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Commander Victor "Tory" Failmezger

1947 - 2021

Commander Victor "Tory" Failmezger obituary, 1947-2021, Warren County, VA

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Commander Victor 'Tory' Failmezger, USN Retired, (74) of Warren County, Virginia, passed away on July 2, 2021, after complications of Heart Failure. He was born in New Brunswick, NJ in 1947, the third child of Victor Failmezger and Mary Elizabeth Welch and the stepson of Dr. Paul D. Sturkie, Professor Emeritus of Rutgers University, all now deceased. He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Patricia A. Grant, their son Christian and daughter Victoria Matthews and two grandsons. His is also survived by his sister, Stephanie Partilla of Huntington, Long Island. His brother, Robin Gregory, died in 2017.

Commander Failmezger graduated from East Brunswick High School class of 1965. He was active in track, band and was an Eagle Scout.

He graduated from Southern Methodist University in 1969 with a degree in History. Subject to the US Military Draft, he enlisted in the US Navy.

He was first stationed at the NATO Base in Naples, Italy where in his off time he joined the Archaeological Team of Dr. R. F. Paget and worked on the ancient Roman road system north of Naples and the Oracle of the Dead at Baia.

In Italy, he met and married Patricia Grant of Council Bluffs, Iowa, a Lieutenant Junior Grade in the US Navy Nurse Corps stationed at the US Naval Hospital, Naples. While in Italy, Failmezger earned a Master's Degree in International Relations from Boston University, Naples, Italy campus.

Selected to attend Aviation Officer Candidate School in Pensacola, Florida he was commissioned an Ensign, Special Duty Intelligence in April 1974. His first major assignment was to Attack Squadron VA-56, embarked on USS Midway and homeported in Yokosuka, Japan Most notable was his participation in Operation Frequent Wind, the emergency evacuation of Saigon in 1975.

The next assignment was at a US Naval Intelligence Center in Suitland, Maryland. Because of some innovative analytical work, the then Lieutenant Failmezger was appointed the Special Assistant to Rear Admiral Sumner Shapiro, the Director of Naval Intelligence and a Pentagon Aide to then Rear Admiral E.A. Burkhalter, Jr. the Deputy Director of Naval Intelligence.

He served for three years as the Assistant Naval Attache, in Rome, Italy. Back in the States, he joined Commander Carrier Group Eight and was embarked on the USS Dwight D. Eisenhower (CVAN-69) and the USS Nimitz (CVAN-68). Additionally he was part of the first staff to embark aboard the USS Iowa (BB-61) since WW2.

Following German language training in California, he was assigned as Director US Naval Science and Technical Unit, Munich, Germany. There he conducted naval intelligence information exchange with NATO Naval Allies, sought out innovative technologies and was often called to travel to East Berlin to exercise US Navy rights to enter that city.

His final Navy assignment was at the Defense Intelligence Agency in Washington, DC, where he directed a team evaluating bomb damage inflicted during Operation Desert Storm.

Over the course of his 22 years in Naval Service, Commander Failmezger was awarded eight personal decorations including two Defense Meritorious Service Medals, two Meritorious Service Medals and other commendation and achievement medals.

Entering civilian life, he worked for several small consulting companies bringing European technology to the United States and export US Technology to Europe. He was active with the US Department of Energy to transfer government developed technologies to the private sector and worked with NASA on Satellite Remote Sensing technology transfer issues. During the period he was featured speaker at international conferences in Hungary, the Czech Republic, Slovenia and Qatar.

At the same time he assisted Patricia with her architectural salvage business, Architectural Old House Parts of Front Royal, Virginia. Growing out of the experience he supervised the building of the family home a recreation of Thomas Jefferson's private house, Popular Forest in Warren Country.

For four years he served as a Warren County, Virginia, Planning Commissioner.

Commander Failmezger wrote and published six books. Most notably was American Knights, the story of the legendary WWII 601st Tank Destroyer Battalion and Rome, City in Terror, the Nazi Occupation 1943-1944, published by Osprey Publications of Oxford, UK. He was a long time member of the Ancient Numismatic Society of Washington and moderated two international numismatic conferences in York, England.

Commander Victor 'Tory' Failmezger, USN Retired will be buried at Arlington Cemetery on a date to be determined.

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Published by Northern Virginia Daily on Jul. 20, 2021.

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Tom Harvey

July 17, 2023

Tory was most of all a kind and humbled man. He never tried to outdo anyone, but always contributed significantly to anything he was engaged with.

He was a tender person who cared for all. He loved his wife Patty deeply and his children most of all.

He was always a joy to be with. We did many projects together and he always made things better.

He helped arrange the building of a huge dining room table where our big family often gathered for meals. I see him at the table often with his big smile. He´s in a wonderful place where good men go.

Ron & Dee Artim

February 25, 2022

We just learned of Tory´s passing and send our condolences to you and your family. It was a privilege and honor to serve with him in VA 56 and we have nothing but the fondest memories of our service together. We´d like to let you know that the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be offered for the repose of his sole by Rev Kenneth Gill on March 9, 2022 at Our Lady Star of the Sea Catholic Church in Solomons, MD.

Charles Purvis

January 21, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Tory's passing. You have my utmost heartfelt sympathy. I became a friend when I did an internet search on the 601st and we exchanged info on what we knew about that unit, in which my father served in Company B, the same one his uncle Tommy Welch was in. Tory's books helped me considerably in tracing my father's WWII service. God Bless him.

Fred Bullock

August 20, 2021

I first met Tory in Naples, Italy in 1969 as a British Army corporal and he USN in NATO AFSOUTH and became firm friends through our shared interest of history of the Graeco-Roman world, so abundant in Naples and its environs. I was there to stand next to Tory on the occasion of his marriage to Patty in 1971. However, soon thereafter, as is the way of the military, our Italian tours both ended and Tory went in to achieve great things as his obituary so elequently lays out. We lost touch for some 47 years or so, until the modern wonder of the Internet brought us back together again. On one of their numerous trips to Italy, researching for his new book 'Rome', Tory and Patty came over to Greece, where I now live and we finally met up again! So good, the memory of which resonates with me still! Since then, we have stayed in frequient touch via email and 'phone, and I feel honoured to have received a copy of his excellent tome, 'Rome, City in Terror'. I was deaply saddened to have learned of the passing of Tory, a man who I am proud to have called my friend. My heartfelt condolences go out to Patty and her family.
Vale Tory.

Tom Harvey

August 17, 2021

Pat. Pam and I were so sad to hear that Tory had died. What a terrific guy.

I thought to honor his memory I would listen to his audiobook on Rome occupation. I´m thoroughly enjoying it.

Debra J Siksay

July 26, 2021

Tory was a kind man, who always had a story to share, as well as being a good listener. Often at the gym he would stop, we would chat and laugh often, I will miss seeing his smiling face and humor. My condolences to Patricia, Christian, Rachael, and the entire family.

Mike Markowitz

July 24, 2021

Tory was a most gracious host for our Ancient Numismatic Society of Washington annual picnics, and I cherished his friendship. May his memory be a blessing.

Larry Askins

July 21, 2021

Dear Patricia, Giulia and I have very fond memories of meeting Tory when he visited us in Berlin. He even gave us our own very special tour of the Permagon museum in East Berlin. And of course when we visited Munich - you both made us feel right at home. I'm sorry we lost touch. Tory was a very special guy and one of the most unique men i've ever met. Keeping you in our prayers. God Bless.

Patricia Goode

July 20, 2021

Dear Patricia & Family-I hope the Cherished Memories you hold closest to your Heart, bring you Comfort & Peace.
I'm sorry for your loss.

Ann Arena

July 20, 2021

Tory's passing greatly saddens me. He always had a smile and offered great conversations, I will indeed miss him but I know he and Fred will have alot to talk about. RIP

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