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Jan Hine
December 10, 2017
Dear dear Ruth - I am so sad to hear of your loss and am thinking of you daily and giving you "virtual" hugs. I wish they were in person - but life is so difficult these days! I know what a great emptiness this will mean for you but your creativity will surely enable you to fill the gaps as they happen. Know that you are loved and enjoyed by so many friends and family members and there are so many memories to savor. My love to you - take a hug. Jan
December 7, 2017
I remember years ago, Bob was so kind to my mother (Mrs. Rose York) while she was going through her divorce. He helped guide her through this emotional time. I will always be thankful for the kindness he shows to our family. Gillian York Willard
December 6, 2017
Ruthie and all Susslers, We are thinking of you in this time of parting. Janis and Andy Mink
joan sussler
December 6, 2017
Dear Ruthie, Phoebe, Phil, Albert and Anna,
It seems like yesterday when Bob stood in our living room to celebrate Frank's 90th birthday. Bob seemed so very much his witty, kind, gracious self. The three years that have passed since then make us appreciate What a precious moment that was, one that Frank and and Betsy and I will always treasure.
It must be a lasting source of comfort and pride to know that Bob's many accomplishments
and devotion to his family, his community and his country will continue to be a source of inspiration and blessing to all who knew him. This is not to mention his subtle and self-deprecating sense of humor which left an indelible mark on Frank and me.
Please know that our memories of Bob will continue to reveal him to us as the exceptionally fine person he was.
Sending our love,
Joan and Frank
Bruno Sutley
December 6, 2017
Dear Ruth and Sussler Family: My deepest symphathy for your loss; Bob was a great friend to
enjoy his erudition , knowledge and wisdom in our
time together in Pelican Cove and our visit to New
London.My esteem to you,Dear Ruth, my frequent
watercolor painting companion,let your Art provide
you with some consolation.I will always remember
your friendship. From Pelican Cove,Bruno Sutley
Richard Sigal
December 6, 2017
Ruth. The heartfelt condolences from Laura , Abby , Samayla and myself for you as the strength behind a brave and fine lifelong friend and legal colleague His father and I had a long battle between Yankees and Red Sox but more importantly my career path of Andover and Yale was a direct result of Bobby and Frank . When he became general counsel to the regional utility we combined to put those first bond issues on an even footing and over all these years we enjoyed talking state politics including this past summer as the Ds were failing to be realistic about the decline of the Ct fisc . Oh well he need not bother about that. I will await the event this summer but do me a favor and place a stone at the Land site across from the Sussler site I trust Anna will understand that he lasted a long time and was active and mindful throughout. That is a blessing we all wish for. Richard(dicky) Land Sigal
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