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willie j. moore
June 3, 2022
what a great person love his city GARY IND. RIH
VENISHA JOHNSON
June 22, 2013
TO THE CLAYS AND SWANS, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. MY MOTHER ELSIE AND GRANDMOTHER FLORENCE JOYNER LOVED YOU ALL SO MUCH. MY GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS CALLED ON MR. CLAY WHENEVER ANYTHING WAS WRONG AND HE WOULD MAKE SURE IT WAS TAKEN CARE OF. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
Ray Bernal
June 19, 2013
On behalf of the Hower/James/Bernal families I offer our sincerest and deepest sympathy to the Rudy Clay family. The Hower's,/James(Vye&Doc) and Bernal(Gloria)families have been associated a long time with Rudolph Clay for many years. It goes without saying that the proximity of our businesses and our families, our political and spiritual crossroads allowed us all to be connected in some way throughout the years in Gary. He became a respected man in the community and served well for the city of Gary. As the nephew of Violet and of the family of Hower/James/Bernal, I recall very recently Mr.Clay attending the wake of Violet at her passing just this past October and made it a point to thank him and shake his hand for taking the time to pay his respects to Violet. Its for this reason that I offer again our sincerest sympathy to the Clay Family and pray that Rudolph Clay rest in the arms of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ and that he lives in pain no more.
Mark Edwin Scoggins Sr.
June 14, 2013
To The Clay Family,
Our sincere condolences on the passing of the Honorable Rudolph Clay Sr. As a youth growing up in Gary, IN, Mr. Clay was an inspirational figure and served as a true motivating factor for many young people to pursue excellence and achievement in whatever endeavors they undertook. God Bless the entire family during this somber time.
Sincerely,
Scoggins Family
Velt Class '76, '77 & '79
Taiwan Dowd
June 13, 2013
Mayor Clay was a great man that will truly be missed. My prayers are with the family at this time.
Henrietta Tenney
June 13, 2013
R.I.P Mr.Rudolph Clay Sr.
June 13, 2013
To the family of Rudolph Clay Sr may God continue to bless you all. A great man with a strong legacy.
glenn johnson
June 13, 2013
Rudolph was a very good person to be around even to drink with.I am sorry to see him go so early.Gary will never be the same without him and his goodfellowship.
June 12, 2013
Christine & the Clay family
Just to let you know your family are in our prayers.
Marvin & Barbara "Williams" Nickolson
MR.JOE POPS
June 12, 2013
MAY GOD BLESS THE CLAY FAMILY ON THERE LOST.
June 12, 2013
RIH Mayor Rudy Clay Sr.
Yolanda Lamar-Wilder
June 12, 2013
To the the Family of our Honorable and Former Mayor of our Wonderful City, Gary, Indiana, Mr. Rudy Clay Sr. Sending our heartfelt condolences to the family and you were truly respected and loved. Keeping you all in our prayers as our City celebrates the Homegoing of wonderful human being. God Bless. From the Hamler and Lamar Family
Bonita L. Howard
June 12, 2013
My Sincerest Condolences go out to the Clay Family. It was Truly a Pleasure to know Mayor Rudy Clay. May your Fond and Loving Memories help to Sustain you at this time of Sorrow. The Lord's Continued Blessings. Bonita L. Howard & Family
RIP Rudy "Class of 1953"
June 12, 2013
"Roosevelt High School"
June 12, 2013
June 12, 2013
June 12, 2013
June 12, 2013
In Loving Memory of Rudy Clay Sr.
Mr. & Mrs. Hugh & Val Blackwell Sr.
June 12, 2013
To Tunce & the Clay Family, May your hearts soon be filled with joyous memories of wonderful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. May you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of friends and family.
Dora and Gerald Williams
June 12, 2013
To the family and friends of Mr Rudy Clay he will be truly missed. He played a big part in our lives when we lived in Gary and we will always appreciate the help he gave us. Rest in peace Mr Rudy Clay,may God be with the family through this time of sorrow.
Brenda Murphy
June 12, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Darryl Mitchell
June 12, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Maurice Everette Family
June 12, 2013
To the family of Rudy Clay. We were very saddened to hear of the passing of such a highly respected and wonderful man.May you find joy in knowing that he is no longer suffering and he is finally at peace. He was such a wonderful friend to the Maurice Everette family and we sincerely extend our condolences.
Dr. Sheila Sherman
June 12, 2013
My memories of Rudy Clay, Sr. is that he came to my father's wake; ironically, my father also died of prostate cancer. I understand the effects of the disease. I am praying for the family of Rudolph Clay Sr. Continue to hold on to your precious memories of him-they will help your hearts.
J Robinson
June 11, 2013
My Prayers go out to the entire Clay family & friends. May the Lord continue to Bless each of you & give you strength during this difficult time.
Shirley Payne
June 11, 2013
To the Clay family. I extend my condolence to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May your memories bring you comfort as we celebrate a life of a great man well lived. He will surely be missed.
Hru Khuenaten
June 11, 2013
Mayor Clay will be greatly missed. And, to the Clay family, Mayor Clay is just a thought away. As you go through this healing time, embrace the love that you have for him. Your love and your faith in God will help you to adjust to your loss. Peace and blessings.
Cheryl (Drinkard)Roberson
June 11, 2013
To Christine & The Entire Clay Family:Lord,when sorrow grips our hearts as we think about the death of one close to us,remind us of the joy You are experiencing as our loved one enjoys the pleasures of heaven. Please allow that to give us hope and comfort. We the Drinkard Family would like to express our deepest sympathy during the loss of Rudy. He was such a great friend to the Drinkard Family. My grandmother(Mrs.Sarah Drinkard) said he was one of her sons.Whenever we called on him he was there.Rudy will be missed greatly.You all are in our prayers. The Drinkard Family
June 11, 2013
To Christine, Rudy Jr, and the family of the late Mayor Rudy Clay, my prayers are with you,as you remember all of the wonderful things he did in his lifetime .
Robbie P. Rogers-Spears
HORACE MATTHEWS
June 11, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
JoAnn Betts
June 11, 2013
Upon hearing the news of our First Citizen transition,I could hear a well known tune in my ear,"What a man, what a man, What a mighty good man! -for the citizens of Gary. He always talkedUP the positive messages concerning Gary, regardless of the challenges we continue to face. The Honorable Former Mayor's message of Hope will outlast any monument in his name. Rest in Peace and God's endearing Love to Miss Christine and Family and much grace and Love to my childhood friend Alfreda Peterson,
Always with Faith, Dr.JoAnn Betts,Gary
June 11, 2013
To Christine, my former I.U classmate, my former claymates and the entire Clay family...Rudy will be sorely missed; He was a positive force in my life and so many other lives..Know that death is the doorway to the Lord. Glindia McClatchey-Barley, Marina Del Rey California
Joann Threatt
June 11, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Dr. Rolland P. Hinton
June 11, 2013
"Gone too soon." May you rest in peace, Rudy Clay. The work you did speaks for you. Prayers and condolences to the family.
Russell Biggs
June 11, 2013
To Rudy, Jr. and mom Christine, may the days that fiollow bring you the joy that Rudolph had when doing all he did for others. Let those memories be the wings that carry you when times get rough.
Doing what he do!
Dinahlynn Biggs
June 11, 2013
To the Clay family,the loss of Rudy is like the loss of a family member. He was god father to me. He was always there for my mom and all of us. His kindness is everlasting and anyone in the city that went anywhere always saw Rudy. You know his hours of work as a public servant did not end at 5. Every weekend all around town Sat. or Sun., you were going to see him out and about supporting his people. His vision and faith for the city will never be forgotten. -DLB
June 11, 2013
Remember. “This World is the Land of the Dying; The Next is the Land of the Living.” LORD...Protect and Keep Him! With Sympathy. Atty. Clorius L. Lay
June 10, 2013
With deepest sympath.
Your Cousin
Glenda Jackson & Family
Caren Jones
June 10, 2013
Mayor Clay was a good man, an honorable boss and a great friend. I will miss him and his devotion to the City of Gary. I extend my prayers of comfort to the Clay Family.
Caren Jones (Gary, IN)
dell paxton
June 10, 2013
Keep your hands in God hands he never makes no mistakes when he calls his angel home
Valarie Hudson
June 10, 2013
Thank YOU, Mr. Clay for being a devoted man to the people of Gary, especially the senior citizens. You served them well and will be truly missed. While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil.
Zeritha Vaxteer
June 10, 2013
To The Family of the Honorable Mayor Rudy Clay Sr.
I would like to extend my prayers to your family during this time of bereavement. May our father comfort and keep you during these heavy & trouble times. Be Blessed...
Different States in The US and
June 10, 2013
To the entire family:We share your sorrow in the lost of your Dearly beloved Rudy.He was a good friend to our late Brother(Lester Ross),who moved away from Gary many years ago.While living in Calif.Rudy visited our Brother and when our Brother came back home to visit he would make sure he saw Rudy.May you all find comfort in the precious memories of him.He is at rest now,no more suffering or pain again.We will keep you all lifted in Prayer.From the Ross girls.
June 10, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
The Wadley Family
June 10, 2013
To The Family of the Honorable Mayor Rudy Clay Sr.:
We certainly want to extend our heartfelt prayers and sympathy during your hour of sorrow. May the Lord comfort and keep you during your loss; In Jesus Name.
Jimmy Purnell
June 10, 2013
Christine,
I meet your husband Rudy in April 2004 when Jimmy (Pete) and I were there for the Annual Revival , He also called to check on Pete when he had his stroke and I'll never forget that, Pete spoke highly of you and the family. When I informed Pete of Rudy's death he was very sadden as well as of us were. If Pete was able to travel we would be there, but know we are praying for you and your family, My prayer is that you would continually "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and he will make your path straight."
Sincerely,
Jimmy (Pete) and Wife Rose Mary Purnell
Susan (Law) Lahman
June 10, 2013
My thoughts and prayers to the Clay family. I so enjoyed the time I spent working with Rudy at the Recorders Office.
Mrs. Marian Ivey
June 10, 2013
The Redmond (Ivey) Family extends our most sincerest condolences to the Clay Family, may you hold precious memories of a lovely person as a stronghold to see you thru this very difficult time.
Morris Alston
June 10, 2013
' A job well done, thy good and faithful servant..."
June 10, 2013
The Roosevelt High School Class of 1977 would like to extend our deepest sympathy during the loss of our beloved Mayor Clay. We are praying for your family.
Alfreda Jones-Brodie, President
Valerie Jewell Tate, REunion Chairperson
Linda O. Harris-Webb, Bereavement secretary
June 10, 2013
May God continue to bless each of you as you take this journey . The entire city of Gary, Indiana are praying for you during this most difficult time.
The Harris-Webb Families
June 10, 2013
The Proctor and Peterson families on 16th Georgia Street send our sympathy send our most sincere love to the family of Rudy Clay. He never forgot a friend and was a person that never forgot a friend and will always be remembered for that.
VICTORIA WARD
June 10, 2013
To a fantastic "Employer", a Great Mayor and a Good Person. I am honored to have known you and worked under you. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE
Areta Southward
June 10, 2013
"Rudy" Mayor Clay was a MAN of God. You knew that because of his walk. He cared about people and knew he had a job to do here on earth. He did it!!! I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Rudy in one of his many businesses.I also knew him from my father(Hillard Pugh Sr.) who worked with Rudy and loved him. Rudy was there for him when he was ill and was there when he passed. He will truly be missed!! May God continue to Bless the family as they grieve Rudy's Homegoing. WELL DONE IT IS TIME TO REST MY SERVANT!!!!
Deborah (Pope) Anderson & Family
June 10, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gregory & Dorothy Smith
June 10, 2013
To the entire Clay & Swan Families,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort as we celebrate a life well lived. Rudy will missed.
John Carrillo
June 10, 2013
Rest in peace Rudy . You did a great job in your life .
June 10, 2013
Mayor Clay will be missed by the city of Gary. I found him to be a mayor who cared about children and that meant a lot to me. The former Girl Scout Troop 101 and Troop 80 will never forget you. We will hold on to the pictures and memories forever. My prayers are with you family. Be encouraged and know he's resting. Lift up your heads, oh ye gates; even lift them up, ye everlasting doors; and the King of glory shall come in. God will give you Shalom during this time.
Love,
Janette and Shernette Sanders
Darlene Green
June 10, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Ethel Merrell
June 10, 2013
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Tyrome & Atika Taylor
June 10, 2013
Psalm 32:5
Everett Deloney
June 9, 2013
A very GREAT MAN!!! I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Rudy over the years and He will truly be missed!! May God continue to Bless the family as they grieve in the Homegoing of Rudy!!!!
WILLIE J. MOORE
June 9, 2013
REST IN PEACE MR.MAYOR YOU FOUGHT A GOOD
FIGHT MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
gwendolyn turner west
June 9, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
June 9, 2013
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family! Betty Clay Stevenson and Sister Girl. Courtland Al
June 9, 2013
Our prayers are with the Clay family in your your time of sorrow! Betty Clay Stevenson,Sister Girl. Courtland Alabama
C Douglas
June 9, 2013
Rest in Peace Mayor Clay
Michael & Diane Smith
June 9, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Jim and Daisy Curtis and John and Dorothy Curtis
June 9, 2013
Chris,
Thoughts from friends are with you as you go through this difficult time and prepare for the Homegoing of Your Beloved Rudy.
The Edwards Family Elmer, Imogene, Chris,Carlette,Christian and Joi and George Brown
June 9, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Terri Sams
June 9, 2013
Extending condolences to the Clay family.
Eleanor Vann
June 9, 2013
The Clay family, look to the hills for help, all your help come from The Lord. Rest in peace Rudy. The family of the late Ashanti Sabree.
Charmaine Shelton- Turner
June 9, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Idella Fair
June 9, 2013
To Mrs. Clay and family you have my deepest condoles a classmate from IUN.
Edith Chandler
June 9, 2013
To the Clay Family,
May the Lord bless with the comfort of his mercies; with the strength of his presence and with the touch of his care. Rest in peace Mayor Clay.
BETTY J BELL
June 9, 2013
REST IN PEACE RUDY.
Fred & Michelle Retic
June 9, 2013
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Jimmy Cook
June 9, 2013
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Rosie Miller
June 9, 2013
Prayers go out to the family.
Hector Medina
June 9, 2013
My condolences are with you, and your family. May God Bless you. You will be missed, but not forgotten. Regards / Hector & Christina Medina
The Family of The Late Annie A. Golden
June 9, 2013
To the family of the Late and Honorable Rudy Clay Sr. I am so sorry for you loss my mother who recently passed away last month was very good friends with Mayor Clay he was a very good person when my mom was sick he would come see her in the hospital . He was always just a phone call away if you ever needed anything done in the City of Gary. My mother was a precinct committee person in G1-9 for over 30 years and all of my life I can remember Mayor Clay was such a nice person. He will truly be missed but please know and take comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering.
Sharon Drinkard & Family
June 9, 2013
To Mrs.Christine Clay and the Clay family the Drinkard family would like for you to know our condolences&prayers will be with you through this touchable lost for all of us.May God grant you"ll his strong Grace and Mercy. Mayor Clay was a close family member to the Drinkard family. I remember meeting the Clay family at a young age Mrs Chistine and the earring shop.May our God continue keeping you and the Clay family in his hands.
Gloria J Robinson
June 9, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Harriett Washington
June 9, 2013
Chris:
For the angels im Heaven are rejoicing in welcoming a good and faithful servant, for Bro. Rudy truly loved his neighbor as himself, as he served the citizens of Gary and Northwest Indiana with compassion as God desires.
The Alston Family
June 9, 2013
To The Clay Family and Friends,My condolences and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of our beloved former Mayor,may our Lord comfort you and keep you,may the many memories you all shared with him bring you comfort in the days ahead,RIP Mr. Mayor.
Rufus & Idella Naylor
June 9, 2013
Let Us Remember, Matthew 6:14-15
Deidre (Griffin) Cudup
June 9, 2013
My condolences to the family of Rudy Clay. He as truly an advocate for the elderly citizens in Gary. He was instrumental in helping my mother get lot of work done in and outside of her home in Gary.
To Mr Clay:
The Senior citizens of Lake County will miss you.
Thankyou Mr Clay for you service.
Norma Coleman
June 9, 2013
Mayor Clay was a Politician, of the 'People'. He had respect, for those; in all levels of society. Everyone was worthy to Rudolph. He appreciated his home county and town and the residents loved him.
"Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted". Matthew 5:4
Norma Coleman and
Edith Coleman, widow of the late
Henry Coleman
June 9, 2013
Rest in peace. Job well done
Cherrie White and Patricia Fointno
June 9, 2013
A life well spent. A rest well deserved. Please know that my prayers are with you. May Rudy rest in the peace of Christ and may his family be comforted.
Maude I. Bruce
June 8, 2013
Trust in JESUS during this time, for he will comfort your hearts. A Pioneer that will always be remembered.
Lorenzo Davis
June 8, 2013
To the Clay family. It was a pleasure to serve Mayor Clay. He taught me that you must honor God before you can serve people. My prayers are with you.
Earnest Tyler
June 8, 2013
I am sorry hear of your loss, please accept my prayers and condolences. This is never a easy thing to go through, but through hard times lean on each other for support. My prayers are with the family at this time.
Diana Phillips Stanford
June 6, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Carolyn G
June 6, 2013
To The Clay Family and Friends,My condolences and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of our beloved former Mayor,may our Lord comfort you and keep you,may the many memories you all shared with him bring you comfort in the days ahead,RIP Mr. Mayor.
Irvin & Eva Minor
June 6, 2013
Our prayers are with you and your family . I will remember the late Mayor Rudy Clay for his skills to be a people person , his smile and them long sideburns . It was good to see a man like him speak about Our God. May the Peace of God be with you
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