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ANTHONY GAIR Obituary

GAIR--Anthony H. Tony, as he was known to his friends, family and colleagues was a man who dedicated his life to helping those who were less fortunate. Tony was born on December 24, 1948, the son of one of the preeminent trial attorneys in the country Harry A. Gair, and one of the first women to graduate from NYU Law school Harriet E. Gair. Following in his parent's footsteps, Tony obtained his law degree in 1980, and became an associate at the firm then known as Gair, Gair and Conason. Tony immediately developed an insatiable appetite for the law, spending endless hours reviewing trial transcripts and legal briefs in order to become the best possible advocate for his clients. Although already a successful attorney, Tony returned to school and obtained a Master of Laws from New York University School of Law in 1985. Throughout his over forty year legal career, Tony helped thousands of individuals obtain justice for the serious harm they suffered at the hands of others. In a career filled with noteworthy cases, Tony is most remembered for his zealous advocacy for the family of Amadou Diallo, a young unarmed black man who was shot 41 times by members of the New York City Police Department. When Tony wasn't fighting for his clients, he enjoyed spending time gardening at his cottage in Putnam County. He will be missed by all of those whose lives he deeply touched, including his family, friends, loved ones, clients and colleagues.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 31, 2023.

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David Tripoli

January 15, 2025

Tony was a wonderful friend to my family in Putnam Valley. Although we were a few years younger Tony and Rodger, they both went out of their way to include us in horseback riding, fishing , playing sports and just hanging around having fun.
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March 31, 2024

I can´t believe it´s been a year. With the Presidential race heating up, the Yankees kicking off with great momentum and Tyson getting in the ring in July, we would have so much to talk about. Miss you terribly but know you finally have peace.

Lauren Rockefeller-Gagné

January 5, 2024

Tony left a lasting impression on me; a patient mentor and a kind man. He will be missed.

Polanco Family

August 23, 2023

Rest in peace Tony. Because of you my kids had a good life and a good education. May your soul be with almighty and rest in heaven

Martha E. (Meg) Gifford, NYWBA Past President

June 14, 2023

Tony Gair was a long-time, devoted member of the New York Women's Bar Association, which his mother Harriet had served as President. Thank you and the firm for your unwavering support.

Nancy and Craig Karlebach and Family

April 17, 2023

The family of the late Herbert H. Hirschhorn sends our deepest condolences to the law firm where our uncle worked for decades prior and alongside Tony Gair. Our thoughts and sympathy go out to his family and to his colleagues.

Leslie Inzunza

April 14, 2023

Tony was a mensch and a gentle, lovely soul. We will miss him very much.

Gary Bruce

April 6, 2023

RIP Tony. You were a great friend and inspiration to me when we were in law school together. Your career in the law provided justice for many. You will always be fondly remembered.

Joan OConnell

April 4, 2023

RIP Tony. You will be dearly missed. I will never forget your kindness and dedication. There is a huge void and sadness here without your presence.

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April 3, 2023

Rest In Peace Tony, you will be dearly missed

John Oconnell

April 2, 2023

He´s been there for me since the day I was born. Love you always!

John Oconnell

April 2, 2023

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Saul Wilensky

April 1, 2023

Wonderful person
Great guy

Nathalie Soulier

April 1, 2023

See You beautiful Soul

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