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WANDELT--Frederick H. Long time admissions director Frederick H. "Ferdie" Wandelt III dies at 65. February 10, 1948 July 25, 2013. For more than 30 years, Ferdie Wandelt was the face of the Taft School in Watertown, CT. He traveled the globe seeking the best and brightest students. He died Thursday due to sudden complications of acute lymphoblastic leukemia, surrounded by family and friends. "From the outset, Ferdie understood two interrelated principles," said Taft Headmaster Emeritus Lance Odden. "First, that attracting the best mix of diversely talented students would create a uniquely spirited community; and second, that the vibrancy so created would elevate Taft's place in the community of schools." No school has ever had a finer admissions leader. The son of Fred and Susie Wandelt, Ferdie grew up in Princeton, New Jersey. A graduate of Taft and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, he returned to Taft, after service with the National Guard, in the fall of 1971 to join the Admissions Office, earning an MALS degree at Wesleyan University. In 1976, he succeeded Joe Cunningham as director of admissions. "He transformed our school," said Odden. "It is impossible to capture all Ferdie was to Taft and to thousands who knew and loved him," said current Taft headmaster Willy MacMullen. "With his death, we have lost a great man, someone who will join the list of legendary educators who devoted their lives to our school, and someone who served with an unparalleled love, passion, and loyalty." For the next four decades, he was a beloved figure on campus, but his service to the larger educational community meant he was also a globally respected leader. He was a board member of ASSIST (American Secondary Schools for International Students and Teachers); president of the SSATB (Secondary School Admissions Test Board); and a trustee for the Challengers Boys and Girls Club of Los Angeles. Other scholarship organizations, like Prep for Prep and the Wight Foundation, knew Ferdie as a supportive and visionary leader. Peer schools were made better because he helped open doors in international recruitment, and he shared his best ideas with them. "It's about helping all schools and kids," he said often. "He was much more than just the finest admissions director in the country," said MacMullen. "Ferdie had a unique humor, warmth, and grace. After you met him in an interview, you wanted to attend Taft. And in those twenty minutes, Ferdie could 'read' a candidate with a sensitivity and insight that was astonishing. Those who were admitted felt blessed, and somehow, those who were not felt that he cared deeply and personally, and indeed, Ferdie regularly counseled families and helped them find another school that was a better fit." He traveled the world telling the Taft story. He was a superb girls' lacrosse coach, and scores of young teachers sought him for advice. Ferdie changed Taft, and he changed lives. He is survived by his wife Joanna, brother Joseph "Sandy" Wandelt of Sicklerville, NJ, daughter Allison Halsell her husband Benjamin, of New Canaan, CT, son Christopher Wandelt and his wife Erin of Redding, CT, and five grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Frederick H. Wandelt III '66 Scholarship Fund, The Taft School, 110 Woodbury Road, Watertown, CT 06795. There will be a memorial service at Taft on Saturday, September 28.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 28, 2013.

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Laney Barroll Stark

August 4, 2013

Where do I begin ... I loved that man and am devastated for his family. I will never forget Ferdie. He was my lacrosse coach, my advisor and my best friend at The Taft School. Our son, Bailey, Class of 2002 had him as his advisor and close friend as well. He was smart, kind , funny ,caring and most of all, a gentleman. He cared about all of his students and was a wonderful father and husband to his darling wife. He and Lance Odden have made the school what it is today and it has been an honor to have him as a friend. I have wonderful memories of him telling me to "get on my horse" during lacrosse games and off I would go to make him proud! My other fondest memory is when he thanked my husband and me for giving our lovely son Bailey) to The Taft School. I was so touched as we were so grateful to have had Bailey attend The Taft School. What more can I say, except that God has chosen him to be a leader in heaven. That is the only thing that alleviates the pain of losing such a wonderful man. I miss him terribly. RIP
dear Ferdie and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Diane Jones

July 29, 2013

I will truly miss Ferdie. He was such a kind and caring person. I am very sad, and wish the best for his family. He leaves a great legacy at Challengers Boys & Girls Club for all of the children he has helped, his kind words of wisdom, and for his loving support of staff.

Woody Rutter

July 28, 2013

Words cannot express how saddened I am. I will simply say that I am so grateful to have known Ferd as a colleague in admissions, a travel companion for ASSIST, and as a friend for nearly 50 years. I have always admired him for his common sense, dedication to helping others, and for his deep love for his family. Joanna, Allison and Chris, you have my sincere sympathy.

Woody

Craig Battle

July 28, 2013

Ferdie was one of my closest childhood friends. He was a kind, sensitive, highly accomplished man of integrity. My wonderful memories are endless and I was privileged to be a small part of Ferdie's amazing journey.

July 26, 2013

Joanna--my heart is full of sorrow and sadness, but, at the same time, a love of a most special man who made a difference. Please hug your kids for me---they were so lucky to have him for the time God gave us. Love you, Brandon and Dottie

Allen Wood

July 26, 2013

At the age of 15 or 16 Ferdie challenged me to think about what my values were. His moral awareness and energy made a deep impact on me. I will miss him.

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