To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
LTG Patrick M. Hughes, US Army (Retired)
August 2, 2024
Every time I read a learned paper about adaptive neural networks, artificial intelligence, and transformative science; I think of Dr. Oettinger. When I do think of him, my estimation of his loss for all of us grows (exponentially). The 'Wunderkind' of today do not give him enough credit for laying the foundational thought and the prescient insight his work provided. As those of us who were fortunate enough to associate with him -- notably in the context of national security -- know, he was a rare example of the alchemy of a magnificent mind, defining life experiences, and commitment to fundamental values which we so sorely need now. I'm sure the hosts of heaven are glad to have him, but God knows they need to send replacement(s) to those of us still left on #3. Missing him is axiomatic.
LTG Patrick M Hughes USA ret
November 1, 2022
Dr. Tony Oettinger was a true "American" patriot. Some of what he did is not in his biography nor is it in his obituary, but it is in "our" memory and in the official record of his work on behalf of our nation. It was my good fortune to know and associate with him and to admire his intellect and his insight. He should be counted among those who serve quietly but importantly in the work of intelligence in support of our national security and the preservation of the freedoms we enjoy. I offer my final salute to a "brave soldier of high intellect and determined judgement -- who did the right things for the right reasons." See you at the next rally point Dr. Oettinger. Montana 6 out!
Paul J Berman
October 21, 2022
Doug,
I had the extremely good forture of having your Dad as an advisor during my undergraduate years, a co-author during my time in law school, and then serving on the Board of his Program on Information Resources Policy. I it hard for me to put into words what a profound effect he had on my education and my life. Time and again he guided me to see and appreciate the bigger picture, no matter what the issue. I am saddened by his passing, and wish you as much comfort as you can gain from knowing how many lives he influenced so much for the better. Please convey my condolences and sense of shared loss to your mother. Thank you,
Paul Berman
Howard Richard Moskowitz
October 14, 2022
I'm sorry that we never met, and never got to work together. You were instrumental in my coming to Harvard as a graduate student in experimental psychology, in 1965. I will always remember reading your paper 'Teaching the EDSAC to go shopping', in George Miller's edited 1964 book, Mathematics and Psychology. RIP. Howard R Moskowitz (PhD, Harvard Psychology, 1969)
A. Denis Clift
August 17, 2022
So deeply admired, treasured friend, distinguished career.
Louise Weber and Howard Granowitz
August 15, 2022
To Marilyn and the Oettinger family: We are so sorry to learn of Tony's death and extend our sympathies to all. From our two decades of living next door, we remember Tony well as a kind and friendly neighbor, and an unassuming and down-to-earth gentleman. May his memory be a blessing. Our very best wishes - Louise and Howard, and Tom and Lily, Marblehead, MA
Peter Shapiro
August 14, 2022
Tony took a chance on me back in the early 1970s when I was hired as a research fellow in his Harvard program (PIRP), and then got me into my next job as a consultant at ADLittle. He was a friend and mentor, a true gentleman and scholar. Plus he was always entertaining, and a source of great stories, well told. Thank you, Tony!
Howard Gordon
August 12, 2022
The Oettingers lived two houses up from our house on Elizabeth Rd, where I grew up. I remember when you moved in!
Dr. Oettinger was such a classy man, all the way.
My sincere condolences, Howie Gordon
Marjorie Gordon Albin
August 11, 2022
I am so sorry to hear of your dad's death. You and your family were our long time and wonderful neighbors on Elizabeth Road. Please wish your lovely mom all my thoughts and prayers and may your dad's memory always be a blessing. Marge
Jean Rossner
August 9, 2022
My sincere condolences to the family, from a long-ago acquaintance of Doug Oettinger who happened upon the obit through a different connection. Dr. Anthony Oettinger sounds like an amazing person, and I wish I'd known him.
Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more