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BORN
1947
DIED
2013
Barbara Pettis Obituary
Barbara is preceded in death by her parents Gordon and Audrey Meadows of Ipswich, England. She is survived by her brother Martin and wife Annie Meadows of Southsea, England; sons Deon and wife Bacarra Pettis of Laurel Hill, FL and Daniel Pettis of Niceville, FL; niece Sally; nephews Chris and Andy; seven grandchildren Jami, Brandon, Amanda, Morgan, Ryder, Kayla and Laynee; her partner Pete Saal and lifelong friends Sam and Sue Anne Canella.
"The people that we become are a direct reflection of our parents, and our mother was always a step ahead of the rest. She felt her great-est achievement was being a mother. She was a devoted, caring and loving mother to us boys; and it reflects in the men and fathers that we have become today. She was our confidant and our drive. We love you mum and miss you. Love always, your boys Deon and Dan."
A Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday January 22nd at St Simons on the Sound @ 3pm with a reception to follow at One20 A Modern Bistro Niceville, FL. 5:30-7:30pm. In lieu of flowers, the family request a donation be made to the American Cancer Society in the loving memory of Barbara Mary Meadows Pettis.
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Pettis
Renee
January 13, 2021
I still think of you often and miss you dearly. Looking forward to the day we meet again.
February 13, 2013
My sincere sympathy to Barbara's sons. I had known Barbara for many years-lst at the hospital where I worked with her, then again working with her in home health. I used to throw her paper to the front door when I ran early in the am around Bayshore. Your mom was a very special lady: so gracious, caring, and giving to people. How sad, that she left us at such an early age. She made an impact on many lives and surely sits on a special throne in heaven. I will miss Barbara. Mary Newcomer
January 28, 2013
Our sincere condolences go out to Barbara's family. A sweet and lovely lady who shall be missed. Van and Robyn Cogley
Pam Davis
January 25, 2013
Deon and Family,
I so sorry to hear of your mother's passing, I am very happy to have known her, she truly was a special lady. I pray for GOD to carry you through the tough days ahead and bring you peace.
Pam Davis
Kathy Nettles
January 24, 2013
The Celebration of Barbara's Life on Tuesday was Perfect - her spirit filled the room ! My heart was heavy - to tell her goodbye - yet my soul sang for her sudden 'glory'.
All the Staff at Safe & Secure
January 22, 2013
Deepest sympathy to Dan,Dion and family.
Wayne and Susan Pettis
January 22, 2013
Daniel, Deon, Bacarra: Very sorry to hear of your mother's passing. We send our heartfelt sympathy to you, and your family at this difficult time.
Sharon Hazard
January 22, 2013
Kids, know that your loving mother is at home and at peace.I got to thank her for taking such good care of Shawn through his teens, and all she said was all of you were her light, no thanks needed.Memories are our blessing, as she was to all!
Beth Tritschler
January 21, 2013
Barbara was a lady full of grace and I will miss her. Her time as a leader at Covenant Hospice was far too short but she left me with the special gift of getting to work with her as a nurse and see her compassion first hand. Thank you Barbara!
Ann Brocksmith
January 21, 2013
I met Barbara while volunteering during Relay for Life. She was such a wonderful lady and did wonders for ACS. She will be missed by all who knew her. RIP sweet lady.
Susy Murphy
January 21, 2013
Barbara was a dear friend, fellow nurse and volunteer with the ACS. She was a great mediator; she had grace and class in everything she did and said. So happy that I got to see her and tell her I loved her occasionally the last few months. I will miss my friend.
Hugh & Elain Thomas
January 20, 2013
What a postive impact Barbara had on the lives she touched, mine included. You will be missed.
January 20, 2013
Louie and Earline Pettis
January 20, 2013
I will never forget the days she let me "crash" at her house and always treated my like her own. I will miss her.
Christine Yancey
January 19, 2013
Barbara was one of the most caring people I know and she touched the lives of anyone she crossed paths with. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this time.
Nikki Willingham
January 19, 2013
It was truly a great pleasure knowing her. We had many wonderful talks while working at the American Cancer Society.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Renee Mathews-Meyers
January 19, 2013
Barbara is one of the most beautiful, compassionate women I ever had the pleasure of knowing. She made a huge impact on my life. Your goodness will shine on forever in the lives you touched Barbara.
Valerie Anderson-Stallworth
January 19, 2013
My prayers are with the family in this difficult time. We will miss you Barbara.
Kathy Nettles
January 19, 2013
I was sadden to hear of your Mum's passing. She was such a beautiful lady. Having the pleasure of working with her for more than 10 years - my heart is flooded with special memories - of laughter and tears as we built the legacy of the Relay For Life events all across the area.
She and I would spend hours talking about what really was important in life - and it was always her pride in you boys and the love of Pete.
She was such a tiny little thing - yet she will leave a very large hole in our hearts... My thoughts and prayer are with you Boys and Pete !
Michelle St Raymond
January 19, 2013
As I read the story of Barbara's life I was drawn to the words GRACE and ELEGANCE which sum of qualities Barbara displayed no matter what she was doing, setting a table, dressing or buying a gift for a friend. Her gentle nature was reflected in all she did and a reminder that kindness and love is what we all seek. She gave in abundance. Blessings to her family and to Pete who loved her so. She will be missed.
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