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GEORGE LABALME Obituary

LABALME--George, Jr.

George was born in Paris on November 17, 1927 and lived there until 1939 when he moved with his family to NYC. That summer, he met 12-year-old Patsy Hochschild at Eagle Nest where they each had long standing family ties. He was taken by her charm and intelligence; she considered him a French brat. They did not see each other again until age twenty when she was a graduate student at Harvard. After a long courtship and one cancelled wedding, they married on the anniversary of D-Day, June 6, 1958, somewhat to the surprise of everyone including themselves. After graduating from Rumsey Hall and Hotchkiss, George was drafted into the U. S. Army in 1946. He served with the occupation forces in Tokyo until 1947 under Gen. Douglas McArthur and believed that had President Truman not ended the war when he did, he'd likely have died in the invasion of Japan. Instead, George attended Kenyon College on the GI Bill where he met and became lifelong friends with E. L. Doctorow. After graduation, he worked in Milan with architect/designer Gio Ponti followed by five years with industrial designer (and uncle) Raymond Loewy in Paris and New York. George's best- known design was the Grey Poupon mustard jar. For nine years, he was Vice President of the New York Public Library, and from 2002-14 served as a Trustee and later as President of The Jacob and Valeria Langeloth Foundation. For thirteen years he was a Trustee of The Gladys Krieble Delmas Foundation, through which he helped produce The Poetry of Light, an exhibition of 140 drawings from The National Gallery of Art, displayed at the Correr Museum in Venice in 2014-15. For many years he was Treasurer of the Renaissance Society of America and a board member of the Adirondack Museum. But it was his lifelong partnership with Patsy that was the source of his greatest happiness. They shared a passion for the humanities, all things Italian - especially Venetian -- and were deeply involved with communities such as The Brearley School, the Institute for Advanced Study and the American Academy in Rome. To all his friends, George was known for his boisterous laugh, his unconditional acceptance of people and his faith in the future. Within his inner circle, he was also known for his love of oysters, which he sometimes had for both appetizer and dessert. George loved beekeeping, fly fishing and "uncorking the claret," especially Chateau Branaire (Patsy's favorite) and sharing with anyone at his table. Many considered him the epitome of the true gentleman. He was surrounded by women and a champion of them all. A die-hard New York Times reader (paper edition), George rarely left his apartment on East End Avenue in anything but a suit, as he did on his final foray into the great city of New York, sporting Venetian-themed suspenders. He is survived by his four children, their spouses and seven grandchildren: Jenny Labalme and John Krull of Indianapolis (Erin and Ian Krull); Henry Labalme and Jeanne McMullin of West Cornwall, CT (Eve, Pia Louise, and Sylvie Celeste Labalme); Lisa and Michael Osterland of Montreal (Becket and Wesley Osterland); and Victoria Labalme and Frank Oz of NYC. In addition, he is survived by a brother Guy and Marilyn Labalme of Tampa, FL; a niece Corinne Labalme of Paris, France; a nephew Fen Labalme and his wife Elaine of Pittsburgh and their son Steven; a niece Aline Sloan of Santa Fe, NM and her daughter Sarah; Diego and Ara Miralles of La Jolla, CA and their children Tomas, Isabel and Elena. In lieu of flowers or gifts, contributions may be made to The Brearley School in New York City.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 18, 2016.

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Jennifer Wright Cook

September 27, 2016

My deepest condolences. George was a generous supporter to The Field and to many other arts organizations. He will be very missed.

Caroline Paul

September 21, 2016

Lovely obituary, Mr. Labalme! One of my favorites now. And I will never see a Grey Poupon mustard jar the same. Thanks for the kids you raised, they made my life better in many small and big ways (Henry is singularly responsible for the fact I am a pilot and a white water rafter. My mom is mad at him.) You will be missed. Caroline Paul

Ramona Sequeira

September 21, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of your loss, our thoughts are with your family. What an amazing man your dad was!
-Shaw family (Chicago)

Frederick Ilchman

September 20, 2016

Ever since meeting him about twenty years ago, in Venice of course, I have always admired his generosity of spirit. George was a gentleman. He defined the term. But he had so many more qualities: enthusiasm, zest for other people and all kinds of conversation, interest in all kinds of culture (particularly Italian), and zeal for life itself. So many people who love Venice will miss George. I know I do.

(JW) Nina Taylor

September 20, 2016

It will be the little things
that you will remember,
the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem
hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push
away the pain
and bring the smiles
back again.

September 20, 2016

He was a lovely person, and a dear friend of Villa I Tatti. We shall miss him at our events. Sincere condolences to the Labalme family on behalf of everyone at I Tatti.
Graziella Macchetta, Villa I Tatti

Alex Prud'homme

September 19, 2016

Sarah and I raise a toast of claret to the great Giorgio, who we hope has reunited with Patsy, and to the entire Labalme clan. His laugh was inimitable and infectious, as was his curiosity, and his generosity of spirit. With affection and condolences.

catherine whistler

September 19, 2016

I would like to send my sincere condolences to George's family at this time of great loss. I had the enormous pleasure of meeting George a few years ago, and thoroughly enjoyed our subsequent conversations on Venice and Venetian art both in New York and in Venice. His passion for Venice was one that I share, and he very kindly encouraged me in my work on the exhibition, Titian to Canaletto: Drawing in Venice', a collaboration between the Ashmolean and the Uffizi which was supported by a grant from the Gladys Krieble Delmas Foundation. His breadth of knowledge, his deep love of Venice and his warmth and generosity were remarkable, and I will always retain the fondest memories of my acquaintance with George. Please accept my warmest sympathy.
Catherine Whistler

Susan Williamson

September 18, 2016

Dave and I send our condolences to all in the Labalme family. Your dad was a true friend or ours and of the Bate family for all my life. I will miss seeing him at the Cornwall Memorial Day festivities.. He would greet me with a kiss and that for me was the official start of summertime. A wonderful man and a tru gentleman and friend. Love to you all. Susie ans Dave Williamson

Russel Patterson

September 18, 2016

A great friend for about 60 years. I'll miss him very much.

September 18, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 18, 2016

To Henry and all.........
My heart was saddened when I got the news of your dad. But I am so thankful that I had the days in August to stop by and say hello to him!!! I will miss his emails and his great sense of humor.
He is now with the love of his life! I am so grateful to have known him and his humor!
As I sign off, I will write what I used when signing off with your dad.
Love from your Cornwall friend,
Barb xo!

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