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MAX--Adam E. Brooklyn Academy of Music board and staff deeply mourn the passing of board chairman Adam E. Max on July 27. An enthusiastic BAM patron for more than 30 years, Adam joined the board in 2003, becoming co-vice chair in 2008 and chairman in 2017. He led with grace and humility, and his buoyant humor and thoughtfulness touched us all. Adam was integral to BAM's growth through the construction and opening of BAM Fisher and BAM Strong. He guided the organization through a leadership transition, and initiated board training in DEI. His devotion and great generosity will never be forgotten. A native New Yorker, Adam had longstanding philanthropic connections to the city's culture, social services, and education sectors. Our thoughts and prayers are with Adam's beloved wife, Diane Max, and their children, Hannah, Jonah, and Ezra. -BAM President Katy Clark, Artistic Director David Binder, Board Vice Chairs William I. Campbell and Nora Ann Wallace, President Emerita Karen Brooks Hopkins, Executive Producer Emeritus Joseph V. Melillo, BAM board and staff.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 29, 2020.

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Emily Willard

August 5, 2020

Adam was a true gentleman. Although I only had the opportunity to work on a few projects with him, he was always inclusive, and very kind to me in an industry that is frequently unkind to women. He always spoke of his family and his activities in the arts. I had the pleasure to meet his son Ezra on one occasion and it was immediately clear what a great dad he was. My deepest sympathies and condolences to his entire family. His passing is a great loss for everyone who knew him and for all those who benefited from his knowledge and generosity. Rest in Peace.

Virginia Kwarta

August 4, 2020

Adam was my student in the 8th grade at The Bank Street School For Children.

Amit Shah

July 30, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Cem Manisali

July 30, 2020

Hi Jonah & Max family
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this tough time. I remember Adam was a real funny guy when he came to read to our class at Collegiate! Prayers to you all in honor of a strong and gentle man, hidden under a drape of humility like the wise men of old times. May God rest hos soul in peace, and give you strength through it all.

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Susan Hambleton

July 29, 2020

Adam was an extraordinary human being. A full lover of life, his wife, those remarkable kids. I've known Adam for well over 58 years, There are few as loving and generous and thoughtful as he was. I shall miss him greatly.

Bill Lichtblau

July 29, 2020

I remember playing baseball with Adam for Collegiate at Horace Mann. Condolences. He hit a Double. Bill Lichtblau

Scott Hansen

July 29, 2020

My condolences to Diane, the Max family and the Jordan Company. It was exceptionally sad to hear the news this morning of Adam's passing. I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Adam for nearly 13 years. He was an incredibly supportive business partner to our Company and those who knew them at PRG will miss him greatly.

Jack Lowden

July 29, 2020

Great Guy. A combination of unwavering optimism, wittiness and determination all but insured his success in so many endeavors. I enjoyed his partnership and camaraderie for 17 years - many laughs and fond memories - his positive energy and outlook certainly left its mark on others.

My condolences to Diane and his three children.

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