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EILEEN PETTUS

1946 - 2021

EILEEN PETTUS obituary, 1946-2021, Melbourne, FL

BORN

1946

DIED

2021

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EILEEN PETTUS Obituary

PETTUS--Eileen Ryan. Suddenly, Sunday, January 17, 2021 at the Health First's Holmes Medical Center, Melbourne, FL. The result of an automobile accident. She was 74 years old. Eileen was born in New York City on October 28, 1946. She was an alumna of Convent of the Sacred Heart, 91st Street, in New York City; Sacred Heart Greenwich (Connecticut); and the Convent of the Sacred Heart, Kenwood, in Albany, NY, from which she graduated in 1964. She attended Briarcliff, Briarcliff Manor, NY, and in 1968 she graduated from Maryville University, St. Louis, with a degree in English Literature. During her early years in New York she was a runway and magazine model, and in St. Louis worked for the old Southwest Bank, and Commerce banks. Her marriages to John B. Mitchell Jr., of St. Louis, and Theodore T. Pettus of New York both ended in divorce. She returned from St. Louis to New York City in 1985, and worked as a client representative in the private banking group at JP Morgan, New York. In 2004 she relocated to South Florida, closeby to where her family had a longtime second home. In Florida, Eileen was active in several charities and nonprofits, including the Boys and Girls Club of Palm Beach County. She was supportive of "Paul's Place" in Palm Beach County, an after-school program that provides mentoring and nourishment to underprivileged children. She was alternately known by nicknames such as Leendog and Rosebud, but by whatever name she was also described as a brilliant and beautiful force, a woman who had a significant and profound impact on scores of people she encountered on her sometimes bumpy journey. Eileen was charismatic, they agree: quick-witted, well-read, outspoken, charming, magnetic, sophisticated, exceptionally generous, captivating, creative and artistic, dazzling, optimistic, possessed of an extraordinary sense of humor; and indelibly fashionable. She was an avid angler, an occasional golfer, a fanatical baseball devotee and sports fan; she was a dedicated philanthropist, an impassioned theater and music lover, a gifted artist, a dog lover extraordinaire. She enjoyed the best that life had to offer, and had a thirst for mischief. She always threw the best party. Eileen was a devoted mother and grandmother, sister and friend. She had an exceptionally close and joyful relationship with her only grandchild, Blake Jr, who received her undivided attention and affection. Coincidentally, they also celebrated the same birthday. She is survived by her children, John Blanton Mitchell III, (wife, Anita) of San Francisco, and Mariah Mitchell Davis of New York City; by her grandson, Blake Tamblyn Davis Jr.; her brothers John Ryan (wife, Virginia); Chevy Chase, MD; and Kevin Ryan (wife, Lynde) of Beaufort, SC, and Michael Ryan of Bradenton, FL, along with numerous nieces, nephews, grand- nieces and grandnephews. Eileen was preceded in death by her siblings: Charles Patrick Ryan, Jr. (wife, Cissy), Garden City, NY; Cathleen Ann Ryan, New York; and her parents, Charles Patrick Ryan and Mary Dwyer Ryan of New York, NY. Plans for a memorial service will be announced later. The family would like to thank caregivers at Holmes Medical Center in Melbourne, FL, for their extraordinary care and dedication. In lieu of flowers, donations should go to "Big Dog Ranch Rescue" Animal rescue service, 14444 Okeechobee Blvd., Loxahatchee Groves, FL 33470.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 22, 2021.

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Lee Anderson

April 2, 2024

Dearest Mariah, Your Mom was my Guru! I met your aunt
and she told me about your Mom's passing. My sincere condolences.
She was one of a kind
Kindest Regards'
Lee Anderson

Annette Brown

January 16, 2022

Vernon and Annette loved our times with Eileen as she was soo creative, funny wonderful entertainer and just the best friend.

Anne Wilson

January 15, 2022

My sympathy for losing this smart loving lady I had much joy just knowing
Her

Simone Taylor

January 24, 2021

Please except my deepest sympathies, May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Esther Johnson

January 23, 2021

Eileen was exceptional with a kind and beautiful heart. These attributes extended to everyone she met. May she rest in Heavenly Peace

Martha Mizroch

January 23, 2021

John and Virginia I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved sister Eileen. I know she was a wonderful person and I am sure you will miss her terribly

Anne Wilson

January 22, 2021

Joy just knowing her and being with her a beautiful lady she will be missed a great deal god bless

Annette Brown

January 22, 2021

Eileen was one of one for sure. Generous and great fun and such a good friend. Her spirit will be greatly missed.

Martha Grimm

January 21, 2021

A true and loyal friend. Such a tragedy I can’t wrap my head around. I will miss her wit, her inquisitive mind, her fun conversation, her loyal friendship and great flare. Rest In Peace my friend ❤❤

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