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JAMES FERRER Obituary

FERRER--James C.

On Thursday, October 11th, James C. Ferrer, passed away at the Kanas Center in Quiogue, NY after a battle with cancer. He was 70 years old. Jim was born in Manhattan and attended The Buckley School and Portsmouth Abbey School, before graduating from Beloit College in 1970. He completed his post- graduate studies at Columbia University's Teachers College in 1980. Jim lived most of his full life between Manhattan, Oyster Bay and Southampton. He had a distinguished career as an independent elementary school educator and administrator. He started his career as a Latin teacher and then moved on to leadership positions, serving as Assistant Headmaster of The Buckley School and Headmaster of The Country School, East Woods School and The Hampton Day School. His favorite part of the job was greeting every student with a firm handshake and encouragement at the start of each school day. One of his fifth- grade students wrote in a letter to him at the time of his departure from East Woods School, "When I shake your hand every morning, I know the thing that is really big about you is your heart." After his career in education, he worked as a real estate broker with Sotheby's International. In recent years, he helped to establish the Shinnecock Hills Education Fund, which has been renamed in his honor. Jim is survived by his wife Jeanne, his sons Bowe and Andrew, his grandsons Nico, Hudson and Archie, his granddaughter Josephine and three of his siblings, Tom, Linda and Molly; he was predeceased by his brother Joe. There will be a memorial service for Jim at 11:30am on Friday, November 2nd at St. Andrew's Dune Church in Southampton, NY. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the James C. Ferrer Education Fund of Shinnecock Hills Golf Club and St. John's Church of Southampton, NY.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 21, 2018.

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James C. Ferrer

December 3, 2021

Me and my wife Jenny offers our deepest regrets.

Jim Danaher

November 17, 2018

I was sorry to hear about Jim's passing from a classmate. As the soccer goalie at Portsmouth Priory, I can assure you that Jim was one of the best fullbacks a goalie can have. Saved my butt numerous times. Jim did not attend our 50th reunion in 2016, nor did he submit his bio to our 50th reunion yearbook. I was glad to finally learn about his life in his obituary. Condolences to his family and friends. Via con Dios, Jim! See you in the next life!

Stephanie & Mark Calmenson-Goldman

November 4, 2018

Jim was a dear and exceptional man. Our hearts go to out to all the family.

Christina Maass

November 2, 2018

It was an honor to teach under his leadership for so many years...his presence will be greatly missed.

Ted Howard

October 22, 2018

We have lost a true comrade.

Juan Kellogg

October 21, 2018

Jim Ferrer was light of heart, and friendly as one of the first two with whom I became acquainted at summer school. I offer condolences to his family and all of his friends.

Teri Noel Towe

October 21, 2018

A wonderful human being who was my friend from the first grade at Buckley onward. He will indeed be missed.

Ave atque vale!

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