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BATES--Eve 1913 - 2015 Passed away peacefully in her sleep July 16 - 102 years old. Eve Bates was born of immigrant parents, grew up in Jazz Age New York, and became a passionate activist for social and labor causes. She joined Harold L. Oram and associates in pioneering the application of ethical fund-raising techniques to liberal and progressive causes. It became her life-long work and helped shape American society into what it is today. In 1942 she married Ralph Bates, English novelist and Spanish Civil War revolutionary who later became an NYU professor (see The New York Times obit 12/4/2000) They lived in Greenwich Village and on the Greek island of Naxos for decades. Eve Bates died of old age and renal failure. She is survived by her son, Jonathan. There will be a memorial service in mid-September. For further information, contact

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 18, 2015.

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Harriet Paterson

July 28, 2015

I met the wonderful Eve when she was living in Naxos 45 years ago, when I was just five. I loved her and Ralph her husband at once. I have never known anyone else so unmarked by the passing of time. I sat in a London black cab talking to her on the phone on her hundredth birthday, as lucid and funny as ever. I will always remember Eve, a dear friend.

Eve's 100th Birthday Unicorn Pinata

Lora Sanders

July 25, 2015

Eve was my father, Gary Salzman's, younger cousin (by a few months). He thought of her as another sister, and Eve & Gary shared loving memories and fondness for one another all of their lives. May you rest in Peace, Eve.

Eve sent a lovely email when I hosted a 100th Anniversary of my late Dad's Birthday in 2013. This was from my sister, Cindy Amar, & I in wishing Eve a Happy 100th Birthday:

"HAPPY 100th BIRTHDAY, EVE BATES, born on June 4, 1913! OK, Eve is not actually on facebook, so even my shout out in all caps will not get to her. But she does send and receive email. Eve is my father's younger cousin, born 3 months after him and today really is her 100th birthday. I sent her a unicorn piñata, because celebrating your 100th birthday makes you almost as rare as a unicorn. I filled it with candies, some liquor miniatures, some daily decision making dice ("Snack Now" "Complain Often") and a beautiful gold scarf. The Swedish birthday song says, 'May you live for 100 years!' so I told Eve that we will change the words to say, 'May you live for 100 more years!' (Må du leva i hundra år till). Eve was married to the late novelist, Ralph Bates. I love my family."

July 20, 2015

Dagmar Fortuni

July 20, 2015

Dear Jonathan, with your mami one of my own best intelligent friends, warm and allways pesent for my sorries and joys. she has joined her beloved husband Ralph.
I hope you will overcome this period of grief - allways thinking at her as a strong and loving woman. I miss her and am with you. Dagmar

July 18, 2015

Dear Jonathan,
May Eve rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We all have wonderful memories to treasure. Sincerely,
Sieglinda G.-S. O'Donnell

July 18, 2015

My sincere condolences to your family. May you get peace from the God of Comfort. Isaiah 61; vs 2

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