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BARBARA STETSON Obituary

STETSON--Barbara Brown "Bebe," Sr. Beloved wife, mother and friend, died on Tuesday in Fairfield, CT. It was the 77th anniversary of her wedding. She was 99 years old. Mrs. Stetson, who was born in Cleveland, OH, moved to New York City in 1926, where she graduated from The Brearley School in New York. In high school, Mrs. Stetson won the Higgins Cup for best athlete in the school three years in a row, a record that stands to this day. In 1938, she won the Drew Cup, the Club Championship for Ladies Singles tennis on grass at the Maidstone Club in East Hampton. She married Charles P. Stetson, Sr. in 1942 and moved to Southport, CT a few years later, where she was an avid tennis player, bridge partner, hostess and devoted Altar Guild member of the Trinity Episcopal Church for 72 years. She is survived by her children, Charles P. Stetson, Jr., Barbara B. Stetson, Jr., Edith W. Yovu and John H. Stetson, nine grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 6, 2019.

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Deborah Valentin

January 4, 2020

Her friendship was a great blessing in my life. One of the most intrinsically good and decent human beings I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I miss her terribly.

Glenn Ratcliffe

October 7, 2019

What an amazing woman! Such an inspiration to us all. There's a special place in heaven for Bebe and I'm sure she's not sitting still there either! Rest in peace Bebe.

Jack and Pam Blair

October 7, 2019

We were so blessed to visit you the day before you passed. What a remarkable woman you were.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

October 3, 2019

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