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James Fyock Obituary

James R. Fyock

VALPARAISO, IN - James R. Fyock, 79, of Valparaiso was lost to those who loved him on Thursday, October 29, 2020. On December 14, 1990, he married Denna (McMillan- Gleason) Fyock. Together, Jim and Denna built Aberdeen Manor in 1998 and purchased Anderson's Winery in 2018. His legacy of being a generous, welcoming host will live on in both businesses. Jim lived life passionately. He loved travel, skydiving, golf, and just about any sport (except ice skating, he hated ice skating!) He loved with his whole heart and enjoyed nothing more than great wine, a genuine laugh, and taking care of those he loved - especially his children and grandchildren. He taught us how to dance, how to work hard, and how to care for each other. The only thing he didn't teach us was how to let him go. We will hear his laughter at every party, feel his love in every toast, and remember him dancing with every song.

Born July 25, 1941 in Elizabeth, Indiana to Royden and Sylvia (Barger) Fyock, he graduated from Indiana High School in Pennsylvania and served in the Navy. Jim retired from Bethlehem Steel in 1999 after 34 years of service.

He is survived by his wife of 30 years, Denna, and their children: Deborah (Phil) Glynn of Colorado Springs, CO, Saundra Jackson of Fishers, IN, Amy (B.J.) Austin of West Lafayette, IN, Chuck (Sara) Gleason and Megan (Trey) Wiesjahn, all of Valparaiso, brothers, Darrel (Judy) Fyock of Burns Harbor, IN, Vernon (Chris) Fyock of Jacksonville, FL, Alfred (Nikki) Fyock Sr. of Johnstown, PA, and Carl (Tammy) Fyock of Indiana, PA, brother-in-law, Paul West of Blairsville, PA; and treasured grandchildren: Austin, Adam, Blake, Mary Grace, Claire, Jack, Lexi, Andrew, Kate and Allie. He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister, Joyce West, and son-in-law Ben Jackson.

A celebration of his magnificent life will occur as soon as we can safely be together.

Published by The Times on Nov. 1, 2020.

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Val Mahoney

October 26, 2025

Jim was a great guy, always had a great time with him and Dena. He took my Dad under his wing which meant a lot to me. Always good to remember him. Thanks

David McKee

October 26, 2023

I will always remember how kind and gracias Jim was, and he could flat play. He was very humble about how good he played. We had many fun rounds together. He is missed.

Val Mahoney

October 26, 2022

Jim was great guy, always smiling and a very positive guy.we had some very enjoyable times together. I do miss him and Dena.

David McKee

October 26, 2022

As I think back to 2019202 and we moved to Chicago, one thing that I really missed was the Monday golf game with the seniors, the best player was Jim, he could flat bring it. We had a great time competing against each other. He was a gracious man, always smiling, love to play golf, and he was a dear golfing buddy. I will always treasure those times. My prayers go out to his family.

Val Mahoney

December 1, 2021

Dear Denna and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of Jim´s passing. He was a Great person! Always ready to help and always smiling. I will always remember the kindness he gave to my Dad. My Heart and Prayers are with you all during this sad time.With Love and Blessings . Val

Marv and Judy Klug

November 3, 2020

We had the pleasure of meeting Jim when we moved in downstairs. He was always ready with a smile and a chat whenever we saw him. We were looking forward to Jim and Denna coming back and was so sorry to here of his loss. Our deepest sympathy to Denna and the whole Fyock family.

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Deb & Bruce DeVries

November 2, 2020

Our heart felt sympathies & prayers to your entire family!

Willard Barger

November 2, 2020

We are sorry to hear of Richard's
death. As long as he remains in your
hearts, he is still alive.

J. Michael Baird

November 2, 2020

Our deepest sympathies to Denna and the family. Such a loss to each of us who felt the warmth of his smile and friendly greeting. Jim will be missed.

David McKee

November 2, 2020

Jim was one of the good guys. I will miss him. God Bless you

Shirley Remijan

November 1, 2020

Denna, my deepest sympathies. Jim was so special.

Peggy Oberley

November 1, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss

Sarah Grcich

November 1, 2020

TO ALL FYOCK, MCMILLIAN FAMILIES: So sorry for your loss! Jim was a very dear friend and he loved all he was ever around. He always made me feel welcomed. I know he and Mike will again be sharing good wines and lots of laughs again. Praying for peace and comfort to all of you.

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November 1, 2020

He loved us so well.

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