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FIORILLO--Anita Pitney. Anita Pitney Fiorillo, passed away peacefully at home in Chatham, NY, on July 7, 2025, at age 79. Born in New York City on October 30, 1945, Anita was the daughter of Shelton Pitney Jr. and Barbara Bradley Manice. She grew up in New York and Mexico, became fluent in Spanish, and later studied at the Shipley School, Barnard, Empire State College, and Columbia University, where her love of archaeology took her to the Yucatan. Anita met her husband, John Fiorillo, while working in the administration of Mayor John Lindsay. They shared 56 years of marriage, raising their daughter, Alexandra, and traveling together across Africa, Asia, and Latin America. Anita spent most of her career at Arnold Saks Associates, rising to Vice President and Director of Operations. She was a devoted community leader in both Chatham and NYC, serving nonprofits focused on mutual aid, the environment, youth programming, women's rights, animals, and the arts. A world traveler, gardener, and New York Times Spelling Bee whiz, she is survived by her husband, John; daughter, Alexandra Fiorillo; granddaughter, Tilly; and a large circle of family and friends. A celebration of life will be held in Columbia County in fall 2025. Please contact Alexandra for details. Donations in her memory: columbiacountyrecoverykit chen.org. Visit frenchblasl.com for full obituary or to convey a condolence.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 20, 2025.

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Andrew fritz

July 28, 2025

My mom, Wendy Cowperth....., went to Shipley& loved Anita. As a kids, I remember them telling saucy stories& howling w/ laughter. She is remembered well in the Fritz house. Hugs-Andy

Service Dog Project

July 28, 2025

Anita was a wonderful person and we had the pleasure of meeting her and John last summer. Sending healing thoughts and prayers to John, Alexandra and Tilly. May she rest in peace.

PATRICIA CHAN

July 21, 2025

My deepest condolences to the entire family of Anita. May she Rest In Peace.

Judy and Roger

July 20, 2025

Dear John and Alexandra
We were devastated to learn of Anita´s passing. We have many wonderful memories of gatherings. Our hearts and love go out to both of you
Judy and Roger

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