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DAVID BENHAM Obituary

BENHAM--David B., a longtime resident of Locust Valley, NY, and Palm Beach, FL, passed away peacefully on December 24, 2024, at the age of 79. He is survived by his beloved wife of 55 years, Margaret (Wise); his son, Clifton, and wife Anna; and granddaughters Mabon and Annabel. He is predeceased by his son Tyler and sister Elizabeth Antonelli. Born on September 6, 1945, in Garden City, NY, David was Chairman of Victor B. Benham & Co. Ltd., a ship brokerage firm established by his grandfather. David led the business through decades of growth, establishing it as a key player in the global transportation of sugar, coffee, and other commodities. David enjoyed gardening, antiques, architecture, and travel, with Lake George holding a special place in his heart. A true gentleman, he will be deeply missed. Donations in his name may be made to Trinity-Pawling School.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 26, 2025.

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