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Edward VASSALLO Obituary

VASSALLO-Edward F. Today, my baby cousin Ed Vassallo breathed his last in this world. He fought as a samurai warrior against the leukemia that returned last year, after a wonderful year in remission. I could go on and on about his humor, his heart, his sense of justice and desire for all mankind to be treated equally, his daily missions and video postings from the Rockaways after Hurricane Sandy, his stint on The Sopranos, his membership with the LAByrinth Theater Company, his deep love of all New York sports teams.... an actor, an inspiration to all who met him and worked with him, he will be missed by his friends around the world, and mostly his family. My heart goes out to his wife Chen, his dad John Vassallo, his brother John Vassallo, his dear sister Elena Vassallo Crossman, his mom Carol Vassallo Soderholm, and all the nieces and nephews who deeply adored him. These were my closet cousins growing - up we have wonderful memories.... I will miss you very much Eddie Freddie.... xoxo see you on the other side.
Lee Robin

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 1, 2014.

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Terumi Matthews

September 27, 2023

I´m only now learning of Ed´s passing. I worked with him many years ago. As an actor he was present, passionate - and always game! He was right there with you and you know he was loving it! As a colleague he was giving, supportive and...loving. A truly special being. I will always treasure my time with him, however brief. Knowing him was a gift and I am grateful.

John A Vassallo

February 23, 2023

THINK OF YOU AND MISS YOU EVERY DAY SON,
ALWAYS WITH TEARS IN MY EYES. DAD

Patricia Randell

December 18, 2021

Oh Eddie, it's over seven years since you left us. Tonight I listened to a night time concert of Haydn's Mass in B-flat Major at St. Bart's. The last time I was there was for your funeral. I felt the presence of those who mourned for you over seven years ago powerfully and know your legacy of goodness lives on.

Vanessa Aspillaga

February 21, 2019

Ahhh... Eddie... You are deeply missed. I can't believe it's been 5 years. I love you and I miss you and I wish we could dance again... You had the energy of 20 men and I miss your face all the time. Love and Light always, V

Rebekah Curiel-Alessi

January 19, 2019

I am sad to learn, my friend who teases Miranda every time I watch that episode of sex and the city, whom I just happened to look up this time watching, is gone. Even through my phone screen, his life blazes kindness, humanity, fun and empathy. May you rest in peace sir. May anyone who knew him receive my heartfelt condolences and gratitudes for a life that somehow has enriched mine.

Leslie Napoles

March 18, 2014

I met Ed many years ago ..I happened to be working on a show he was performing in.Ed was an immensely talented actor that would have made him special alone..however... he may have been the most compassionate person I have ever met.
Ed made you feel special,talented,brilliant in reality he had all these qualities in abundance he could also make you laugh like no one else.He also had the biggest heart and his love for everyone had no limits. He was also a true New Yorker in the best sense of the word and a charming Italian to boot.There will never another Ed Vassallo I will be grateful to him forever and may his beautiful soul watch over all those he loved.

Bram Lewis

March 12, 2014

In the summer of 1988, Ed Vassallo walked into the Phoenix Theatre in Dobbs Ferry, N.Y. He was the last person hired that season and there were already two other Eds so he was called "Ed New-Hire". Next season, he returned and was lovingly renamed "Re-Hire". In the third year, he morphed into "Old Hire". But he was always so loved that he was just one of those people that always have their names played with out of affection. When he walked in the door that first summer, he was young, gifted and handsome like a Greek God. And not one arrogant bone in his body. If we manifested the signs of greatness as a company in those "fervent years", as we did occasionally, it was because of a vital warm spirit blowing through our corps, a spirit that twinkled effortlessly in Ed Vassallo's eyes. Such a blessing. Rest in piece. Thank you for the gift of your life and may the dawn of your re-birth come as quickly as possible... You are one rare sentient being!

Ed and I at the LAByrinth Charades 2010 after party.

Vanessa Aspillaga

March 6, 2014

Ed Vassallo was my friend (like a member of my family, actually) and an amazing actor I had the privilege to work with a lot throughout the years, both on stage and on film. His humor, wit, generosity, grace, and big hearted love will not only be missed by me, it will be missed by so many. He made a huge impact on a lot of people, and those of us who called him friend, were the luckiest. I was blessed to know him for a little over seventeen years, and I will miss him greatly… until our next go around… May you be surrounded by all the peace and love and creativity you sowed on this earth, and may your spirit rejoice in all the joy and laughter you brought to so very many. Love and Light, Vanessa Aspillaga

Robert Canfield

March 5, 2014

So saddened to hear of the loss of Ed. While we had lost touch over the years I have always remembered him fondly and the fun times we had at Delta Chi. My thoughts and prayers are with Ed's family in your time of loss.

Tanis Gaitens

March 5, 2014

So sorry for the loss of Eddie, a man with a huge heart and zest for life who touched my family. We will always remember him spending hours teaching our daughters to play Tomb Raider, he will be forever a part of our memories of the Franklin Stage Co. summers. Wishing you all comfort and peace.

March 4, 2014

What a kind and hilarious man...Eddie will forever be in our hearts.

Ron Klein

March 4, 2014

John, We are so very sorry for the loss of your son Eddie. He was obviously a much loved and very special person.

Jay Cotten

March 4, 2014

Ed, thank you for sharing your amazing life with us. You were so full of life and love, so powerful, and so vulnerable, so playful, so supportive, and such a big kid. This world will truly not be the same without you. Thank you for making us feel more alive and better about ourselves...

Alex Lippard

March 3, 2014

Ed was so supportive of me in my student days...we were introduced to each other by Machado; Ed ended up acting in a few of my projects during and after school. He provided true encouragement and commitment. Such a talented, strong, funny, irreverent, and kind person with a real lust for life.

I remember being so shocked to see an actor on a sunny weekend who was not navel gazing and whining about auditions, but instead heading out of the city on the train with golf clubs in hand...to clear his head and kick a family member's butt in a game of 9 holes... Ed had the right idea: you gotta relax if the really great stuff is gonna happen. I miss you greatly, Ed.

Lori Challinor

March 3, 2014

Ed leaves the world a better place than he found it; his presence blessed all who were fortunate enough to encounter him.

Majella Meade

March 3, 2014

My deepest condolences to all of Eds family. I never got to meet Ed in person but he was my online buddy for 18 months as we wandered through the leukaemia path together. He was an inspiration to me and a true friend.

Wayne Bailey

March 2, 2014

Ed...

I miss you.
I wish you were here.

You were...
leader, follower, gracious, kind,
a ball of energy, my colleague, my friend.

You were...
always happy for other peoples' success.

And you loved kids...
all kids, even big kids.

I miss you.
I wish you were here.

Brandeis University, Class of 1994

Lou Zacarese

March 2, 2014

I knew Eddie as an online friend and was hoping we would meet in person one day. His and my backgrounds were similar and we we called ourselves cyber-brothers. We have lost one of our brightest stars but I know he is lighting up the heavens with his wit, humor and kindness. Rest in peace, my friend.

emily baer

March 2, 2014

I was so sad to hear of the passing of my friend Ed. It seems like yesterday I was directing him at EST and rehearsing with him in his dad's basement. He was a true artist and a great friend and affected every one he crossed paths with in a positive way. I will always remember him as such a strong positive presence, full of boundless energy, great sense of humor and the ability to make everyone feel special in his presence. My condolences to his wife, his parents, his siblings - all of us who loved him whether we were once in his life or still, will miss him and mourn the loss of a great man.

Jackie "JKlee" Kleefield

March 2, 2014

From afar, over time, I have been made aware of your continued passion for theater and how you moved forward with your dreams. A life well lived!! - albeit to short a time sadly. Suddenly hearing the news, memories rushed in from the Brandeis theater days, View from a Bridge among other performances you rocked, the joy you shared with our intimate graduate school community. You gave so much and beyond those days, so many have felt it. Thank you Ed - your inspiration is divine! JKlee

Johnathan Brownlee

March 1, 2014

We love you, we miss you, and we will raise a glass to you this week.

David Aronson

March 1, 2014

John,

I am sure that reading the memories that his relatives and friends are posting does not get me past first base in knowing and understanding what a special person your son Eddie must have been. They do, however make clear that he touched many lives in a very positive way. I could not be more sorry for your loss.

Dave Aronson

Rob McIntosh

March 1, 2014

Ed, You have always been a brave, funny, talented, warm and generous soul. We love you and will miss you. I'm proud to have been your friend.

Dana Leslie Goldstein

March 1, 2014

When so many people miss you, you can't possibly be gone. We will always love you.
- Dana & Rob

Karen Gerrior-Mariani

March 1, 2014

John, we are thinking of you during this challenging time and we hope the wonderful memories of your brother will help comfort you. I remember meeting Eddie when her performed @ Brandeis. His enthusiasm, love & spirit will always live on.

Karen and Joe Mariani

Karen Bailey

March 1, 2014

Followed your career since you were at Brandeis with my son and future daughter-in-law. Loved you then and still do. My deepest sympathies to your wife and family and all your fellow actors.

Amy Nigro Bailey

February 28, 2014

I've missed you my friend.
I wish you'd stay.
We have so much to rehearse,
So much to play.

Old soul,
I know you are meant to soar and fly.
I just wish I'd had a chance
To say goodbye.

Brandeis University, Class of '94

Katie Grant Shalin

February 28, 2014

I was an undergrad at Brandeis while Ed was getting his MFA. I know you know how loved Ed was and what a lion hearted soul he was. Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of this tremendous man.

Pam Karlin

February 28, 2014

Ed was such a kind, joyous spirit! He cast good energy around him and made so much happen in his time. I loved acting with him, bowling with him, and just hanging out. A sadder planet now.

Susan Dibble

February 28, 2014

Ed was my student at Brandeis. He was a bright force in my life as a teacher. His talent and wonderful spirit for life and the daring way he approached his work was wonderful to witness and be a part of. I am very sad that he has passed and want to send my condolences to his family and friends.

Quincy Newton

February 28, 2014

I was lucky enough to get to work with Ed back in 2001. He was a smart, funny, kind, and generous man. Miss you Ed...RIP.

ak ayla

February 28, 2014

You Rest in Pure Joy and Love now, Wonderful Spirit that was Ed... Your Laugh echoes in my Heart... ever inspired by You and the Being You chose to BE ~ Thank You!

Robin Parks

February 28, 2014

I am heartbroken at this news. After losing some of my own dear family (two aunts) in the pass 6 months, I truly understand what a loss means to the family and my heart and soul are with you during these days. Ed was a kind soul and had a very generous spirit. His enthusiasm will be missed.

vicki brugnatelli

February 28, 2014

I have very fond memories of growing up with Eddie. He was my neighbor. We would play all day and night and never fought. He was always smiling. I always knew he would be something that reflected his wonderful personality one day. I am deeply saddened by his loss and my sympathies go out to his wife and family.
Vicki Dagostino Brugnatelli

Eddie "teaching me how to be cool..." He was a Natural, but not sure I ever got the hang of it...

Peter Riopelle

February 28, 2014

He was a lion of a man in talent, kindness, humor and love, and he will be missed by so many. Deepest thoughts, prayers and sympathies for your loss...

Angelo, Maria, Attilio Vassallo

February 28, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Accept our deepest sympathies

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