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Frederic (Eric) Whitney Wu

1999 - 2020

Frederic (Eric) Whitney Wu obituary, 1999-2020, New York, NY

BORN

1999

DIED

2020

Frederic (Eric) Wu Obituary

Frederic Whitney Wu – known to all as Eric – died in an automobile accident on September 23, 2020, near his family home in Manchester, VT, where he had been taking remote courses and training for an Ironman Triathlon. He was two weeks shy of his 21st birthday.

Born and raised in New York City, Eric was a junior at Brown University, where he studied computer science, philosophy and comparative religion. Brown will award Eric a posthumous AB at commencement in May 2022. He was a graduate of Saint David's School in Manhattan and Phillips Academy in Andover, MA. Eric was planning to pursue a career in public service, for which he had been in training his entire life, always selflessly reaching out to support friends and strangers alike. Summer activities in recent years included helping underprivileged teenagers; in 2017 he founded a nonprofit that offered substance abuse counseling for high school students.

Eric was a perennial honor-roll student, universally admired and recognized for his keen intellect, dedication to academics and generosity of spirit. As a prefect and scholar, he was the de facto go-to man who helped struggling students. He was known to set a standard of excellence that inspired the best out of others. To friends and family, he was "Extra-Mile Eric", always a deep thinker and humble to a fault. He exhibited sportsmanship, grace and prowess on the squash court, track and golf course. He celebrated the great outdoors through his love of long-distance running, biking, mountaineering and cruising through the Green Mountains atop his beloved Harley Davidson.

Eric's interests knew no bounds. First and foremost, he was an explorer, always seeking to push beyond the boundaries of mind and body. He spent the summer of 2019 in Tibet and Nepal, visiting monasteries, probing and embracing the tenets of Buddhism while trekking across the Himalayas. He was always searching, his active mind seeking answers beyond the obvious.

Eric is survived by his parents, Douglas L. and Hope Whitney Wu of New York City and Manchester, VT; older brother Philip M. Wu; grandmothers, Seraphine C. Wu and Jane R. Whitney; uncles and aunts, Christopher and Catherine Welles and Brian and Tatania King, extended family and countless close friends. A memorial celebration will be announced. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Saint David's School directed to the Frederic Whitney Wu Memorial Fund. The family gratefully acknowledges the outpourings of comfort offered through remembrances of Eric and encourages sharing these stories on Eric's Facebook Memorial.

All who encountered Eric knew him to be quietly exceptional. In just 20 years, he left his mark and lived a lifetime of good. Forever young, he will be missed.

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Published by New York Times from Oct. 23 to Oct. 24, 2020.

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Pinky Laffoon

May 15, 2022

Dear Douglas,
So difficult to bare.
Thought, prayers and love with you from me. Pinky Laffoon

Simone Taylor

October 29, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time of grieving. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Zareen Khan ‘93

October 28, 2020

My deep condolences to the Wu family. I just read about Eric in the Brown Daily Herald and I am saddened that Brown and the world has lost such an exceptional and kind human being. I hope you find solace in the fact that Eric had a positive impact on so many others during his short but substantial lives. My prayers are with you.

Victoria Reese

October 28, 2020

Doug and Hope, Greg and I just learned this tragic news last night. We send prayers and love to your family. Best, Victoria Reese and Greg Kennedy

Trevor Olson

October 26, 2020

To the parents of Frederick Wu, I’m so sorry this tragedy happened to your child. He appeared to have a lot of potential and gifts to share with the world. I drive by the accident location daily and think of him as I do. He will never be forgotten by me. May you one day find the peace you deserve.

Simone Taylor

October 24, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of God, family and friends.

Paul Murphy

October 23, 2020

Eric was a great human being and I enjoyed working with him when he was at Phillips Academy and in my dorm there as a 10th grader. I’ll miss not seeing his story unfold ; it was sure to be a rich and substantial one. Sending peace to his whole family.

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