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Memories and Condolences
for Evan Radler
Mindy Radler
May 7, 2006
The unveiling of the headsone for Rabbi Evan C. Radler, aka Evan, Ev, Ari, Chaim Ari ...etc
will be held at New Montefiore Cemetary on Sunday June 11th at 2pm.
Exit 35 , Southern State Parkway, Wellwood Ave., Pinelawn, LI, NY
Meet at the gatehouse at 1:45, to be taken to the correct location in the cemetary.
Please feel free to share this information with others who might be interested.
Email [email protected] for other information.
Hillcrest Jewish Center
March 20, 2006
As Rabbi Evan Radler's first Yahrzeit approaches, we can't help crying and smiling.
His sudden departure was like a punch in the stomach to Hillcrest Jewish Center with lingering pain and memories.
But we also remember the laughter and still feel the energy he brought to Hillcrest. The solid foundation that he built should bring smiles to our faces. I bet Rabbi Radler would urge us to keep on laughing, enjoy Judaism and strengthen our love and support for Israel. No doubt about it.
With that in mind, we are planning Cantor Moti Fuchs' "Hatikvah II" Concert using 3 basic principles:
1) It'll be a CELEBRATION of Evan Radler's life - NOT a memorial service. A chance to rejoice over his short but rich life, and reminisce about his many passions and accomplishments.
2) Sunday, June 4 was intentionally chosen to coincide with The Salute to Israel Parade that morning. It was one of Rabbi Radler's favorite events and marchers/supporters can return home energized, in plenty of time to prepare for the 7:00 p.m. show.
3) A portion of the concert's net proceeds will go towards the purchase of a Hatzolah Israel Emergency Vehicle in memory of Rabbi Evan Radler. Hatzolah Israel is a volunteer, non-profit group that assists the victims of terrorism and other medical emergencies throughout Israel.
Our Concert Committee is already hard at work to make this year's event a memorable one. We'll have another incredible lineup of entertainers and our Hillcrest kids will again be part of the show.
It promises to be one of the most important and enjoyable days of the year at Hillcrest… It always is!
Ilana Zaken
March 2, 2006
I love you, Evan.
Mindy Radler
July 31, 2005
On July 29th was Rabbi Evan Radler's birthday. In Evan's memory, please share your thoughts on how he influenced your life (for the better l.o.l.) I receive beautiful letters all the time with stories of how he changed people's lives. They tell of why they are Jewish today... about the wedding, a funny thing that happened or joke told...a delicate moment....
If you would like to share your thoughts in this forum, I look forward to reading them.
Happy Birthday dear Evan,
I will always love you, Mindy
Carmelita Galing Berdin
July 29, 2005
TODAY JULY 29....HAPPY BIRTHDAY RABBI EVAN RADLER:))
Carmelita Galing Berdin
July 29, 2005
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RABBI EVAN RADLER:))
Judith Berdy
July 20, 2005
Rabbi Radler came to the Roosevelt Island Jewish Congregation directly from Yeshiva University. He was a vibrant young rabbi, wiser beyond his years. His joy of teaching was continuous and his great relationship with the congregants, whether students or seniors was extraordinary.
Our Congregation was young and we did not have a permanent sanctuary.
We had a community room that served us during the year and Rabbi Radler and all the members would haul all our furnishings to a larger community space for the High Holy Days. He never complained about our quarters and made them into the most wonderful house of worship.
He was part of our island life and our community.
He is fondly remembered by our members and community.
Brett Clark
June 16, 2005
I'll never forget Rabbi Radler. His great sense of humor and interesting speeches made me really love being a Jew. Perhas my fondest memory of Rabbi Radler is from my Bat Mitzvah, a little over 4 years ago. I had spent so much time preparin, and had just completed my Maftir and Haftorah. Rabbi Radler was standing next to me, about to say a few words when he said, "Hold on a second." He then went behind the bimah and came out with a crate. He placed it on the floor, stood on it, and said, "I don't like it when the BAT Mitzvah's are taller than me." To this day, my family and I laugh at how amusing that moment was. I will be forever grateful for all that I learned from the Rabbi and all that he gave my family and I. Thank you Rabbi Radler. We all love you and miss you.
Victoria Ogirri
June 10, 2005
Rabbi Radler was so inspirational. He was one of those people that made you feel good about what you did and never made you feel bad about what you didn’t do. Although I am Jewish I never really practiced the religion maybe because I didn’t have the right person to guide me. Once I started working here I wanted so bad to come to services and listen to him because I admired him and was sure that he would be the one to guide me back to the “light”. Even though he is gone he still will be in my heart and he inspired me more than ever to learn where I came from while I have a chance. I loved him for many reasons. For instance, he never made anyone feel as if you were less important just because you were lower down the chain. He really gave me a lot of things that no one else did inspiration.
Laurie Spear
June 8, 2005
Over the last few months I had returned to reading about the history of religion,mostly, though not exclusively, the history of Judaism. My mind was filled with so many questions and ideas for discussions that I wanted to have with Rabbi Radler. As soon as things calm down I said. But life has a way of not waiting until we can get everything in order and now the opportunity is gone. I will miss those conversations that we did not have.
Max Kirsch
June 6, 2005
Evan was one of my closest friends during high school and college. He was a great and loyal friend and I learned a lot from him. We spent countless hours in his car (he always drove), apartment and pool and took many trips together. Many of my happiest memories during this period of my life involve Evan. Although we lost contact over the last few years, I always felt close to him. I miss him greatly.
I wish to express my heartfelt condolences to Mindy and Evan's mother, Norma. May you be comforted and experience no further sorrow.
Max Kirsch
Esther and Rafal Tokarz
June 2, 2005
I have taken a long time to figure out what I wanted to say. I wasn't quite sure how to put it in words. Rabbi Radler was definitely the best Rabbi! He was so different than any other. He was down to earth, never put himself on a pedestal, just a normal guy who loved history and sports as well as many other things.
Rabbi Radler got to know me and my husband, Rafal, very well. He converted my husband to Judaism. We would meet with him and he taught us both so much about Judaism (and many aspects of other religions, as well), commitment and compromise. After our discussions, we would always leave his office in a good mood and in awe of how much he knew! Rabbi Radler didn't only know things about the Jewish religion, he knew so much more! He was so open minded!
A few months before my wedding, I had the pleasure of going to Israel with Hillcrest. One special memory was when we were in the Old City at some of the shops. Rabbi Radler and Mindy helped me pick out a Kiddush cup and a Tallit for Rafal that we used at our wedding which the Rabbi performed for us. He was so funny and everything that he said meant so much. Rafal and I live by his words…even when things get tough, we say, "Rabbi Radler said…" and that gets us by that moment!
We miss you very much and we cherish the time that we were able to spend (and learn) with you.
Alice Krochmal
May 30, 2005
I have waited this long to write because I cannot find the words to express how sad I feel. Evan was my Rav, my mentor, and my friend. When my daughter and I first met Evan, we told him we wanted to become Jewish. He asked if we wanted to convert and we answered... no, no, we're Jewish, but we want to learn Hebrew. He gave us a workbook and a Tanach and told us to "go learn and call me with any questions". We proceeded to teach ourselves how to read and met with Evan numerous times. It is because of Evan that I am still on this wonderful journey of discovering who I am and where I want to go. I spent many, many hours sitting in his office, sometimes till very late at night, questioning and trying to grasp as much as I could. He never tired of answering, guiding, and teaching, and I was always amazed by his vast knowledge of everything. At services, I always sat where I could watch his expressions, which very often cracked me up. Listening to him deliver a sermon was such a special treat. When he left Peekskill to go on to bigger and better, his last words to me were "keep studying", and even after he left, when I would speak to him it was always, "okay, what are you syudying now?" and then, "well now you have to start studying..." . I miss him so much and my heart goes out to my beloved Mindy. I will always remember Evan and promise to keep studying.
Mitch Gilbert
May 30, 2005
Irene and I want to wish our heartfelt condolences to you Norma, Mindy and children. We only heard of Evan's passing yesterday, when during my weekly Sunday morning conversation with my Mom she read an article from the Jewish Week to me. The news stabbed me like a knife to the heart.
Irene and I just celebrated our fifteenth wedding anniversary, and watched our wedding video for the first time in a long time. Of course Evan was a central character in our wedding and our lives at the time. We spoke of our many wonderful memories of our times spent with him over the years, not know the fate that had befallen him at the time. Although our busy lives have kept us somewhat out of touch for the last several years, I had been in email contact with Evan every so often over the last few.
I suppose my favorite memory of time spent with Evan was Christmas Day 1990. That was the day that The Godfather Part III was released. Evan and I shared a deep love for all things Corleone, and that day he came to our house as we watched the first two Godfather movies, sharing a dairy Italian meal, and then went to see the third movie in a theater around the corner. We spent the day watching, quoting, discussing and mostly laughing, which we did alot when we spent time with him.
He has always been in our hearts and thoughts, and he always will be. We will miss him.
Mindy Radler
May 29, 2005
Shalom Dear Friends, When I married Evan Radler it did not come as a surprise that I would be sharing him with the world.But he saved a very intimate, safe place just for me. I'll share a bit of the Evan I knew in this memory.
We were fortunate to find each other and make the leap of faith to commit to each other even after life had dealt us each difficult hands. We learned to appreciate each moment together right from the start of our marriage. The long distance relationship as we commuted between New York and Atlanta, Ga.helped us develop tools to get through tough times. I am now using these to get through these trying times. Evan was my best friend. He and I talked to each other endlessly. A Shabbat sermon was often filled with concepts we had recently discussed...often publicly taking my perspective on a subject even though minutes earlier he had adamantly taken the opposing view. I know that amused him.
Evan was strong and brave and smart and funny and filled with life and love. Evan was a great leader and a great teacher. He was the best step father I have ever seen. I was proud to have him as a role model for Ilana and Tal. Evan had deep friendships with people from every walk of life...and nicknames for many. He called my mom Da Shviga(the Mother in Law). That always made her laugh and feel his love. Even though Evan was but 42 years old, he enjoyed length of days. Each of his days was filled to the brim. The stories that I have heard this past month gives me an extra glimpse into his rich life. Evan had so much still to do. I can't believe that he is gone. How could it possibly have been his time. He had such big plans for Hillcrest Jewish Center, for the Jewish people and for us, his family. I pray that we will all figure out a way to continue his works. I thank God Almighty for the time we shared together, and for the opportunities that we had to effect the world and the people around us. All the congregations that he touched are better places because Evan Radler touched them. I am a better Mindy because Evan was in my life. My kids will grow to be better adults because of the special relationships they shared.
Evan never wanted children of his own, but he did want to have a legacy and affect the world. It is evident that he acheived that.
Evan's kippah was always a reminder to him that he represented the Jewish people, that he was an example to the entire world, not just Jews...With that Kippah on his head he conducted business more than scrupulously. Before I came into his life and took over the negotiations on major purchases that Kippah was a reason that he paid sticker price for a new car!
Evan often explained that Elijah could appear as a beggar. In that light, a 'fun' night out for us could be a trip to NYC hoping to meet Elijah. It did not matter that the recipient of Evan's generosity might use the money for liquor or some other vice. He was simply prepared to distribute dollars and have a meaningful conversation with these often lonely strangers. The eyes of a particular begger could haunt him for weeks. Each Pesach when we opened the door he truly expected that Elijah would be there. When he wasn't you could see true disappointment in my husband's eyes.
As a youth operating heavy machinery Evan developed an appreciation for the working man. As an adult, whether parking the car in a garage, or being served at a restaurant, Evan always over tipped. It was the little thing he could do to make someone else's day a bit better.
Another reason I married Evan was because he made me laugh. He married me because I laughed at his jokes repeatedly. My short memory was the key...it was as if I was hearing each one for the first time. Here is one of our favorites:
How to you catch a unique Rabbit?
You nique up on it!
How do you catch a Tame Rabbit?
Tame way...you nique up on it!
I was especially blessed because he loved me more than anything else in the whole world. He reminded me of this daily and brought me flowers each Shabbat, always with at least one rose. He loved to hear me play my flute and recently encouraged me to upgrade to an amazing new instrument. He always encouraged me to be all that I could be. We cherished each other and often counted our blessings. These 8 years together were the best years ever. We were a great team. He was the love of my life.
I now wear Evan's wedding ring around my neck and long for his touch and to hear his voice. I will miss him forever. There will always be a hole in my heart. Your stories and memories help keep him alive.
I thank everyone who has offered us comfort during these awful times. I also thank you for taking the time to read this long message and for sharing your own memories.
Evan lived by a simple rule; worry about your own soul and your neighbor's body. In memory of Evan I ask that when you are walking by the way, that you remember that you have the power to touch someone's soul. Please pass it forward.
Ha Shamayim Misaprim Kavod El
Love,Mindy Radler
Miriam Gurowsky
May 29, 2005
Rabbi Radler came into our lives for a brief moment. Like a shooting star, he graced us with his light and brilliance, then passed
too quickly away. We were fortunate to find the Hillcrest Congregation and join them on their spiritual mission to Israel last
year. Although strangers we were warmly
welcomed. Rabbi Radler helped conduct
our son's Bar Mitzvah at Masada. It
was an experience of a lifetime. The Bar Mitzvah was spiritual, zealous, full of joy
and Rabbi Radler's wonderful sense of
humor. It was a ceremony that could have
only taken place at Masada. We watched
the video taken by a member of the group
the other night. An Israeli plane roared by
overhead. Rabbi Radler looked like one
of the original zealots, youthful and strong.
The Bar Mitzvah even included a brief
rescue mission when Rabbi Radler disappeared and reappeared mission accomplished to lead the ceremony.
We wish we had the opportunity to know
Rabbi Radler better, but out thankful for the brief time we shared. We know he was
a special spiritual leader who was in touch
with everyone's needs. Our heartfelt condolence and love to Mindy and her family.
Miriam and David Gurowsky
Julie Premosch
May 27, 2005
It has taken me some time to write, I have been at a lose for words.
I worked side by side with Rabbi Radler for the past 4 1/2 years. He is a great friend to me. He made going to work everyday a pleasure, we had so much fun in our office, its just not the same since his parting. I always think he will come into the office and tell us a great joke, I miss him with all my heart. He was not only funny, he was also brillant, when I needed to talk to someone he would listen to me and feel my pain, you could see it in his eyes. I would always say I was sorry to have told him things that seems like he felt my pain. He told me never to say I was sorry. I considered him a brother, he was family to me. He loved and adored Mindy and he told me, he thanked God for him giving her to him. He just adored her. I love Mindy shes a beautiful person inside and out.
I wish her peace in her heart. When I see her my heart breaks for the pain I know she is feeling. For the rest of my remaining days I will never forget Rabbi Evan Radler, he is one of a kind, he is my friend.
May he rest in peace,
Love your friend,
Julie
Karen Albert
May 26, 2005
I am one of three sisters - one is Orthodox, one is Conservative and I am one step away from Athiest. My mother passed away in January this year and Schwartz Bros. referred us to Rabbi Radler. Though we were strangers to each other, Rabbi Radler had the amazing ability to say just what we all needed to hear, in spite of our vastly divergent way of seeing things. He was a very gifted man.
Diane Cohen
May 25, 2005
Dear Mrs. Radler and family,
I was terribly sorry to learn of Rabbi Radler's passing. He was a friend of the community, a brilliant scholar and had such a great sense of humor. He will be sorely missed by all.
Please accept my sincerest condolences.
Diane Cohen
Florence Farkas
May 23, 2005
To know him was to love him.
His handsome smile and warm hand shake endeared him to me even before his lectures and sermons demonstrated the brilliance of his mind and his sincere spiriuality.
His Leadership and total committment to his subject and his congregational audience was awe inspiring.
Perhaps he gave too much of himself to others without caring enough for his personal well being. Let us all heed that message and never forget him.
Hillcrest Jewish Center and the Jewish World have lost a magnificent leader who's legacy has yet to be appraised.
I will miss him.
Florence Farkas
Hillcrest Jewish Center
Arlene Ratzabi
May 23, 2005
I am a member (and Officer) of a neighboring Conservative synagogue, the Israel Center of Conservative Judaism and came to know Rabbi Radler through some joint programs I was involved in. It is truly a great loss to Hillcrest. He was a highly intelligent individual who cared about his congregation and was very highly regarded by its membership. The Jewish community has lost a special person.
Robert Kenler
May 20, 2005
Dear Mindy,
When I first heard of your husband's death, the only words that came to mind were ee cummings' tribute to another great sharpshooter; like your husband quick on the draw, and uniquely,very uniquely eloquent --
"Buffalo Bill's
defunct
who used to
ride a watersmooth-silver
stallion
and break onetwothreefourfive pigeonsjustlikethat
God
he was a handsome man
and what i want to know is
how do you like your blueeyed boy now
Mister Death"
I'm sure you understand....
But now after reading all these letters--most of them twice-- and very much wishing to voice words of my own, yet still unable,once again choose words of comfort and truth as expressed by another:
"To live in mankind is much more than to live in a name,
To live in mankind is much, much more, than to live in a name."
And add Amen
Martin Pasternak
May 19, 2005
On behalf of State of Israel Bonds our Rabbinic Cabinet offers condolences to Rabbi Radler's family and to the members of Hillcret Jewish Center. It is our sincerest hope you find comfort with each other and from his memory.
"May his soul be bound up in the bond of life."
Rabbi Joel Rembaum, Chair
Rabbi Martin Pasternak, Director
Sela & Steven Zellman
May 18, 2005
Rabbi Evan Radler was very special to our family. He married our son, Jayson in our home, and officiated at the funeral of my dear mother. He always made himself available to us.
I had the privilege of working one year with the Rabbi on a special kind of secular history book. He asked for ten months out of our five year plan for this book in order to write a rabbincal book. He said we would definitely be ready to resume working on our project after the High Holidays. I am more than sure that both books would have made the Best Sellers lists in both the religious and secular categories - only because the Rabbi's genius and brilliance was behind the pen.
May Rabbi Radler rest in peace.
Deborah Wassertzug
May 16, 2005
We are so saddened by this tremendous and sudden loss. Rabbi Radler had become familiar to me over the past few years as I attended Yom Kippur services at Hillcrest with my then-fiance, now husband, Joshua Kantro. Rabbi Radler and Cantor Fuchs made an excellent team as they shepherded us through such a difficult day with wisdom and solemnity and occasionally, humor.
Our aufruf last November was held at Hillcrest, and we will never forget Rabbi Radler's keen sense of humor (for example, he presented us with a challah knife, and instructed us to never use it in anger) as well as the sincerity of his good wishes.
I fear that I waited too long to thank Rabbi Radler for his kindness, as I recently sent a thank you note to him which I now fear he may never have received.
May the Rabbi's family be comforted with the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem, and may the Hillcrest community and the many others that he touched find comfort in their memories of a wonderful teacher.
With heartfelt wishes,
Deborah Wassertzug and Joshua Kantro
Irving Goldberg
May 15, 2005
Dear Mindy,
When ever I pased by the Rabbi's office, and he was in, I sometimes ask if I could come in. He always said sure.He'd drop what he was doing & answered my questions.
Another time:
I told him that I had a large Israeli flag & wanted do dispose of it correctly, he said to come in.He took it from me & said he knew how to dispose of it.
After I davened one Sat. morning,bec. the Cantor was in Israel, at the kiddush, I asked him if the Cantor was returning the next week. He said yes, I'm sorry,( thinking that I wanted to daven again so soon). I went, "Whew
I needed a break . I would do it in the future BUT NOT NEXT WEEK."
He broke out in a very large laugh!
I went to all his classes, & loved them all.
I will miss him dearly.
Condolences to you & your family.
Candice G. Berdin
May 14, 2005
My dear Rabbi Evan:
Thank you for letting me to hold the Havdalah candle, in my humbleness way..I said to myself I'm like the statue of Liberty, holding the light for peace. You gave me an inspiration to attend always the Erev Service.
I love You as my cool Rabbi, I love You like my father, I love You a man of Peace, I love You for making me as Havdalah girl:)) I love You for being our spiritual advicer and to everyone...I missed You..I love You from the bottom of my Heart.
Scott Saulson
May 13, 2005
Dear Mindy, Ilana, and Tal,
On behalf of my colleagues of the Atlanta Rabbinical Association, our sincerest condolences on Evan's death. Though brief, his sojourn in Atlanta enriched our spirits and deepened our knowledge. May the memories of precious moments shared serve to strengthen and bless you and yours now and in the days to come.
Rabbi Scott Saulson, President,
Atlanta Rabbinical Association
Tzvi Marx
May 13, 2005
My condolensces to Mindy and her family on the loss of her dear husband, alav hashalom. I pray for her strength to bear the responsibilities to her children and hope that in time the memories of her life with Evan will be a source of comfort.
Warm regards,
Tzvi Marx
Linda Allen
May 11, 2005
I last got to see Evan at my niece's wedding on 4/10/05. I kissed him on his cheek and hugged him,Hello. Never ever thinking this was also, Good bye... At Tal's Bar Mitzvah, I spent some time chatting with Evan about religion and my questions regarding koshering,and so on. I explained how I questioned my Rabbi and others.Evan was the First, Rabbi ever to answering me without any around about answer,he was direct, honest, sincere, and truthful. I actually walked away understanding what he had told me. He was a very special person and I am sure that is why my cousin Mindy chose him for marriage. He will be missed by all.
Jonathan Roberts
May 11, 2005
Rabbi Radler had the unique ability to relate to everyone. With intelligence and wit, he made everyone feel important.
Respectfully,
Jonathan Roberts
Executive Director
Hillcrest Jewish Center
Iris Schachter
May 11, 2005
I loved to study with Rabbi Radler, especially on Saturday evening between Mincha and Ma'ariv. I also enjoyed listening to his sermons. I will miss him terribly. He performed Esther and Rafal's wedding. My boss told me that their wedding ceremony was the best wedding she'd ever been to. His quick wit and knowledge were unbeatable. He encouraged everyone to be his/her best. We thank him for being our friend. My prayers are with Mindy, Norma and Ilana and Tal.
Judith Guttman
May 10, 2005
We all mourn the passing of our beloved Rabbi Radler. His spirit and leadership will be greatly missed.His time with us was way too short. He was loved by all who knew him.
Amy Badurina
May 10, 2005
I had the great pleasure of meeting Evan 16 years ago when he was the Rabbi on Roosevelt Island. Although we lost touch at some point, he has always remained in my thoughts. He had a profound impact on my life in more ways than either of us realized at the time.
My deepest heartfelt sympathies go out to Norma, Mindy and her children, his wonderful friends, and the communities that embraced him and his unique style.
I cannot help but wonder why God took his favorite son so early. He is sorely missed by all.
Daniel Bacharach
May 10, 2005
It seems that Hashem needed Rabbi Radler more us, but with the short time he was here at Hillcrest, he made a lasting impression on me as to whom I should grow up to be and showed me a love for Judaism that I will never stray from.
My fondest memories come directly from both his encouragement and “Yasher Koachim.” Rabbi Radler had a way of making me feel comfortable on my Torah reading days. He would say “Are you reading Torah today?” I would respond yes, and he would say “Because you have that nervous look on your face” when the Torah was being taken out of the ark.
Another memory: My Bar Mitzvah. Rabbi Radler was able to give me direct quotations from my parsha, without even looking in a book. It amazed me that he could do this. Who could forget and treasure being able to sit in the chair next to him or right before the Torah service, he said “Now it’s time for the hard stuff.” Above all else, after I made my speech, he said to the congregation “Not bad.” That was the ultimate compliment to receive from such a powerful and amazing speaker.
Then this year at Hebrew School. Around the time of Hanukkah, Rabbi Radler had come up to my classroom for a short talk, about 10 minutes about Hanukkah. Before he started, we asked him if we could ask him a few questions. He said yes, but had no idea what he was getting himself into. We ended up asking every question from our “Ask Rabbi Radler List” and he gladly stayed to answer all of them for over 45 minutes. Every question had an answer, from if Jews believe in luck, to Jonah and the whale. The range of Rabbi Radler’s knowledge was almost incomprehensible to us.
We all have memories like these about Rabbi Radler, but strangers too were awed by him. After my Bar Mitzvah, many of my family members and family friends said that they wished that their congregation had a Rabbi even half of the caliber of that of Rabbi Radler, and called the team of Rabbi Radler and Cantor Fuchs “the All Stars.”
Now that we have lost one of our beloved “All Stars,” Hillcrest just won’t be the same. However, I will strive to follow in Rabbi Radler’s shadows and be all that I can be. Although this might not be as a Rabbi, I know my search will continue for all the knowledge and wisdom both in Judaism and every day life will always be due to the inspiration of Rabbi Radler.
There will never be another Rabbi Radler, and I will miss him dearly.
Daniel Bacharach
Roseann Darche
May 10, 2005
Even now, more than a week later I still cannot believe it is true. I can still see Rabbi's smile, hear his brilliant words, feel his empathy, share a belly laugh. He made my heart sing. Mindy,Elana,and tal, you are in our prayers.
Lisa Pedersen
May 10, 2005
I first found this guest book today, I never knew this existed. I thought all morning about how I could possible put down in words how much I miss Rabbi Evan Radler. I work in the office at Hillcrest Jewish Center and had the absolute pleasure of seeing and speaking with Rabbi almost every day for the last year and a half. He was the funniest, sweetest, smartest, wise one I have every known and I know a piece of my heart went with him. I learned more about my own religion from him than I ever learned from a priest. I also learned more about life and how important it is. I will miss you always.
Jocelyn Borowsky
May 10, 2005
I will truly miss Rabbi Radler. I used to love hearing his sermons as they were almost always sprinkled with bits of humor, some of it improvised. I will remember him for his quick wit, as demonstrated at my Aunt Suzi’s wedding. The wedding took place on a warm summer evening in my aunt’s back yard. As the Rabbi performed the ceremony, we could hear the garbage trucks rumbling along the street picking up the items to be recycled. The Rabbi didn’t miss a beat. As the trucks loudly rolled by, he said something like “You may have noticed that it is a recycling pick-up day...and as you may know, the bride and groom are getting re-married. By getting re-married, the bride and groom have begun the cycle of life over. They are, in effect, recycling.” I thought his comment perfectly captured the moment.
Becky Gordon
May 10, 2005
I am so sad to hear that Rabbi Radler has passed. He was a genuinely nice man, he was a big help to me when I was in my early teens. My best wishes go out to his Family and all that were close to him.
Ellen Steinberg
May 10, 2005
I live in Staten Island, but went to syagogue services at Hillcrest Jewish Center the many times I visited my ill Mother in Queens. Had my mother lived so that I had been able to spend more time with her, I would have joined H.J.C. because of Rabbi Radler. Just to hear the Rabbi's sermons was an extraordinary experience. And,I appreciated the egalitarian atmosphere of the synagogue. Rabbi Radler's passing was a great loss to the community.
Risa Budesa(Krochmal)
May 10, 2005
Rabbi Radler was an incredibly spiritual man who started me on the path to religion. He embraced my mother and I with open arms right from the start. That's something I will never forget. He also made it easier for my mother and I to accept, and more importantly to understand, my father's death 20 years after the fact. Evan was more than a Rabbi-he was a friend. But the thing that I will remember most about him is how down to earth he was. He was just like any other person I'd ever met, with the exception of his vast knowledge (and not just Torah) and his sometimes brutal honesty.
Rabbi Radler will forever hold a special place in my heart, and I take comfort in knowing that he is with God now, and all is as it should be.
Aaron Schraeter
May 9, 2005
Truthfully, I'm not even sure how well I actually knew Evan. Our friendship, oddly enough, truly developed out of my friendship with his step-daughter, Ilana, who is a classmate of mine. When she and I were close, I after a while found myself spending pretty much as much time with Evan as I would with Ilana. We would talk about anything between South Park and Martial Arts. It always seemed that he was always a "what you see is what you get" kind of guy. What I saw in him was a happy, funny, caring, and loving human being who reached out to everyone, no matter how well he knew them. Unfortunately, the amount of times I would see Evan decreased dramatically as time went on, and I wish it hadn't been that way. I will miss him very much.
Carmelita G. Berdin
May 9, 2005
My profound gratitude to you Rabbi Evan Radler, for taking time for my conversion. You fullfilled my desire to be a Jewish like my grandfather, and know more about Torah, Gemara and Midrash. You're very patient, so humane,a dedicated and brilliant Rabbi. I'm so glad and fortunate that me and my daughter Candice met you. You'll always be in our hearts.
Bonny Fetterman
May 9, 2005
I once came to speak with Rabbi Radler about a personal matter. Within minutes, I felt as comfortable as if we had known each other for years. He was very kind and compassionate, and amazingly, got me to see the humor in the situation I was so distaught about. I will always be grateful for his kindness and wisdom.
Mark London
May 9, 2005
My wife and I were so shocked and saddened to hear of Rabbi Radlers passing. When I was late for Shabbat services I would run to make sure I didn't miss his words. He was by far the most engaging Rabbi I've had the pleasure of sharing a service with. At our Daughters Bat Mitzvah last year my entire family from out of town spoke so warmly of Rabbi Radlers warmth and depth "from someone so young"! We am not as involved in the temple as many at Hillcrest and I am amazed at how deeply his loss has gripped us. Our hearts and love go out to Mindy the children. His soul must be serving a greater purpose.
Deborah Goldstein
May 9, 2005
My husband, son and I moved here four years ago, and shortly thereafter met Rabbi Radler. Before we even spoke, we knew he was the rabbi for us - the South Park tie he was wearing sealed the deal. His sense of humor is what drew us to him initially, but we came to appreciate every facet of this great man. Rabbi Radler was a smart, warm, welcoming and charismatic person to whose sermons even my 6 year old son Elliott listened to with rapt attention.
Just over a month ago, Rabbi Radler presided over the naming of our new daughters, Nina and Lila. We still cannot get over how lovingly he spoke and how beautiful the entire service was. A special day was made all the more memorable for us because of Rabbi Radler's words. Many friends and family made it a point to call us in the days that followed to rave about Rabbi Radler, and we certainly reveled in the bragging rights to the "coolest rabbi ever". We last saw the rabbi at the second seder night, and when we told him about his "rave reviews", he seemed surprised. Add humility to the endless list of his attributes - he had no idea of the effect he had on people who were lucky enough to have seen him in action even once. These same guests were shocked and saddened at the news of his death, but just as we are, were grateful for the chance to have experienced all that he was.
We will be forever thankful that Rabbi Radler named our daughters, and though they will not be blessed enough to know him, rest assured that they will hear all about what a wonderful man gave them their names
We will miss you, Rabbi. Thank you for everything.
Deborah and Alan Goldstein
gary alexander
May 9, 2005
Evan was a very special person. He was the kind of guy you want to be your next door neighbor. I loved his sense of humor, his ability to teach and his great sense of humor. Although he is gone, his memory will be burned in the minds of all he touched.
Ted Lehmann
May 9, 2005
Unfortunately it was my responsibility to lead the first congregational gathering at Hillcrest Jewish Center following this incredible loss. It was the Yom Hashoah service of remembrance for the six million of our people killed in the Shoah. The service took place in the very room that was the site of Evan's levayah the day before. I will never forget pointing to the empty chair at the start of the service and feeling all eyes in the sanctuary looking at Evan's seat. Although he did not have any direct family connection to the Holocaust he was uniquely sensitive to the importance this annual event had for the members of the congregation who are survivors, to the children and grandchildren. Every year we spoke very often as the program was taking shape, and then immediately afterwards to critique and start plans for the next year.
One other item not mentioned by others was the incredible insightfulness of his monthly divrai Torah that started off each meeting of the Board of Trustees. He added a focus to these meetings which can often get lost in the complexity of budget problems, building problems, etc. Evan brought words of Torah to remind us that the business of running a synagogue is not a business, but something much larger.
Andria Cooper
May 9, 2005
Rabbi Radler, Your quick and sudden departure leaves us all in shock. Thank you for sharing with us your caring, your strength, your dedication. Thank you for your time with us and for the way you touched our lives. My heartfelt condolences to Mindy, Ilana, Tal and Norma.
Steve Orlikoff
May 9, 2005
I saw Rabbi Radler only once, a few months ago at a forum for New York Attorneys. I was impressed by his command of the subject and his integrity.While I never met him formally, I will never forget his presence and stature.
-May his soul rest in peace forever. Steve Orlikoff
Betsy Bergman
May 9, 2005
Mindy, Evan's passing is a loss to all of us as he touched our lives in so many ways. Al and I agree that Evan will live on in our memories as a most "unforgettable character" because of his great capacity for warmth, his incredible intelligence and his wonderful sense of humor. We will hold in our memories, with great fondness, the evening we recently shared with you and Evan. It was relaxed and warm and fun, and that is how we will remember him. While we will miss him terribly, it is you whom we think of at this time of grief, and to whom we offer our heartfelt condolences and love.
Betsy and Al.
Ethel Levine
May 9, 2005
On May 28, Rabbi Radler conducted the Hillcrest Jewish Center's annual Seder for the Disabled. In his usual brilliant way, he tailored the service, on the spot, to the specific needs of our guests, and coaxed, then gently assisted one of them to ask the 4 questions. The elderly man's joy upon completion was evident to all of us. Brilliance and compassion do not always go hand in hand, but in Rabbi Evan Radler they were inseparable. I will miss him greatly.
Martin Fleischer
May 8, 2005
I knew Rabbi Radler only for about 2 years or so when my youngest daughter, Laura, was in the Hebrew School there. Such a very nice man...I can't believe it...so young.
May he rest in peace...
Martin Fleischer
Flushing, NY
Audrey Matalon
May 8, 2005
...pure charisma...a brilliant orator...completely endearing...
I just don't understand why such a unique and talented person should be taken back so soon. Evan was clearly fulfilling the his soul's mission of teaching and guiding so many people toward their own live's fulfillment. What a beautiful person.
david cohen
May 8, 2005
My wife Janet and I were not members of Hillcrest when Rabbi Radler paid a Shiva call upon the passing of my father. His comforting words were much appreciated at this difficult time. We then joined Hillcrest and he honored us by officiating at the wedding of our daughter. It was a beautiful ceremony and we will share the chupah photos with Mindy and the children. While his sermons were informative, humerous and interesting, I was most impressed by his teaching. I attended a number of his classes, many prior to our trip to Israel. His insight and knowledge were simply amazing. The highlight of our all too short relationship was the trip to Israel. His spirit and devotion to the State of Israel and the Jewish people made this an unbelievable and unforgettable adventure. We laughed, cried, prayed, sang, danced and spent lots of money to help the economy. We will never forget this wonderful rabbi, teacher , and loving and caring human being. May his family attain some comforted in knowing all the good he spread during the brief time he was physically with us.
Inez Levy
May 8, 2005
How I miss Rabbi Radler's presence! He truly was an inspiring, compassionate and knowledgeable scholar whose pearls of wisdom were laced with witty one-liners. People flocked to his lectures just to hear him speak and share his love of Judaism with us. His untimely demise has left us all grieving heavily. My heart goes out to Norma, Mindy and her children. Rabbi Radler was a very special person whom we shall all fiercely miss.
Inez Levy
Sue Alperin
May 8, 2005
I was quite shocked and saddened to learn of the Rabbi's passing. He truly embodied his faith and was inspiring to me, a learner and newcomer to Judaism. My heart goes out to Mindy and family.
Beth & Donald Rubin
May 8, 2005
Rabbi Evan Radler was our Spiritual leader at Hillcrest Jewish Center. For the past three years, we were honored to have this magnificent, kind, warm, and deeply dedicated Rabbi in our lives. When Donald had just recovered from a heart attack in January, 2004, Rabbi Radler was the first visitor to come to see him. For the last 2 years, he has given us tremendous support as we proceed to adopt a little girl. His weekly Shabbat and Holiday sermons were always a pleasure to hear since they were so "current". We will miss Rabbi Radler's great sense of humor and pleasant personality. We are honored to have known such a man who was "ahead of his time." May G-d give His loving strength to his wife, Mindy, his mother, Norma, and to Tal and Ilana at this difficult time. The entire Hillcrest community mourns with you and we are hear to support you. May you know no more sorrow.
Malcolm Versel
May 8, 2005
Evan, the mensch, the Rabbi, the learned, the wise, the clever, the witty, the compassionate, the husband, the father, the son...you have left before any were ready, in a way that none of us can comprehend. Perhaps there is a purpose that you might have understood, but for us, it is too harsh, too sad, too much. We can't have you back. We'll have to do without your mirthful ways and brilliant conversation at our next gathering. You will always be missed. How many mitzvahs will we not know because you have been called to another Master. We were blessed to know you, and felt good while you were here. May memories of you continue to comfort those who remember, those who love you, those who miss you.
Suzi Nussbaum/Zoob
May 8, 2005
Rabbi Radler performed my wedding soon after he came to Hillcrest. We were married under the "family chupah" in the backyard of my home. His grace and eloquence at the wedding service and his wonderful sense of humor made it all the more special for us.
His sermons were really a treat to experience. I will mourn his passing.
Lauren Versel Bresnan
May 8, 2005
Evan we didn't know you long enough or well enough but we knew you were a superstar... a man who came into our family and turned lives around, turned heartbreak into joy, brought out the best in all of those you touched. My cousin Mindy Lu and her children Ilana and Tal were transformed by your love and goodness. We will miss you and we will always be thankful for your presence in our family.
Chaim Bender
May 8, 2005
Evan was my Rebbe, a colleague, my mentor and teacher. Most importantly, he was my friend. There is now an emptiness within me that cannot be filled. Baruch Dayan HaEmet.
bianca buium
May 8, 2005
evan, you were a great friend and rabbi to my mother and i.
Steven Rosenhaus
May 7, 2005
Rabbi Radler came to Hillcrest Jewish Center about a year after my wife and I did. The first time we met he remarked on my (then) ponytail, saying that perhaps he should grow one as well. We both laughed (and I eventually got rid of my ponytail), and our laughter never died until his death.
He was an incredible man. I was, of course, impressed by his intelligence (and he would appreciate my quoting Douglas Adams when I say he had "a brain the size of a planet"), his sense of devotion to Torah and the Jewish people, but I was always struck by his sense of humanity and his willingness to embrace it in every form that wasn't harmful. When family crises began to hit me and my wife Evan was there to listen, really listen, when either of us needed an ear. He gave advice when we asked, and it was always sound, always Torah-inspired (without being pedantic), and always humane.
As I've hinted, I also enjoyed his sense of humor. Sometimes all it took was a lift of an eyebrow to one another (albeit, with him on the beema and me in my seat in the congregation) to set us off. Nothing blatant, mind you, but stifling laughter was one of our rituals. The last time I saw him he called us both "the bad boys" with a huge grin on his face. Perhaps I will miss that about him most of all; I will not only miss my Rabbi, but my friend.
Mr. Hanky
May 7, 2005
HiDeeHoo.....Evan don't forget to bring a towel. We all love and miss you and your unusual sense of humor. God Speed to a great man.
Matt Sanders
May 6, 2005
Evan was a mensch, a real person, a humane human being. He wore his learning lightly and his caring about others deeply. I was lucky to have met him even a few times, to have him extend,like Abraham, hospitality to me, a stranger, a friend of a friend. May all who loved him be comforted with all the mourners of Judah and Jerusalem. He is more alive now than many people ever are.
Ira Lilien
May 6, 2005
I knew Rabbi Radler for only a very short time. My younger son had his Bar Mitzvah at Hillcrest Jewish Center, nearly one year ago to the day, of Rabbi Radler's premature passing. It is very difficult to put into words the indescribable feelings of sorrow, I, as well as my family, have.
The Rabbi was more than just a terrific personality, full of charisma. He was a spiritual leader, a fabulous orator, a man of immense knowlege who made members of his congregation warmly welcome, even if they were casual attendees. The Rabbi had a very special bond with the children of the temple that will be sorely missed.
On the day before the Rabbi's passing, I was given the honor of an aliya on the last day of Passover. I regret walking down the stairs on the opposite side of the pulpit where the Rabbi sits, neglecting to shake his hand one final time.
Although I have been a memeber of Hillcrest Jewish Center for about ten years, I will always be grateful for the honor of having Rabbi Radler as a part of my "family."
I offer the sincerest condolences to the Rabbi's family. May they be consoled with the knowlege that the many people Rabbi Radler "touched" are indeed very fortunate to have had this dear man, however briefly in our lives.
Tova Shoshannah Hirsch Goderre
May 6, 2005
Rabbi Evan Radler radiated with the brilliance of a star. Never has any individual had as much impact on my life as he. He converted me to Judiasm and thereby returned me home to my people. He truly saved my life. My heart is truly broken, yet through the crack shines the light of the words and spirit of a truly remarkable human being.
My sincerest condolences to his family and friends.
Merrie Edelston
May 6, 2005
Rabbi Radler was our Rabbi at Congregation B'nai Torah in Atlanta for a few years. His weekly d'vrei torah were inspiring and incredibly presented. He presided over my elder daughter's Bat Mitzvah. We will miss Rabbi Radler greatly.
Kenneth Shuster
May 6, 2005
Evan Radler was my best friend for twenty years. Although he was a colleague, I came to think of Evan as my rabbi, due to his great stature as a leader of his people. His loss is so much more pronounced because of the love he had for his people and humanity.
I am grateful to the members of the Hillcrest Jewish Center, as well as his prior congregations, for the love and respect they had for Evan.
I offer my heartfelt condolences to his mother, Norma, Mindy, her children, and his wonderful congregation.
I hope that those, like myself, who need to lose weight, or stop smoking, might be more motivated to do so now, in Evan's memory. This, together with charity in his honor, would afford his neshomah a great merit.
"Good night, sweet prince."
Kenneth Shuster
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