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Mitchell Rubenstein Obituary

Command Sergeant Major (Retired) Mitchell L. Rubenstein, 65, of Edinburg, VA passed away Tuesday November 4, 2025, at his home. The family will receive friends Saturday November 8, 2025, from 10:00am-2:00pm at Valley Funeral Service in Edinburg, VA. Burial will take place at Culpeper National Cemetery on Monday November 10, 2025, at 12:00pm.

CSM Rubenstein was born December 24, 1959, in New York, son of Rachelle Lustig Rubenstein and the late Sidney Rubenstein.

Command Sergeant Major (Retired) Mitchell L. Rubenstein entered the United States Army in December 1980. After completing Basic Training, and Military Police School at Fort McClellan, Alabama, he then completed Basic Airborne School at Fort Benning, Georgia. Upon completion of Airborne school, he went to Lackland Air Force Base, Texas for 10 weeks for Patrol Dog handlers School. He served as an Airborne MP Dog handler with the 188th Military Police Company (Airborne) at Fort Bragg, NC. Ten months later he was back at Lackland Air Force Base, TX for Explosive Detection Dog handler School. Sergeant Rubenstein was deployed and served with his unit during the invasion and rescue " Urgent Fury" in Grenada from 29 October 1983 thru 05 December 1983 as an Explosive Detection Dog handler. SGT Rubenstein closed out his active duty career with the 118th MP Co. (Airborne), Fort Bragg, NC as a Sergeant E/5, and had to leave his K-9 Beau, whom he handled since 1982.

Upon re-enlisting in the Army Reserve in June 1984, SGT Rubenstein was assigned to the 812th MP Co. Orangeburg, NY as an Assistant Squad Leader. He later became a Squad Leader after being promoted to the rank of Staff Sergeant. SSG Rubenstein left the MP Corp to pursue a 11B Infantry MOS as a Drill Sergeant. After completing the Drill Sergeant Academy he then completed Basic Infantry School at Fort Devens, Massachusetts. SSG Rubenstein was then promoted to Sergeant First Class and served with the 78th Training Division, at Lodi, NJ as a Senior Drill Sergeant and received the 78th Divisions Iron Mike Award for the Outstanding Drill Sergeant of the year 1989.

SFC Rubenstein returned to the MP Corp in September 1990, with the 306th MP Battalion as the Security/Intelligence NCO then became the acting First Sergeant, then promoted to First Sergeant of the 306th MP Battalion. 1SG Rubenstein was later assigned to the 800th MP Bridge as the First Sergeant. While attending and completing the Sergeants Major Academy in the Class of 95 1SG Rubenstein was assigned to the 340th MP Co as the Operations NCO, as a Master Sergeant for one week before being promoted to the rank of Command Sergeant Major and taking over the reins of the 354th Transportation Battalion as the Battalion CSM. CSM Rubenstein returned to the MP Corp after completing his four year tenure with the 354th Trans Bn as CSM Rubenstein returned to the 306 MP Battalion and retired from the military March 2002.

CSM Rubenstein is a graduate of Nassau Community College, New York City Police Academy, FBI Sniper/Observer School, Nassau/Suffolk County Defensive Tactics Instructors School, New York State BMP State Certified Instructor, Nassau County Motor Officer School, Nassau County Radar/Lidar Course, Drill Sergeant School, Infantry School, Airborne School, Patrol Dog handler, and Explosive Detection Dog handlers Schools, Advanced NCO Courses, and Sergeants Major Academy Graduate class of 95.

CSM Rubensteins Awards/Decorations include the Meritorious Service Medal with (1) Oak Leaf Cluster, Army Commendation Award with (4) Oak Leaf Clusters, Army Achievement Award with (1) Silver Oak Leaf Cluster, Good Conduct Medal, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal (Grenada), Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal, Armed Forces Reserve Achievement Medal, National Defense Medal, NCOES-4, Army Service Medal, Army Reserve Overseas Training Ribbon, Novice Airborne Wings, Drill Sergeant Badge, Excellence in Competition Badge (EIC Bronze) for Pistol 1995, and Rifle 1996, and received the 78th Divisions Iron Mike Award.

CSM Rubenstein has been volunteering as a Coach for his son's youth league football team, Instructor to the State of Virginias Hunter Safety Program and Treestand Safety Team, Honor Guard member for both the VFW and American legion, and currently serves as the Virginia Past Commander and various roles for the VFW Post 2447. CSM Rubenstein has been the President of the following organizations the Blue Knights Chapter VA16, and the 118th MP Company Airborne Associations President and originator of the Association.

CSM Rubenstein resides in Edinburg, VA with his wife, Suzanne who is also a Retired CSM, and their two children, daughter, Casey and son, Sidney. CSM Rubenstein is a Retired Police Officer formerly of the Hempstead Police Department with over 21 years of faithful service and last assignment was with the Traffic Division as a Motorcycle Officer, The Department Defensive Tactics Instructor and Training Officer for the Departments Ceremonial unit.

Also surviving are his siblings, Scott, Sherry, Merry, and Seth, and his brothers in law, Bobby Stumpf and Danny Stumpf.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Tunnels to Towers, 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, New York 10306 or VFW National Homes, 3573 S. Waverly Rd., Eaton Rapids, MI 48827.

Online condolences may be left at www.valleyfs.com

Arrangements are in the care of Heishman Funeral Home, Inc., Valley Funeral Service Branch, Edinburg.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Northern Virginia Daily on Nov. 7, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Mitchell Rubenstein

Nov

8

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Heishman Funeral Home, Inc.-Valley Funeral Service Branch - Edinburg

14116 S. Middle Rd., Edinburg, VA

Nov

10

Burial

12:00 p.m.

Culpeper National Cemetery

VA

Funeral services provided by:

Heishman Funeral Home, Inc.-Valley Funeral Service Branch - Edinburg

14116 S. Middle Rd., Edinburg, VA 22824

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'Mac' McCauley

Yesterday

As a fellow member of VFW, Mitch was a true patriot and friend. I have been very pleased that Mitch had foresight into many situations. I am devastated at his untimely demise. We have been to many function together and he always had that infectious smile. Mitch...wishing you fair weather and following seas. Sail on brother.

Claudia Methvin

Yesterday

I was shocked and devastated to learn of Mitch's untimely passing. It was an honor and a joy to provide his medical care for the past 15 years. Deepest condolences to you, Sue and Casey and Sid, from everyone in my office. We will miss Mitch dearly.

Chuck Walton, Secretary & Treasurer, Chapter 936 Vietnam Veterans of Americ

Yesterday

Mitch was a great friend to our Chapter. After COVID we were floundering and looking for a place to meet, and he through our Chapter President Ronnie Zerkel offered Post VFW 2447 as a meeting place. He worked with our Chapter to help organize activities at the Annual Veterans Tribute at the county fair. He often attended our meetings and fostered an ongoing relationship between our Chapter and the VAW.

On behalf of Chapter 936 Vietnam Veterans of America we offer our most sincere sympathies to Suzanne, Casey, Sidney and the rest of the family.

It was an honor and privilege to have Mitch as part of our lives and organization, he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

God Bless, and GOD BLESS THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!

Chuck Walton

Yesterday

I met Mitch through my membership in the VVA Chapter 936, and we became friends. I loved his sense of humor and willingness to help anyone with anything! HE will be greatly missed by my wife Karen and I, and anyone who knew him.

SFC H/Bill Hunter

Yesterday

A big guy. A big smile. A big laugh. A big heart. A wonderful family. A great friend. A commitment to serve others. A commitment to serve his country. Now a big hole in many hearts and souls. We will surely miss you my friend. My most sincere condolences to the family.

The Tessmers

Yesterday

Our condolences and thanks, for your service both to our country and as a first responder.

Lloydine J Morgan

Yesterday

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Joseph Cruff

November 6, 2025

Our condolences to family and friends. From all members of VFW Post 1184 Pulaski Virginia.

Gary Sappington

November 6, 2025

Was an honor to have gotten to know and speak to when I saw Mitch. I was so impressed that he told me he would be honored to be part of a parade a year out from it. Rest Well sir. Again it was an honor to have met you.

Paul Rubinstein

November 6, 2025

Words can´t describe how I feel about you passing. I always loved speaking to you & will miss you forever.
Cousin Paul

Bonnie Bauserman

November 6, 2025

Going to miss this guy. So wonderful
Richard and Bonnie Bauserman

Fred Figatner

November 5, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Mitch passing away. He was my friend. I always looked forward seeing him on his Hempstead PD motorcycle or at the 310th and 800th MP Brigade. My sympathy to Sue and his family. He was a good friend.

Jeff Cook MSGT, USAF (Ret)

November 5, 2025

Rest In Peace my brother, my friend and my mentor! You will always be apart of VFW Post 1860 for your selfless assistance and your undying support!

Men like you are far too rare! Rest assured, you left your mark on this rock and you will be missed until I see you later, and I know I will!

May God watch over, keep your family and comfort them for ever more!

Frank Edwards

November 5, 2025

Mitch it was always a pleasure to work with you at the Hempstead Police Dept . You were a good friend and a good cop. I remember calling you on
the radio and asking you to give me a hand with various people who were probably going to give us a hard time. You always were right there and a great backup. Rest in peace Brother. Praying for your family.

Chris Van Mill

November 5, 2025

Mitch, it was an honor and a privilege to call you my friend. From our time spent together while we were both Airborne Troopers at the 118th, through our times together, enjoying golfing and smoking cigars at our reunions with the Association. You will always be remembered my friend and brother. Rest In Peace.

Mitch and Ashley Black and children

November 5, 2025

Mitch, Gator, you will forever be in our hearts. A true friend and family to the Blacks. We love you.

Debra Silver

November 5, 2025

May Michelle´s memory be a comfort to his family and friends. I will always hold a special place for him and his family in my heart.

Chris Karayannis

November 5, 2025

Brother, thank you for 45 years of friendship filled with great memories from our time together at Bragg and the many times our paths had crossed since!
I already miss you and the enthusiastic energy you brought to everything you did!

Rest easy, my friend!

Robert Gates

November 5, 2025

I´m proud to have served with Mitch in the Mighty Mighty 118th MP CO Airborne! A great friend and supporter. I will miss him. Prayers for his entire family.
See you again, Mitch!
Your Brother, Rob Gates (Sgt) 118th forever.

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