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Peter Gainey Obituary

Peter Andrew Gainey Died - September 10, 2013 Uncasville - Peter Andrew Gainey 52, of Uncasville, died Tuesday September 10, 2013 at Backus Hospital. He was born in Quincy MA, son of the late Alvin and Mary (Szeluga) Gainey. Peter was employed as a system computer engineer at Foxwoods Resort and Casino. He is survived by his two brothers, Stephen Gainey, and Jeffrey Gainey, his sisters, Deborah Gainey , and Patricia Walden, and a niece Sarah Walden. Peter was an avid sports fan and loved the Dallas Cowboys and the St. Louis Cardinals. Vistation will be held on Friday September 13, 2013 from 6-8 P.M. at the Montville F.H. of Church and Allen 53 Route 32 Montville CT. Burial will be at a later date. To leave an online tribute or condolence please visit www.monvillefuneralhome.com

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Sep. 12, 2013.

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October 27, 2013

Happy Birthday! You are still in our hearts. From your sisters, Deborah & Patti

Julie Mealer

September 28, 2013

Dear Patti, Debbie, Sarah, Stephen and Jeff, yesterday I found out via the internet that Pete passed away. I'm still in shock! Since we had not been in contact for more than a year, I did not know he had been ill.

Pete was a sensitive and caring man with a heart of gold. His beautiful smile could light up a room. He was one of the first people to make me feel welcome when I moved to CT. from Texas. He would tell me how proud he was of his niece, Sarah, and mailed pics of her and himself to me a few years ago. Pete and I shared many fun times! He took me to see Beauty and the Beast in NYC, and Robert Goulet in a production of Camelot; the Steak Loft in Mystic and many other great places. I have many cherished mementos that will keep his memory alive. sometimes it was not easy for me to think of just the right gift for his birthday or Christmas, yet I knew I could not go wrong when I sent him a souvenir commemorating Super Bowl XXX.

Again, we lost a wonderful human being. See you in Heaven Pete!

Mick Smallridge

September 16, 2013

Dear Patti & Family

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, my Thoughts of Deepest Sympathy are with you all at this time.

Steve Z

September 14, 2013

Pete was a great friend - the time we spent together was eventful and enlightening, he had a way of seeing thru the nonsense to the essence of a matter and defining it, always to the betterment of the person or situation. He liked to come across as tough, and he was, but those of us who spent considerable time with him knew he had a soul of gold.
Stephen, Jeff, Debbie and Patti, very sorry for your loss.

Brenda & Joe Guarrasi

September 13, 2013

Pete was a wonderful neighbor and friend who will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. RIP Pete.

KEVIN DEROSIER

September 13, 2013

To the Family of Pete, I am so sorry for your loss of such a great man, friend, brother, uncle, and just a great person. Pete and I were very close friends at Foxwoods and we talked every day. His office was next door to my shop. We were both diehard Cowboys fans so we shared a lot of misery together. Not to mention the deep friendship that came with it. I will miss Pete dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Kevin DeRosier 860-377-5937

Chris Pete and Gregg

Gregg McCubrey

September 12, 2013

LouAnn Gainey

September 12, 2013

Steve,Jeff,Debbie,Pat,Sarah I'm so sorry to hear about Pete. My thoughts and prayers go out for all of you.

LouAnn Gainey

September 12, 2013

Steve,Jeff,Debbie,Patty Sarah : I'm so sorry to hear about Pete. I love you guys and miss you all!! My thoughts and prayers are with you through this hard time!! And if you need a friend I want you guys to know I will be there for you even if just to talk or cry or you need a helping hand or just a friend!! Keep your heads up and remember the good times!!

Dena Birdsell

September 12, 2013

May you RIP Peter, My deepest Sympathy to his Family & Friends

Dena Birdsell

September 12, 2013

May you RIP Peter. My deepest sympathy to his Family & Friends

Pete looking from balcony at the casino.

Gregg McCubrey

September 12, 2013

Pete was my boss and good friend for the last 9 years. We went to Nascar in Loudon together as well as spent many a night playing pitch as a team (usually won) together. Pete was a gentle and kind person always ready to help out when asked. While we worked together at the casino, I found him to be a mentor as well as a manager to me. Some would say that it is not easy to be a friend with your boss, but it was a roll we fell into easily together. Being close in age Pete and I shared many common interests and spent a lots of time together pursuing them. Pete you were a great friend, and will be sorely missed. I am just sorry that due to life's circumstances we grew apart over the recent months. You will be missed and remembered.

Joe & Brenda Guarrasi

September 12, 2013

We mourn the loss of our friend and neighbor Pete,he will be greatly missed.
Our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Gary Nassr (USNAVY RET)

September 12, 2013

I am so sorry for your LOSS, He was a great guy with alot of knowledge in computers, I spoke with him many many times at foxwoods. Peter had some gerat ideas with computers. He would always pass by the warehouse where we would engage in small talk about PC's. He will be sadly missed.

Ed & Terry Dufresne

September 12, 2013

Steve and Family we are sorry for your loss, Pete was a good friend while you guys worked at Wyre Wynd there were a lot of good times, playing baseball, picnic's and the Christmas party's and friendly get together's, he will be missed. R.I.P. Pete

Brenda Schafer-Libera

September 12, 2013

Patsy, I am very sorry to hear about your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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