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Marian Lanka Obituary

Marian Lucille (Bakewell) Lanka, born on March 31, 1932, went to be with Jesus, her Lord and Savior, on Aug. 27, 2023, at the age of 91. She was the oldest child of Myron and Velna (Bay) Bakewell. Marian grew up on the farm west of Stapleton along with her two sisters, Judy and Arlene. She attended Nesbit Grade School and Baker Rural High at Stapleton. She wed Elton C. Lanka of Stapleton on Aug. 5, 1951, in a double wedding ceremony with Elton's sister, Lorna Lanka, and Laron Wright, at the Presbyterian Church in Stapleton. They lived in a baled hay house on the Lanka ranch north of Stapleton. She taught at the Cody Lake School for several years. In 1960, they moved with their four children into a new house that overlooked Cody Lake. Marian helped with much of the ranch; working cattle, calving and haying, along with raising the children. Going to Sunday school and church was the Sunday priority. Marian was a mail carrier for the north route out of Stapleton for 32 years. She loved helping with school where a daughter taught and then helping to homeschool several great-grandchildren for the past 20-plus years. She is preceded in death by her parents, Myron and Velna Bakewell; her husband, Elton; brother-in-law, Frank Lanka; step-mother Wilma (Foight) Bakewell; son-in-law, Mike Pollnow; and step-sister-in-law, Beth Foight. She is survived by her daughters, Diane (Cecil Lee) Wonch of Gandy, Vanessa (George) Grimsley of Blanchard, Oklahoma, and Sue Pollnow of Eaton, Colorado; her son, Rex (Bethany) Lanka of Stapleton; her sisters, Judy (Clarence) Lanka of Stapleton and Arlene (Tom) Collins of Shawnee, Kansas; sisters-in-law, Lorna Lane of Kearney and Connie Krusinowski of Omaha; brother-in-law, Kenneth E. (Margie) Lanka of Lincoln; step-sister, Darla Parker of North Platte; step-brother, Lyle Foight of Paxton; 10 grandchildren, Travi (D'Arcy) Rambali of McCook, Angie (Daniel) Hopper of Stapleton, Lee (DanDee) Wonch of Arnold, Amanda (Mike) Fletcher of Arnold, Adam (Melani) Wonch of Gandy, Josh Nelson of Urbandale, Iowa, Ranae (DJ) Selmeyer of Lansing, Michigan, Samantha (Chris) Ewing of Mt. Pleasant, Tennessee, Owen (Kim) Johnson of Eaton, Colorado, and Luke (Maggie) Johnson of Gering; 32 great-grandchildren; five great-great-grandchildren; and many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends who will miss her great smile and many acts of kindness. Memorials are suggested in her name. Online condolences can be shared at adamsswanson.com. Funeral service is at 10:30 a.m. Friday, Sept. 1, at the Gandy Community Bible Church with Pastor Lee Wonch officiating. Burial follows at the Loup Valley Cemetery, Stapleton. The service will be livestreamed at adamsswanson.com. Visitation is from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 31, at Adams & Swanson Funeral Home, which is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by North Platte Telegraph on Aug. 29, 2023.

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Ruby Clark

September 5, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, aunt, grandmother. Marian was a lady. Her face had a glow that only the knowledge of Jesus can give. My prayers are with all of you during this very sad time. Just know that you will see her again, and your father, in Heaven. May God wrap His loving arms around all of you during this time and every day in the future.

George Grimsley

September 4, 2023

Marian was a wonderful mother in law whom I will miss. Mom, see you on the other side.

Steph Miller (Frey)

September 1, 2023

I always enjoyed visiting with Marian when I saw her in my parent’s store. She always had a smile. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers.

Dwight and Gloria (Nickolaus) Lehman

September 1, 2023

We will miss Marian at our family cousins' reunions! As a child, I remember her patience with me as a younger cousin. I loved her laugh and she always had time for a chat at the reunions and faithfully sent a note with her Christmas cards every year!

Even though we are saddened by her sudden homegoing, we know that Marian is happy and rejoicing with her Savior in heaven. We've been praying for you, her extended family, during this difficult time and our love goes out to you all. Wish we could be there in person, but we will be celebrating her life with you via the online service.

Bob Anderson

August 30, 2023

Sorry to hear about Marian's passing. Many, many fond memories during our time in Stapleton with Marian and the Mariners and the church family at Stapleton Presbyterian Church (Cornerstone EPC).

Blessings,
Pastor Bob & Diane Anderson

Dennis and Karen Licking

August 29, 2023

We are praying for you as you grieve Marian!!! She was always so kind to me and I really enjoyed visiting with her! She and Elton were one of the “seven couples” so spent time with Marian from the time I was small. I really enjoyed taking the Perspectives course with Marian in 2020!! So glad to know I will see Marian again in heaven!!!
Love, Karen and Dennis Licking

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JUDY DAILEY

August 28, 2023

Love & Prayers to all of Marian's family. I was visiting a friend of mine in Linden Court Saturday evening and she was sitting at the same supper table, so I was shocked to hear of her passing. May God Bless you and give you comfort as you deal with your loss of such a beautiful lady.
With Loving Friendship and Deepest Sympathy,

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Sandy and Jay Welden

August 28, 2023

We enjoyed Marian so much the brief time we were acquainted with her at church. She was so friendly and pleasant to visit with. Prayers for the family and our thoughts are with you.

Mark and Sheryl Schaeffer

August 28, 2023

Diane and Lee. And family, so sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace...R.I.P. ...

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Gandy Community Bible Church

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