, 2009
I recently found out about Heather's passing. I grew up with Heather as my sister's very good friend and I as well friends with Trisha. Her parents are welcoming to the girls friends making all of us feel as family. Heather had a heart of gold and will always be remembered that way. My deepest sympathy for her family.
March 29, 2009
Heather's family can't express the feeling everyone has left us with. Your words of kindness and presence on Saturday the 21st has overwelmed us tremendously. Without all our friends and family and Heathers friends we would not be able to deal with this unbelieveable loss. Saying thank you doesn't seem enough to give to you all. Heather will always be in our hearts and when we look into her childrens eyes.
The family of Heather *
Kevin Perry
March 25, 2009
John&Nancy,
Vry sorry for your loss. We have all had losses but I hope this helps a little. Didn't know till 2 days ago when Tyler told me. My GOD be with Heather and your family.
Sincerely, Kevin A. Perry
Becky, KC, Celina, & Jadyn Miller
March 24, 2009
Uncle John, Aunt Nancy, Trisha and family, Austin, Alaina, and Erik...Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this difficult time. Heather was so admired and loved by everyone, and we will all miss her very much. I think of her on a swing in a peaceful place with the smell of flowers around her as she watches over her loved ones. She will always be in my heart...and I look forward to the day I see her again. Love to you all...
Cindi & Warren Robinson
March 24, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Heather touched a lot of lives she was a very special person and will be missed by all that new her.May you all find the strength to cherish your memories and keep them going for her children.God Bless.
Kelly Birt
March 23, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
March 22, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Brian, Alyssa & Briana Reynolds
March 21, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Anita & Mike Morey
March 21, 2009
To all Heather's loved ones. Mike & I went to school with Heather. When we think of her we always remember skate Inn, Doyles and CVS. We are so sorry for your loss. Heather was such a sweet, kind person.
Mike Minarsky
March 21, 2009
John, Nancy, and Trisha...
I just heard about your loss of Heather. I don't know what to say other than I have so many wonderful memories of her at Skate Inn and growing into a young lady. My heart and love go out to you, I am just so sorry.
March 21, 2009
Austin, Alaina, Corey, Family & Friends
Our Deepest Sympathy on your loss, Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you all.
Love, Janet, Keith & Jennifer Mattress
Casey & Scott Beverly
March 21, 2009
Corey, Austin, and Alaina we want you to know that we are thinking of you all and that we wish that there was something that we could do or say to help you through this time of sorrow. We are here for you if you need anything at all.
We love you
Auntie Casey, Uncle Scott, and Jr.
Karrie Bryant
March 21, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Heather will be greatly missed. She was a wonderful woman, and mother.
We last saw Heather at a Family fun, at SHE where we sat together with the kids and played Bingo.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
David, Karrie, and Alivia Bryant
Casey & Scott Beverly
March 21, 2009
John and Nancy please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers and we are so sorry for your loss.
Patricia Fontaine-Berube
March 20, 2009
John & Nancy
So sorry about Heather,I've sent Scott a note to tell him ,I'm sure he will be shocked as he realy liked her.
Again so Sorry.
Pat Fontaine-Berube
Gary & Lisa Gelinas
March 20, 2009
John & Nancy, We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Cathie Haggerty (Demers)
March 19, 2009
I was blessed to have had such a wonderful friend in Heather and twice as blessed to have shared her life with her family. My heart breaks for all of us to have lost someone so special. My thoughts are with you all and may her children live with knowing how much their mom loved them.
Terry Poirier
March 19, 2009
You will be missed
Tammy Robbins
March 19, 2009
John, Nancy & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.may you find the comfort and strenght in knowing that you are in the hearts and thoughts
Jim & Darlene Smith
March 19, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Shelly Lima
March 18, 2009
Austin, Alaina, Corey, Family & Friends;
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts & in our prayers.
Love the Lima Family
Marybeth (Markey)Maynard
March 18, 2009
My deepest sympathy to Heather's family. I was a classmate of Heather's in high school. Heather was always so friendly and kind to others.I would see her at her work now and then as we got older and had children of our own and still Heather was just as friendly and beautiful. My thoughts and prayers to all.
Nicole and Sophie Dragon DiPanni
March 18, 2009
We all are so very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find strength in the family and friends that surround you. Alaina, we love you dearly and we will always be here for you.
Melissa Edwards
March 18, 2009
John and Nancy,
We have never met but I feel like I know you so well because my mother, Margaret LeClair, has talked about you with such affection. I am terribly sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. May the grace of God comfort your family in this difficult time.
Jennifer {Migliore} Steveson
March 18, 2009
To Heather's family and friends.... I have not seen Heather since High School, but I always remember her with a smile on her face. I am saddened to learn of her passing for her parents, friends and family. It reminds us that life is precious and we must cherish every moment. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Bel Gilmore
March 18, 2009
I was heartbroken to hear of Heather's pass. My prayers go out to all of Heather's family and friends. She was a very special person and always smiling. I will remember the good times in High School and Mall trips. Heather's memory will live on.
carol arpin
March 18, 2009
John,nancy and family
there are no words to express how sorry we our for the loss of your daughter Heather.remember she will always be with you,in the beautiful memories you have.
our deepest sympathy
carol&mike arpin and family
Ed & Phyllis LaRose
March 18, 2009
John & Nancy
We're so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. We know how much family means to you. Please accept our condolences. We have you in our prayers.
Gail Letarte
March 18, 2009
Heather was always a very loving and caring girl. She will always have a special place in my heart.
I will miss her deeply. Love, Gail
melissa harris(shields)
March 18, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
melissa harris(shields)
March 17, 2009
what a shock this is.me and heather went to high school together and had many good times skipping school in here z24 cavalier with others going to the beaches and having good times i would also see her often at the rams field as our sons played on the seniors she was always smiling and happy those are the memories that i will cherish forever i am very sorry for your loss she will be missed but not forgotten.
jeanna zavistoski
March 17, 2009
To all whom loved Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with you .Though you have been through the most trying time ,I hope you can someday find peace as l her memory lives on . Jeanna Corey Zavistoski
Kristin Gauthier
March 17, 2009
To all who loved Heather and was blessed to know her......... My prayers are with you through these difficult times. Heather was a very kind and thoughtful person. She will be missed so much but never forgotten.
Thomas Respiratory Health Care
March 17, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers go out to heathers family and friends in this time of sorrow
Alan,Lisa Devolve
March 17, 2009
John,Nancy and Trisha, we are so sorry for your loss.You are in our thoughts and prayers.We will always remember Heather as a bright and cheerful person.She will be dearly missed..
Mary Reynoso
March 17, 2009
John, Nancy, Trish,
I am so sorry for your loss. Heather will be greatly missed- It takes time, but thank GOD for wonderful memories......... I know you have many.
Mary ( Bourque Mia's sister-) Reynoso)
Richard and Judy Frechette
March 17, 2009
John and Nancy, our prayers are with you in this time of loss. May Peace be WithYou.
Joline Mongeau (Paul Bards mom)
March 17, 2009
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul, Barbara & Jeremy Bard
March 17, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Wendy Oakes
March 17, 2009
Heather was a beatiful person. I'm so sorry for your loose.
Crystal Anderson-Furbee
March 17, 2009
John and Nancy, My family would like to extend our sincerest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers- Crystal Anderson Furbee
Kelly (Kvist) Marchesseault
March 17, 2009
John, Nancy & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Heather & I went to high school together. Everytime I went to CVS we would start chatting and hold up the line at the pharmacy. She always had a smile on her face and was a friend to everyone. She will be missed. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Pete (Grizz) Fantasia
March 17, 2009
Dear John and Nancy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Heather will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time of sorrow, as well as my everlasting friendship.
Tina Stroup
March 17, 2009
Heather was the type of person to smile at anyone that passed her by. She was terribly kind all the days that I knew her. My sincere condolences go to her family and children.
Tina Goldy Stroup
Carol Boileau-Orr
March 17, 2009
John & Nancy;
My heart skipped a beat when I read the paper and saw Heather's obituary. You gave her all the love and care any parents could give and you can be comforted in knowing she was a wonderful person. Her children will grow up with the memories of her love, and your love for them too. My deepest sympathy to you both and Trish.
Tina (Lefevre) Rybacki
March 16, 2009
Learning of Heather’s passing is such a shock. I’m deeply saddened. I wish there were words that could help ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.
Dave & Marybeth C
March 16, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Darlene King
March 16, 2009
John, Nancy & family
Please accept my condolences. I'm so sorry for the pain you all are enduring at this time. In time the pain softens just a little and you can think back on things and remember all the good times that were shared and it makes the hard times a little more bearable. May god comfort younin this time of sorrow. But remember she is with you forever through your hearts and souls. Her legacey will live on forever through all of you. God Bless all of you... Darlene King (Collelo)
Heather & Steve Tarbox
March 16, 2009
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Heather's family. You are all in our prayers. She will be remembered and missed by many.
glinda stavrou
March 16, 2009
Nancy, John and Trisha,
My heart goes out to all of you, in this most difficult of times. There are no words that can express how sorry I am. I can only hope that through her children you can find some comfort.
Keri Perreault Barr
March 16, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Ruby Reilly
March 16, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Randy&Donna Jernstrom
March 16, 2009
John& Nancy
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Daughter.May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories at this very difficult time.
Toni VanOrman
March 16, 2009
Dear John & Nancy and the rest of my cousins on the Bartholic side of our family. Van and my hearts are full of sadness for you all. Please know that we are with you in spirit if not in person. Love, Cousin Toni (Bellisario) VanOrman xo
CAROL FONTAINE, LYNELL EZZELL AND FAMILY
March 16, 2009
DEAR NANCY, JOHN AND FAMILY:
WE ARE SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. HEATHER WAS A NICE PERSON AND GOOD MOTHER. YOU WILL BE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Pat Palonen
March 16, 2009
My deepest sympathy to Heather's family.
I met Heather at Doyle Drug - as I was there often picking up items for my terminally ill, handicapped son, Trevor. Heather was so sweet and helpful to us always. May all the wonderful memories of your times together help you through the tough road ahead. Losing a child is a very difficult thing as is losing a mom for her beloved children. For all of you, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time of loss. But just remember, Heather is now your guardian angel and she will always be watching over all of you with much love.
Pat - Arvid - Travis - Trenton (Trevor/Tyler) Palonen
Diane Kokinakis (Parker)
March 16, 2009
My deepest condolences to all who loved Heather, she will remain in our hearts and memories forever.
chris, angela and krista rice
March 16, 2009
to john, nancy, erick, ailana, and austin, i am so sorry during this difficult time, i was with you during this time and will help out any of you guys in any way possible, heather held a special place in our hearts, she will be truly missed and one day we will all be able to see her again
Gail Wrobel
March 16, 2009
John,Nancy,Trisha I am so sorry for your loss .You are always in my thoughts .
Tom & Dawne Bartholic Sr
March 16, 2009
John, Nancy and Trisha
Words can not express how we feel or able to make it easier, May Heather rest in peace,We'll miss her.
Love
Les & Joan Mecteau
March 16, 2009
John & Nancy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Donna Breton
March 16, 2009
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bill and Veronica Avery
March 16, 2009
Dear Nancy & John, Austin & Alaina, Trish & Tim and Erick, We cannot even begin to imagine the heartache you are feeling or understand why. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and Heather's beautiful smile is forever in our hearts. We love you all.
Bethany Larrow
March 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Love, Bethany Larrow & family
Sharon Fisher
March 16, 2009
John, Nancy, Trish and the Bartholic Family, My deepest sympathy. I will see you'all on Tuesday. Love, Sharon Fisher
Bob & Jeanne Vertefeuille
March 16, 2009
Dear John, Nancy and Tricia, we are truly sorry to hear of Heathers passing. We haven't seen the girls since they were little. I really wish we had gotten to meet Heather one more time! You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love Bob & Jeanne
Tina "Luberto" Shinkewicz
March 16, 2009
Sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you all in your time of sorrow. Heather will be missed not just by her family but from her friends too.
Brandi (Lefevre) Rzeznikiewicz
March 16, 2009
John, Nancy and Trisha,
I am so very sorry to hear the news of Heather's passing, I wish all of you peace and strength during this difficult time. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
FRan & Joann vertefeuille
March 16, 2009
JOhn Nancy and Trish, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We can only imagine the pain you're feeling. May those sweet special moments you spent with Heather bring a smile and help you through this terrible time. Our prayers and thoghts are with you.
Kathy "Armstrong" Lucarelli
March 16, 2009
John & Nancy,
Thinking of you and offering you hope and comfort. May you find peace and love in the memories you cherish.
Tracy (Wilcox)Brown
March 16, 2009
Mr.& Mrs. Bartholic & Trish,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Heather's passing. Heather had a heart of gold and was the nicest person you could ever know.
I will always remember the fun times we had and will miss her very much.
My thoughts are with you and her children.
Margaret Goslin(Barr)
March 16, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family so sorry for your loss.
Mike and Ann-Marie Barry
March 16, 2009
Dear John and Nancy,
Our deepest sympathy to you both. Words can not express what your loss must be. To lose a child has to be one of the hardest losses to endure. Be assured you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Let all the beautiful memories you have of Heather fill that place in your heart to help you endure.
All our love to you both.
Rick & Lucy Boisse
March 16, 2009
John & Nancy,
Rick and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Jessica (Migneault) Lenczycki
March 16, 2009
What a shock, Heather and I were born the same day at the same hospital and knew each other from grade K all through High School. My thought's are with the Bartholic Family.
Laurie Leker
March 16, 2009
I remember all our family gatherings. I have been thinking all night about that pool party when we were what 10/12 with all the adults playing cards and laughing so loudly. Childhood is where you find your future ,but family is where your heart is..... Your babies will love you forever and all of us will pray for them and never let them forget.
sleep well sweet cousin the angels will keep you now.
Richard & Barbara Hubert
March 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything just let us know.
Aunt Izzy, Judy & Gary Courtemanche
March 16, 2009
We are so sad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Deb (Nadeau) Mellady
March 16, 2009
Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Sherry Hodge
March 16, 2009
I'm sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you and your family. Heather was a wonderful caring person.
Danielle Leroux
March 16, 2009
Our hearts go out to you all. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers
BOB & ANNIE WILDE
March 16, 2009
OUR PRAYERS AND HEARTFELT THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. MAY THE LORD BE WITH.
Roger & Arline Deloge
March 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Susan Jackson-Kiddy
March 16, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all.
Tammy (Guevremont) Flores
March 16, 2009
I have so many wonderful memories as a small child spent with Heather and her family. I recall swimming, visiting her grandparents next door, playing waitress, dolls, jumping on Nancy and Johns waterbed etc.. So many memories of joy and laughter. Though life has taken us down different paths as young woman, you will always remain in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with the Bartholic family at this difficult time.
lynnette bates
March 16, 2009
John, Nancy,Trish
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Love Lynnette, Lakeisha, Ariana, and Jayda-Diamond.
Deana Basley
March 16, 2009
My deepest sympathies to Heather's children and family. I attended school with Heather and I remember how she always had a smile for everyone.
Moe & Carol Fontaine
March 16, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Wendy, Dan, Colby and Katie Held
March 16, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
jackie lahaie pieeson
March 16, 2009
john and nancy, i can't express how verysorry i am for your loss. meeting your daughter at our chemo treatment showed me how brave and specisl a daughter she was.
my deepest wish for you is knowing she's in no more pain. sincerely jackie pierson
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