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Memories and Condolences
for Jason Cope
Sponsored by Sir Clisto - (John Brunette) a very close friend.
Kim
October 22, 2024
Well little brother, another year has passed and now it’s been 20 long years since I heard your voice, your laughter or seen that smile. Your nieces and nephews are adults with kids of their own. You would be so proud of them and would get such a kick out of your great nieces and nephew. They know all about you and the wonderful man you were. I love you and miss you so much! And no, it doesn’t get easier
John Brunette (Clisto)
October 18, 2024
Jason, it's hard for me to even express, the still, sorrow of having you gone.
I think of you every day and the trouble we always cause. We will be honoring you once again in a few weeks for this, your 20th anniversary. Miss you my friend.
Clisto
October 22, 2023
Well, Jay, it has been another fast year and it is hard to believe you have been gone from our lives for 19 of them. Not a day goes by that you are not thought of or talked about in some fashion. We are all about to once again gather together at Talons for a Viking gathering for Halloween and will honor you again. We hope you will be there once again in spirit to enjoy us going over old times and singing your songs. I Love and miss you brother.
Kathy Claudio- Chandler
March 18, 2022
My coworker just sent me some alternative 90's music to listen to during the work day and I instantly thought of how sometimes you would let us watch the alternative music countdown on MTV...when they played music videos. I recounted to her what a great teacher and person you were to us students that were so young and filled with angst. You were a safe space. I send you and your family much love and peace.
John Brunette
October 19, 2021
Well Jay, yet its another year and you are still at the forefront in my mind during this time. As we once again get ready to celebrate you at the Viking gathering, I never want you to forget how much of a legacy you have left us all in our hearts and minds. Just know that you are always loved, Brother. I look at your picture every day and wish you were still here, but I know you are always with us in spirit. We have all seen it. We hope to see your presence once again. 17 years is a long time not having you around, my friend. It just doesn't seem that long. Just know you are loved and always in our thoughts and prayers. Love you Brother.
Jay Jones
January 24, 2021
Mr. Cope,
It seems like a very long time since I sat in your class and found solace from the outside world. Your lessons on English and medieval culture larger shaped my prospective on the world, but your spirit and passion for your work had a stronger, lasting impact on me. I wish I could´ve told you the importance you played in my life while you were still with us. I hope that where ever you are now, you´re able to enjoy the things you gravitated towards in life: Chaucer, Beowulf, and mead. I know you´re still missed by many and you´ll continue to live on through those that loved you. Myself included.
John Brunette
October 22, 2020
Today I have once again shed tears since it marks 16 years since one of my best friends passed away. He was like a brother to me and many others and a really great human being. His laughter, pranks we did together and witty humor is something I always remember. But his loyalty and honesty as a friend, loving nature and always giving of himself are the qualities that made him who he was. It still hurts deep from his loss. Something I will never forget. Loosing a friend so close to you as he was, hurts beyond anything you can imagine. Jason, know that you are so deeply missed and thought of every day, my brother. You are never forgotten. Love you my friend.
Miss you my friend...
John Brunette
October 22, 2019
Today I have once again shed tears since it marks 15 years since one of my best friends passed away. He was like a brother to many and a really great human being. His laughter, pranks we did together and witty humor is something I always remember. But his loyalty and honesty as a friend, loving nature and always giving of himself are the qualities that made him who he was. It still hurts deep from his loss. Something I will never forget. Loosing a friend so close like you were hurts beyond anything you can imagine. Jason, know that you are so deeply missed, my brother. You are never forgotten. Love you my friend.
Kristie
October 21, 2019
You remain in my heart, my friend.
Jen Payen
August 7, 2018
I think it says a lot that in my every day walk of life on this planet, you are a part of a small collection of people, that although no longer with us on this plane of existence, the memory of your spirit simply transcends.
Jim Black
January 4, 2016
Where to start? What a great guy and huge loss to so many people who called you friend. I was thinking about when you joined the Hobart PD. Your true calling was being a teacher and you followed your dreams. My life is better for just having you in it for the brief time you were. You are missed everyday.
Sebrina
October 22, 2014
Jason,
I dreamt of you last night. I also thought that I saw you the other day. Strange how powerful friendship is, no? That after all this time I still could think that I saw you.
I find it impossible that 10 years have gone by since I last spoke to you. It seems like you were just visiting me at work and we were laughing together. I guess that is how time works though. It is quite deceiving.
I just wanted to let you know that you are always in my heart, always in my thoughts and never forgotten. I love you my friend, and time will never diminish that.
My love always,
Beanie
Marti Wilkins
September 5, 2014
Mr Cope,
Saw a You-Tube video of a teacher and "what he makes!"
Couldnt help but think of you. You touched my life in more ways than I can ever tell you...im sure you did that with all of your students.
I think about you often and im sorry I wasnt at your wake, I wasnt ready to say "good bye!" I guess im still not.
you were an amazing teacher and person....and just so you know, anytime something about Monty Python comes on, I chuckle...ill never forget video days in English class.
Lori Z
June 30, 2014
Mr Cope,
I had you over 19 years ago as my teacher and EVERY TIME I pick up a DVD, I think of you and why? Because you were showing us a movie one day on laser disk (the ones that were as big as a vinyl album) and before you put it in, you said, " this is the future of movies. One day they will all be on a disk like this...just smaller."
You cross my mind often because you were such a wonderful teacher and person! You truly are missed!
Sir Clisto
October 25, 2013
well, jay, it has been another fast year and it is hard to believe you have been gone from our lives for 9 of them. Not a day goes by that you are not thought of or talked about in some fashion. faire still will never be the same without you and as in each year you are honored there. We are all about to once again gather together at Talons for a Viking gathering for Halloween and will honor you again. We hope you will be there once again in spirit to enjoy us going over old times and singing your songs. I Love and miss you brother.
Christine Leddon
October 24, 2013
I never had the pleasure of your company, but from the many tributes and comments made about you that I missed the chance to get to know an extraordinary and gentle man. May your memory remain ever-green in the hearts of those who knew (and the many who loved) you.
Pat Davisson
October 22, 2013
I never knew you, but the love of your friends spreads like ripples on a pond. Like the rings, you are reflected over and over again in the many minds and hearts that remember you with fondness. Safe journeys.
Sebrina Leto
October 22, 2013
My friend, another year has passed and not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Nine years? It seems impossible. It still hurts deeply and I know that it always will. I still find myself thinking "I have to tell Jason this" or "Jason would love this" and then I remember that I cannot and I smile sadly. But thinking of you is not a sad thing. I miss your voice and your laugh and of course your sarcastic wit! Lately I have wanted nothing more than to have a conversation with you...strange how the mind works, eh?
Today I remember you quietly. I shed tears for losing you and remember the good times and conversations that we had. Lastly, tonight I will drink a cup of mead in your honor and look forward to talking to you again someday.
I love and miss you my friend!
Love,
~Beanie~
Jessie Lembcke
October 8, 2013
Mr Cope,
Watched braveheart the other day and couldnt help but think of you. We shared many conversations about the sca. Wish we could have just one more. You were the best teacher i had ever had and you will never be forgotten! My son has an amazing friend and teacher in heaven!
Matt Hinton
June 18, 2013
First time I've written here. You were the best teacher I've ever had. Many times I've thought of your classroom, and I still miss it. Can't believe how long its been. Wish we could have gone to Bristol together, ill be going this year in remeberence of you.
Michael Miller
April 6, 2013
Dear Mr. Cope,
Today, over dinner, my wife and I were reminiscing about the past. In the course of our conversation, I discussed you and your class. I learned so much from you. (A Modest Proposal by Jonathon Swift, for example). You are greatly missed and not forgotten.
Respectfully,
Michael
Kris Hill
December 1, 2012
There is never a long time that passes that I don't end up saying to myself "Jay, would have liked this or that." or "Jason would have loved to meet you" or "This or that person would have loved to meet Jay." Or "Jason would have had something to say on that topic!".
You've truly enriched my life(in so many different ways); and the memory of you continues to do so.
You will always be in my heart.
ryan brewster
November 30, 2012
Mr. Cope... where do i begin. I struggled my whole life in school, teachers never understood why i didnt try harder, but you did. You got through to me and changed me forever. I never struggled again after being in your class, until the day i heard of your passing. I know everyone on this board already knows this, but you were absolutely incredible. The way you helped me still carries on in who i am today. I dont think i ever showed you my full appreciation, but you see it now. Ill always miss your laugh, it shook the entire school! And your laughter was infectious, because when you laughed it was impossible not to laugh ourselves. God must have needed a good friend and a great teacher when he called you home. You will forever be in our hearts.
Sebrina Leto
October 22, 2012
I have felt this day creeping up slowly all month. It is hard to believe that you have been gone for eight years today. I would like to be able to say that the passage of another year has made it easier or has made it hurt less but that would be a blatant lie. I still miss you every day. I still think about you every day. Some people around me think that I should be well over your passing, but you never stop loving or missing the people that you care about do you?
A few weeks ago I found a book that you had given me years ago. It made me think that you were saying hello in a way. It was a bittersweet moment. I was so happy that I found it but so very sad at the same time. I think it is time I re-read it, in your honor.
Today you have been on my mind all day. Tears have been shed, memories thought about and smiles given; but mostly I want you to know that you are not forgotten. I will continue to honor your memory tonight and always. As always, every single day of the year, I love you and I miss you deeply my friend.
Love,
~Beanie~
October 22, 2012
Time does NOT make it easier! I still miss you every single day...
Love,
Kim
I and Jason at Bristol after he gave a speech
Sir Clisto
October 22, 2012
Today is a sad day for me as well as one of remembrance. Eight years ago today, a dear and close friend who was like a brother to me passed away. It was Jason Cope here, otherwise known as Ulfgrin from the Viking personae. And, although it has been 8 years, it still sticks with me as if it were just yesterday. I would have thought by now that time would have made it better to cope with, but for me it hasn't. So, today I grieve once again for you, my friend, shed many a tear and ponder your passing. But, also in doing so, I keep his memory alive here and other places for people to know him and the ones that have known him. I will get through this day, but not without it having a strong grip on my heart and soul. Here's to you Jason..... I love ya and miss you deeply brother.
October 8, 2012
Miss you, Jason...
Love, Kim
Sir Clisto
October 4, 2012
Hi Jay,
I haven't written in a while and I am sorry for that. Life has been strange this past year with the loss of family members and other good friends to work and then my own bouts to the doctor here and there. It's the getting older thing, LOL. But, even through all this, there isn't a day goes by that I do not think of you, my friend. Each time at faire I make sure to mention many of the great times we all had, and how much it just still isnt the same without you there. Although I know you are with each of us. And now the season once again is winding down and I only have a few faires left, but know that I as well carry a part of you with me each and every day. Many of us close friends will be gathering at Talons once again in November for the Viking cookout and Halloween like we always do. And last year I brought with me the many songs and poems you wrote and recited as well as sang them around the bon fire. It was a great group of friends and hopefully our voices were loud enough for you to hear. Heck, I think most of Illinois heard our wailing.. LOl.. But that is how I had wanted to honor you that day, and I had no lack of active viking participants. Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I do miss my good friend and I have kept your picture up by my computer every day. You are always thought of. Hail Brother...
Julie Castro-Grohowski
August 28, 2012
Thinking of Mr. Cope. He was one of my favorite teachers, I'm grateful that I had the opportunity to be one of his students.
Carolyn Stone
March 1, 2012
I smiled for you yesterday! Well everyday but I smiled when a memory of you hit me like a ton of bricks. You were the best teacher I had ever had and continue to be the best. I remember many things but the best of most is the mid evil games you had us play....Mr. Cope you are still loved and missed so very much! May you walk with peace as you walk with God
Sebrina
October 22, 2011
Jason,
Another long year has passed and with it the fruitless wish that I could speak to you again. Today I watched the dvd I bought from John just for the sound of your voice, it was good to hear it again.
I miss you my Friend, more and more as time goes by as a matter of fact. I find it hard to believe that the phrase time heals all wounds has lived this long, surely its author must have known it was utter nonsense.
As always, I thank you for being a part of my life and letting me be a part of yours. You left a huge impact on me that I will never forget and I am glad to have known you. You will be missed eternally and I can only hope that we meet again my Friend.
Love you always,
~Beanie~
Sir Clisto
October 21, 2011
Jay,
I sit here at work on the eve before your passing and although it has been 7 long years it is still like yesterday to me. Time does not heal all wounds as they say, especially for someone as close as you were to me. Because no matter how much time passes, it always comes around to THIS specific day, and the feelings rush swiftly back. I want you to know that I am constantly doing my best to keep your memory alive with all your friends. It isn't often a friend as you comes into ones life and makes an impact as you did with me as real Brothers I always say. I will be taking you with me in spirit next weekend t Talons gathering and bringing along all the Viking songs you wrote and will sing them proudly. And, we will laugh as Odin would have it. Here's to you my friend, You are always truly missed, but I know you will be watching and laughing along. Love you Brother.
October 17, 2011
Always in my heart little brother. Time has not eased the pain of losing you too soon.
Love, Kim
Sebrina
October 22, 2010
Hi Jason.
It seems impossible that as of today (10/22/2010) you have been gone for six years. To be honest, I have dreaded this day all week. It has crept up on me steadily, each day feeling heavier until today arrived.
As I have said before, time has not made it any easier to accept that you are gone. I miss you dearly and wish every single day that I could speak with you one more time. Selfish? Perhaps. Please know that I loved you dearly and counted you among my closest friends. You will never be forgotten, Jason.
As always, I hope that you are at peace and perhaps that we will see each other again in some form or another. Until that moment I keep your memory in my heart and your picture near as well. I miss you my friend.
Love you,
~Beanie~
Sir Clisto
October 22, 2010
Hi Jay,
It has been another year as of today the 22nd of October, and it doesn’t get any easier with time as said by the masses. Not one day goes by that I do not wish you were here and you and I were tearing up the Renaissance Faires together once again. Those were times never to be forgotten. I kept dreading this day as it got closer, yet it is what has to be to get one through once again. You are deeply missed as a rennie, but most of all as a true friend I always call my brother. Your picture always sits aside my computer. You left a special piece of yourself with all of whom you have touched during your time here. And for that, I am eternally grateful. There are always special people that come in and out of ones life. You, my friend, are one. In two weeks, October 30th, I will be reciting your last speech which you gave at your last Valhalla gathering. Not only to honor you because it was yours, but because it’s words inspired us all. Know that there has never been such an honest, true and close friend as I had in knowing you, but one I still have in my many memories. Be well, my brother and may God continue to watch over you until we meet once again.
Love ya Brother,
A
October 19, 2010
The day is slowly creeping up and I am aware of it every second. My mind is plagued with the thought of you not being here. Though it has been six long years, it does not get easier knowing that you are gone. You were one of a kind and a marvelous uncle, son, brother, and a genuine individual. Looking back, I cherish the moments we had together. I know you are in a better place now, the heavens are where you belong as well as forever in my heart.
Love,
Me
Sebrina
April 7, 2010
Jay,
They say that time heals all wounds. I think that whoever said that never lost anyone they truly loved and cared about because time has not made your loss any easier for me. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and feel your loss deeply.
There are so many things in my life that I would love to share with you, some because I think you would get a kick out of them and some because they are true milestones I would love to share with you.
Anyway, it has been awhile since I wrote on here and today the need was overwhelming. I want you to know that I miss you, friend, and you will always be in my thoughts and heart.
Love you,
Beanie
Kristie Hill
April 7, 2010
Jay, The memory of you remains alive in my heart.
Jason
April 6, 2010
Sir Clisto
January 18, 2010
Jay,
It is the start to a new year, 2010 and you are missed in it. It will be another one with out having you at the faires and in your company. I will go on as usual, but know you are not any time far from my thoughts, my Brother. I shall toast to you in Odin fashion at each event I attend, and shall speak of your tales as always, so all will be reminded of you. Be well, my fallen Brother.
Invictus Maneo
Sir Clisto
October 26, 2009
Jay,
It is now 5 years as of the 22nd of this month of October since you left us, and it feels like yesterday to me. I know people say it is suppose to get better over time, but for some, what does better really mean? You are greatly missed, my friend and I wanted you to know that. There isn't a day that goes by that you are not thought of, for me, and that emptiness filled. It has been hard, but with strength I get through. And I believe that strength comes from you. I thank you for that, cause it keeps me going.
I also just got back from the Ohio Ren Faire a week ago and we talked about you at the Lost Vikings. They all give their prayers and strength to you, especially Thor.
Anyway, I just wanted to tell you how much you are missed as a very good friend and like a brother in my life. I will also be calling your mom and dad to talk as well and see how they are. I hope your sisters are doing better as well.
Be well, my friend, and take a drink of Odins Mead for me.
Invictus Maneo
Jen Payen(Abbott)
September 25, 2009
I use to believe in the philosophy, that as time progressed, memories mixed with the cobwebs of our mind, weaving tapestries in black and white, from a life being made over-complicated.
Yet with any emotions found attached to memories, they seem to anchor on to memories and pull them out of the dark recesses and at the same time, make fresh the raw emotions, like bringing the past into the same room as the present, if only for a split second.
Although only a short time I knew you as a teacher in high school, it was enough to make an impression on my life. At this moment, how my thought processes go, I think with the Beatles music being remastered, there is an association with them that ties to you, and my fascination with the band. Funny how the mind works, but I'm fairly certain that you would have enjoyed the remastered music.
Thanks for making a difference in my life, as your memory, I take with me, any where I go.
Sir Clisto
September 24, 2009
Well, Jay, it is coming down to another end to a great faire season, with the only emptiness being that you aren't there to share in all of it. Know this, my friend, even though I am there and traveling about, you are always on my mind and in my heart. You are what keeps me going in what I have been doing for over 33 years now with faire. And, each time I go, you are always by my side. I know you are looking down from the halls of Valhalla and smiling on everyone. Save some of Odin's meade for the rest of us. Be well, my friend.
Valerie W
May 13, 2009
I have often wondered what happened to my high school friend. Today, I randomly discovered that he is gone. How strange. How sad. Jason and I went to see Return of the Jedi the night we graduated from Hobart High school. While everyone else was out partying, we sat in a dark theatre and had the best time, not talking....just sitting. He used to make me laugh so hard, but that night seemed so superficial and heavy at the same time. For all of you that had the privilege of knowing him as an adult, I am truly sorry.
Arngrim Alewulf
March 28, 2009
On a pedestal you appeared to me, though now you have ascended beyond that inadequate stage on which you were held by life; however, you would have never thought of it thus, for life had no limits in your eyes. Alas, my tears flowed as free as a spingtime rain on your passing, but now no more. I do still miss you as fiercely as we Vikings may charge, but I have come to acceptance. We may be bound by blood but that has little merit in the shadow of your willingness to bleed with me and others, and for that, you are deeply loved. It is not that our bloodties hold no power i my heart, they do, just that I would have loved you same were we not blood-kin rings more truly in my ears and heart than even the mightiest blast from Gjallar ever could, even on the eve of Ragnarrok. Now you have been born by Valkyrie, feasted with heroes, battled the same in Valhalla, and still you remain among us, friends, family, brothers. It is not in remorse that I remember ye Ulfgrim Alewulf, Jason Cope, Uncle Jay, but under an air of reminiscent nirvana, remembering those grand times past. The dead are done no honor in grief, but in a hero's remembrance, and I see this. I cannot say you were more to me than to any other, but I can say you were more to me than most, and may the hammer of Thor judge the rest. I reveled in my privelege to call you, friend, uncle, and brother, and bear no discomfort in calling you still thus. Though the flame of your life did so, the fiery passion of my love for you ne'er did wane, but it waxes evermore. I have but one wish: that you continue to love and be loved as you always have and as sincerely as I do you, my dear uncle. On the wings of the Valkyries you did ride, but had no one, no love by your side, worry not, for you needed naught, all the love you need is in your heart. . . and mine, fare thee well my dear friend, sweet uncle, and glorious brother.
Sir Clisto
February 12, 2009
Hi Jay,
I have been thinking on what to say for a while since there isnt a day that goes by that I do not think of yuou and your close friendship. So, I am just penning some thoughts. I know your birthday has past a week ago and wanted to wish it to you as well. I really miss our friendship as we were closer then real brothers. I have also added another great picture to my site of you from early on. Just want you to know you are ever close in my thoughts. Faire season is about to begin and with each day of that I take a piece of you with me and share it with your friends. Be well, my friend.
Sebrina Leto
February 9, 2009
I have been thinking about you a lot this week and I guess I just needed to stop by and write something here. I still miss you every day, my friend and you will always be in my heart!
Love,
Beanie
Tami Kepshire
February 4, 2009
Happy Birthday Jay! You are missed and loved dearly.
Tami
Lord Sir Clisto
May 6, 2008
Hey Jay,
Its been a while, but Viking fest has now past for this year and other faires loom in the future. Not a day goes by that I do not think of you and how faire is missing just that little special light you brought to it. Believe me, you are greatly missed, my brother. It helps me a lot to write and I know you are watching from the shadows.
Tandye Rowe
April 26, 2008
I am still sad. Even though it has been a few years now. I meant to write in this the moment I knew, but couldn't. I never had Mr.Cope as a teacher, but he was a friend to all the metal loving boys I hung around with at the time. I admired him so much that I secretly drew him fantasy art and snuck them into his teacher's mailbox. Only to "man-up" a while later to him and tell him that it was me all along. He then took me into his classroom (I thought I was in trouble) and showed me his back wall where he hung all the art up. *glee!* I will never stop admiring you, Mr.Cope.
Ken Heyse
January 13, 2007
Mr. Cope was probably the most understanding teacher I had at Portage High School. His ability to draw from us what we would not have normally given was a gift to everyone that had the pleasure of having him as our mentor and leader by example. He is one teacher and friend I will never forget about.
Sir Clisto - John Brunette
October 3, 2006
Well, another faire season is just about over, and no matter where I traveled, you were always with me. We toasted to you in great Viking style and you were never forgotten. Looking about each realm I have visited and not seeing you there has been very hard, and sometimes I look up and believe I caught a glimpse of your face in a crowd. Maybe I did because I truly want to believe you have let me know you are well. Know this, that I and the rest of your faire friends miss you.
Elizabeth Chapman
June 19, 2006
i had Mr.Cope for english class. i loved his style of teaching cause he always made it fun for everyone, even if they had a hard time he made it easy so they could understand. i loved learning about the midevial times cause he let me dress up in his chainmail outfit one day. i remember cause it was SOO heavy. ill always remember him with a smile on his face and a joke that wasnt too far behind it. He'll be truly missed...May he rest in peace and we'll see him again someday in valhalla!!! love ya man...
Rocky Manos
May 4, 2006
Mr Cope you are special not only my best teacher at portage high school but also a mentor.I miss you dearly you are a reserved person with a unique style and class nobody could be compared to you.
Matt Zaper
January 8, 2006
Mr. Cope, you've been my favorite English teacher of all time, and probably one of the greatest friends I ever had. Although I've known you for a short time, I will always remember the things you've taught us back then. There is no doubt that we all miss you. I will always hold you, and your family, in my prayers.
Sir Clisto (John Brunette)
December 25, 2005
Christmas is now upon us and many thoughts go through my mind. Thoughts of family, and friends are foremost. And, in all of that, there is still that empty space which always seems to leap forward in my mind. Jason, know that you are in my thoughts. know that although you arent here, I hold a special place for you my brother. I will celebrate this day with you in mind. You are greatly missed.
Sebrina
December 24, 2005
Jason, it is the Holiday Season again and you are greatly missed my friend. You are in my thoughts daily, and as usual, I hope you've found peace.
Love,
Beanie
Sir Clisto
November 24, 2005
Jay, the Thanksgiving holiday is here, and it isn't the same without you. But in our own way, we need to manage to get through. You are greatly missed my brother. I think of you daily and pray you are looking upon us as well. My prayers are with you.
To everyone else, I have purchased this legacy book for eternity. This means that it will always be here and open for anyone to pen their thoughts and feelings in it when they feel the need. The holiday season is especially a time for people to do so. What this means is, it will never expire. Not in a year, not in 10 years, never. I felt it was something I needed to do and wanted to do. I hope by doing this, others will have a place as I to pen our feelings when we feel the need. It can also be accessed by going to this link on my website -
http://www.sirclisto.com/gone/jas1.
html
I also have memorial DVD's available for anyone that would like one where all the money goes to a Scholorship fund in Jasons name where he taught.
MCM
November 19, 2005
Mr. Cope (aka Ulfgrim) was one of my favorite teachers I studied under while attending Portage High School (PHS). Mr. Cope was quite different than any teacher I ever had while attending PHS. I loved his style of teaching. Indeed, there is no doubt that Mr. Cope will be missed by so many.
Best wishes on your journey from this world Mr. Cope.
Cindy Kennedy
November 15, 2005
Mr. Cope was such an inspiration to ALL his students, and he inspired me in many ways. He was very successful at everything he did in his lifetime. Not only was he an amazing teacher, but he was an amazing person as well. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about the words and phrases he would say and that is what keeps me inspired and keeps my head up each day!
We will never ever forget you Mr.Cope, you will always be in our hearts!
Sebrina Leto
October 22, 2005
Today is the one year mark of Jason being gone and though some say that the pain should have diminished some by now, I find that is not the truth. I think of him everyday, and often wish that I could talk to him just one more time, as fruitless as that wish is. I watch the DVD that I bought from John and find comfort in it. I guess I just wanted to say that you’re not forgotten Jason and will stay in my thoughts and heart forever! I hope that your own pain is gone and that you have found peace at last! I love you.
Love, Beanie
Sir Clisto
October 22, 2005
Today marks one year since Jay left us. And although time is said to heal all wounds, it still doesn't make it any easier. There isn't a day that goes by that he is not on my mind. I look at the pictures and play the DVD and see the happiness and great times upon his face and recall all the fantastic times we had. It is hard when someone is so close for time to even work its magic. There are times I can hear his voice and feel his presence. I do believe he is here watching. As close as my own brother can be, it still hurts. But, one day I know that father time will begin to help as they say. Jason (Ulfgrim), you are always with me and will never be forgotten. You were a great friend and it is an honor to call you that and to have known you. My prayers go out to your family on this sad day. I love you man......
kim
October 21, 2005
Tomorrow will be one year, the day our lives were changed forever. There is still never a minute that I don't think of you. I miss our talks,the family picnics,your wonderful sense of humor,just seeing your face. I miss my brother, my friend. Your nieces and nephews miss their awesome uncle, their idol. I pray that God is taking good care of you. Most of all, I pray that your pain is gone. I love you,Jay! Love, Kim
Jennifer Abbott
October 13, 2005
Mr. Cope was my favorite teacher from Portage High. He had such an impact on my life at that time.
The cool bit that I remember is wanting to sit next to his desk, on the first day of classes, because there was a John Lennon Head Statue on it and a Beatles poster at the back of the classroom.
Later down the road, I made him tape copies of the John Lennon box set and he gave me a Beatles record that was on the VeeJay Label based in Gary.
I went to a beatle fest and I got some buttons and even though I was no longer in his class and maybe not even a high school student, I came back to deliver em to him, just to let him know he isnt forgotten.
The last time I saw him, I was passing out open house invites for my graduating from Valparaiso University. At first, I went to his classroom, but it had a note that said he was in the West building, so My friend Valerie Borg and I dashed over to the other building.
We didn't know which room he was going to be in, but I thought it strange when we walked down the main hallway near the office, and lo and behold, he was walking right towards us.
I smiled like a goof, I gave him a hug, and said that I would really love for him to come to my open house. He didn't but in spirit he did.
I wish he would have realized the ultimate impact and influence that he had on people. Maybe things might have been different, maybe not.
I miss him dearly and even had a dream about him last night. Yeah, I'm a weirdo, but who wants to be normal?
I walked into the classroom and he was in front of his desk The sad part is that every time that i got closer in approaching him, he started to fade. Probably some type of symbolism in that I guess.
I miss him dearly, but someday, we'll all see him again.
Lots of Love,
Jennifer Abbott
Sir Clisto
September 19, 2005
It is closing in on one year. It is still tough when one is so close, yet, by talking and writing in this online book it helps in the process. You are always in my thoughts and prayers as well as the family.
Now, as an addition, I would like to mention that for anyone interested I have an 18 minute DVD called "A Tribute to Ulfgrim" Jasons viking persona. It has pictures set to music as well as three video clips of him past from 1999 and ending in 2004 of him giving a speech to the vikings. This was shown at the Viking Valhalla gathering at his and Alice's house last spring and everyone purchased one. They are $20.00 each and "EVERY" penny goes to a scholorship fund in his name at the Portage High School where he taught. I and another friend are footing the cost for all the time and materials. So, if anyone would like one of these good memories, please e-mail me for arrangements and I will send them out.
Thank You,
John Brunette (Sir Clisto)
Jackie Stone/Konchar
June 7, 2005
I just want to say Mr.Cope was a great teacher and role model. He taught me a lot. He was so considerate and loving to his students. I'll never forget him. He was an awesome person and teacher. Thank you Mr. Cope. I will never forget you.
Jackie Stone/Konchar
June 7, 2005
I just want to say Mr.Cope was a great teacher and romodel. He taught me a lot. He was so considerate and loving to his students. I'll never forget him. He was an awesome person and teacher. Thank you Mr. Cope. I will never forget you.
Eric Bailey
March 16, 2005
You've read, or heard all this already. Mr. Cope was a rare man, with a beautiful soul. He was able to connect with the young in a way that most people don't understand. His ability to interest people and hold their attention almost forced them to learn. I had never had a teacher before him that I thought of as a friend. I think perhaps, that was why he was able to connect to so many. He was able to be a friend and retain his authority. Something that great leaders often struggle with, Mr. Cope did with ease. I ran into him several times after I graduated high-school, and when he asked me to call him Jason, I felt like I had passed some ancient rite of pasage, like I had finally become a man. Nevermind the wife and child that I had back home. He just had that kind of affect on me. He would even remind me of some events that took place in his class that I had forgoten. He always made me want to take someone under my wing and show them the way. I don't know I was always a little sappy. I just heard of his passing tonight. I was taken by complete shock. I wish I had been able to pay my respects in person. His memory will live with me forever, and many others I expect. Often clarity is mistaken for excentricity. Perhaps this is the case for Jason. I'll Miss you Sir, I always meant to try and find you at the Renaissance Fair and have a horn of mead. I guess I sholdn't have put that off for so long. I'll not get the chance again.
Lacie Le May
December 23, 2004
Uncle Jay....
Well Jay wasn't really my blood uncle but blood couldn't make us closer. The whole Cope family IS my family. His niece Danielle is my best friend in whole world. Nothing comes between us and I am always at the family events where Jay was. The best part is the way he made fun of me. That was him showing his love for me and I miss the teasing oh so much. People think I shouldnt be so upset over this that he wasn't my uncle but he is and I love him so much! He has touched so many people and I am one of them! Its been a horrible loss and if i could turn back time i would. There is one way to describe Jay... He is an all around great guy! He is an awesome brother to my second mother(danielle's mom) and a generally generous man. There are no bad things to say about him and god he is missed.
"Uncle Jay, I love and miss you and I will never forget the love you have given me. May you rest in peace and live on through our memories and love. I love you."
-Lacie
A student
December 13, 2004
What a horrible lost for the world.. To lose a man so loving and caring... one who not only was accepting but encouraging of all of our unique personalities. He seemed to embrace those who were lonely, in need, those who didnt seem to fit into the mold. People who seemed not to fit in anywhere found a loving, accepting place to escape from the world. I will miss you always..
Sorry my teacher for my many grammatical errors.
But in your eyes there was always a second chance to make it right. (a re-write for a improved grade)
Gary Vail a.k.a. Phoenix of Arboria
December 6, 2004
Brother
There in the trees
A man stands in light
His armor is proud
And he holds his hand in recognition.
A long white mane falls from his helm
And a horn of the finest mead
Lies at his feet.
There are those who knew him
Those that loved him
Those who would never meet him
And those that wish they knew him better
But those that truly knew him
Know that his kindness lives on
Not the kind of kindness of two strangers passing on the street saying a polite hello
But the kindness of a man, nay, a brother
A brother who would give you the armor off his back
A brother who would share his laughter and tears with you
Always a kind word to say
Quick witted, and not afraid to love
We know you are with us
We feel you every day
You are in the air we breathe
The water we drink
We can hear your kind whispers on the wind.
You, my brother, were one of a kind.
Your love will live on in our memories forever.
A ranger in life
A brother in eternity.
Michele Jacobs
November 22, 2004
I just heard and I cannot believe he is gone. I was in his spot as "teacher for a day" while in school and had him while a student as well. I tell stories to many of my co-workers out here in Pennsylvania about Mr. Cope and every time I hear "The Wall" or see Monty Python and the Holy Grail I think of Mr. Cope. His style of teaching was great. I will never forget you.
Brittany Ball
November 18, 2004
I was really shocked, as well as saddened by the loss of the BEST teacher in the world. Mr. Cope was one of the greatest people I have ever known. He cared about his students and taught them as much as he could. He made learning fun and always exciting. I will never forget any of the things he taught me nor the things he did. He helped me in many ways and I thank Him for that very much. Thank You Mr. Cope!! You will always be missed, and never forgotten!!!
Robin Bailey
November 18, 2004
I had mr. cope for 3 out of my 4 years of high school. he touched me. he was a great teacher and a great friend. he will be missed and always loved!
Kim
November 15, 2004
To many, you were Mr. Cope,the wonderful teacher,and Ulfgrim, the loyal friend. To me, you were Jay, my little brother. You were kind, loving, supportive,unselfish,funny, and always positive. You always found the good in everything and everybody. You were taken away much too soon and my life will never be the same. I will miss you every day of my life. I love you, Jay.
Amanda Marlow (Yeo)
November 10, 2004
It is a shock to hear about the loss of one of the greatest teachers. Mr. Cope will always be in my heart. He is one of the great reasons I am in college. He has been my inspiration since the first time I had him in class. He will be missed greatly. Mr. Cope will always be remembered. WE MISS YOU MR. COPE!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jennifer Manning
November 9, 2004
I, as many others did, had Mr. cope as a teacher. One thing that I could never forget was when we had our Medieval feast, and I tried so hard to make this pudding stuff and it was horrid, and he ate it anyway then told me how horrible it tasted. And he would never eat anything i made after that. I will miss him so much, he was more then just an ordinary teacher, he was a great friend. someone you could talk too.I hope you've taken your seat in Valhalla, you've earned it. I'll miss you Mr. Cope!!!
Lynda Watson
November 7, 2004
TWO SIMPLE WORDS...THANK YOU!
Kristie Hill
November 4, 2004
Jay/Ulfgrim,
I will carry warm and comforting memories of you in my heart forever. You will never be forgotten and your spirit will continue to inspire me and many people for the rest of our lives.
You taught me, by example, the true definitions of honor, respect, friendship and sincere caring and concern for family, friends and life.
Though this world has suffered a great loss; Valhalla has gained a mighty and just warrior.
Tana Leto
November 3, 2004
Jason,
Not only were you my teacher, you were my friend. I will greatly miss you and your funny little ways. I will always remember the time you accidently sliced one of the desks at a presentation. Even though you are gone, always stay young at heart and keep listening to "The Man" John Lennon.
Heidi Bowles
November 2, 2004
I knew Jason when we attended Hobart High School. The news of his untimely passing is a tragedy and I will miss him. Mr. And Mrs. Cope, you are in my prayers as are the rest of your family.
Rhonda Jones
November 1, 2004
I was lucky to have met Mr. Cope in the Medieval club in High School. He was one of the most interesting & fun teachers I have ever met. Alice - My thoughts are with you!
Kristina Pall
November 1, 2004
I’m so glad I had the pleasure of having Mr. Cope seven years ago as English teacher. He will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Greg Guzman
November 1, 2004
I inherited my first paper route from Jason in the late 70's when I lived down the street from him. He was the biggest Beatles fan I had ever met! I'll never forget the hours of conversation on all things "Beatles." He spent hours deciphering the Sgt Pepper's album cover. He showed me this scary little blurb/run off thingy you weren't supposed to really hear at the end of "Strawberry Fields Forever" that seemed way spooky at the time! He was the kindest of souls. I am *deeply* sorry for the loss.
David Holec
October 31, 2004
Jason was many things to me: friend, brother, and, though I never went to his school, teacher as well.
Midgard knows great sorrow at your loss. I'll see you again in Valhalla.
Dave/Bjorn
Mark Hallmen
October 31, 2004
Mr. Cope, its sad to see you gone but i hope you realize how many students you have touched in your years of being a teacher. You were and will always be my favorite teacher that made class fun. We will always remember the days you dressed up and all the crazy weapons.
Rick Oberg
October 31, 2004
I never had the pleasure of meeting Jason, and after reading the things that have been spoken of him since his pssing, I feel I am a lesser man for not having known him.
"Cattle die, kinsmen die, one day you die yourself. But the words of praise will not perish, when a man wins fair fame".
Hail the Ancestors!
Jennifer Hallmen
October 31, 2004
I did not have the privilege to have Mr. Cope as a teacher but I did have the opportunity to sit in on his teachings. He was an amazing teacher and he touched the lives of his students that passed thru his class year after year. May God bless his family, friends, and students.
October 30, 2004
I am also a teacher for Portage, but at the elementary level. It is so touching to read how many lives this young man has touched. God bless his family and may he rest in peace.
Kirk Johnson
October 30, 2004
Dear Jason,
I knew you only well enough to know I wish I knew you better. Your presence in the community we call faire and in your hometown was an inspiration to all those around you. Your warm greetings and warm-hearted laughter will be with me and with our community always. You passed as a noble warrior, friend and comrade and for this, I know you will be in Valhalla for all time. May your horn remain filled to the top with only the finest mead, my friend.
Kirk Johnson, AKA
Sir Alasdair MacInnes of
Ironwolf Clan
Kate Crum
October 30, 2004
Jason Cope was one of the best teachers I have ever met. He was interesting, insightful, and genuinely cared about his students. He was also a true and wonderful friend to many, many people. I am proud to have been one of those friends, and I know that we will all miss him very deeply. My thoughts are with you, Alice.
Maribel Sellers
October 28, 2004
Mr. Cope was the kind of teacher who made a great impact in everyone of his students. He always made sure everyone was on the right track. People say that there is one teacher in everyone's life that will inspire them. For me, Mr. Cope was the one. Every single day I looked forward to my 3rd block Bible Lit. class because of Mr. Cope. He taught me so much more than I could ever imagine. I've always wanted to be a teacher, and Mr. Cope will always be my greatest inspiration. I will truly miss that smile that would enlighten my day everyday...Even though Mr. Cope is not here, his memory will live forever in everyone's life he has touched...
Michelle Bugarin
October 28, 2004
I had the pleasure of having Mr. Cope as my English Teacher and will never forget him. Even after 10 years, his teachings have influenced my daily life. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Lynn "Lady E" SchofieldDahl
October 28, 2004
Jason's bright smile, quick wit, infamous songs and generous heart will be truly missed. He will, however, be warmly remembered.
KIM ROBERTSON
October 28, 2004
MR COPE WAS A GREAT TEACHER..I HAD THE PLEASURE OF HAVING HIM FOR ENGLISH MY JUNIOR YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL..HE MADE LEARNING FUN AND HIS STUDENTS WANTED TO LEARN..HE FIT RIGHT IN WITH THE STUDENTS, HE LIKED TO TELL JOKES, DRESS UP IN DIFFERENT CHARCTERS AND WAS REALLY DOWN TO EARTH AND EASY TO TALK TO....ALWAYS THERE FOR HIS STUDENTS IF THEY NEEDED HIM...HE WILL BE MISSED..HE IS IRREPLACABLE AS A TEACHER AND PERSON.......MY SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY...
Dan T.
October 28, 2004
I had the great pleasure of having Mr. Cope as a teacher in 1998 and even though it was for one short semester six years ago, it is a time I will never forget. He was such an inspiration to me then,now and always.
Jean Martens ( Clemmons)
October 27, 2004
Alice,
I'm so sorry to hear about Jason. Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. I will always remember the proud look on Jason's face while eating his Turkey drumstick at the Renaisance Faire!
Crista Luchene
October 27, 2004
Mr. Cope was not one of my teachers, but I always remembered seeing him passing through the hallways and greeting everyone he saw. During my three years at East my english classes did many things with his classes, and he was always seemed to give his 100%. His truly had passion. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who had known Mr. Cope. He was truly a orginal man.
Tasha Papachronis
October 27, 2004
I had Mr. Cope this year in school, and all I can say is that he was a wonderful man and teacher that made class fun. Having him as a teacher was such an amazing experience because I learned so much from him. I will never forget all of his voices that he used for the different characters in the Bible, and all of his funny jokes. It was such a great loss to myself, and he was only my teacher, let alone a family member. My condolences go out to his family, Mr. Cope you will never be forgotten.
Florence Carnivele
October 27, 2004
My deepest sympathy to you and yours. I never met Jason but he has enriched the life of my son. Through his teachings Andrew is reading everything he can find about the Vikings. Jason will teach forever through the lives of his students. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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