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JEFFREY GOLDSTEIN Obituary

GOLDSTEIN--Jeffrey,

suddenly on September 5, 2016 at the age of 60. Beloved husband of Debra Goldstein, loving father of Alyssa and Daniel, son of Samuel and the late Mimi, dear brother of Bonnie. Possessed of a huge heart, he was beloved by all. Service 11am Thursday, September 8, 2016 at Gutterman and Musicant, 402 Park Street, Hackensack, NJ.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 8, 2016.

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Anonymous

August 6, 2021

It´s Saratoga time pal, miss you!

Roni Greer

January 3, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Uncle Sam and Bonnie, I am thinking of you and remembering Jeffrey.

Laura Kagel

November 26, 2016

To my friend Jeff,
I knew you before and after you married your beloved Debi.
I knew you when you became father to your beloved Alyssa and Danny.
I knew you when you ran the NYC Marathon, and you looked simply marvelous.
I knew you when when you started a business and became successful.
I knew you were a loyal and loving son.
I know for certain your life was well lived.
And, I also know, I will miss you.
Love to Debi, Alyssa, and Danny
Your friend, Laura

Tom Bird

October 17, 2016

Debbie, Alyssa and Daniel. Jeff was a true friend. I never met you but whenever I was in NYC I would contact Jeff and he would always find time to meet me for a Yankee game or the big east tournament to watch syracuse. My heart aches for you. I know what a wonderful person we have lost.

September 26, 2016

our prayers are with his family
Lori and Bruce Pullen

September 12, 2016

My Dear Friend - the sad news of your untimely passing reached me. Though separated over the years, you were always close in my thoughts. Our connection began in our earliest years, quickly becoming pals, tried and true. It was easy to be your friend. Your accepting nature, your tolerant and non-judgmental point of view were among your many virtues. Early on you shared with me your longing to create a family and make roots. You succeeded so nicely. You competed rigorously on and off the field. You were a graceful winner. I will remember you well. I will miss you. My condolences to Debbie, Alyssa, Daniel and the Goldstein and extended families. I am so pained by this loss. - Your old friend, Joey

Sarah Kaplan

September 11, 2016

Although not personally close with Jeff, I know he was a great father and mentor by the wonderful, kind-hearted children he raised and the family he kept. Danny was always a very giving and inclusive individual throughout the years that we knew one another. My condolences are with his family in this hard time.

Jonathan Follender

September 9, 2016

We were 15 or 16 years old. New to football camp, run by Coach Miller before Labor Day for Horace Mann's team. After a week of running three a day drills, we assembled for that day's morning run. Coach said that those who wished to attend Church, it being Sunday, did not have to run and to raise their hands. Suddenly, I heard Coach yell, "Goldstein, put your hand down!"

After that, I had a new friend on the team.

Jeff was one of the coolest people I ever met. We didn't have much contact after high school, but I never forgot him. Probably not many people did.

He was a great teammate and a great guy. My condolences to his family and friends.

I know Jeff and I will meet again, maybe to play some ball.

September 9, 2016

Jeff was there for me when I really needed help....He was the funniest guy I ever knew - endlessly deadicated to fun, music, and laughter. The world is absolutely the worse for his loss. We'll miss you my friend...

Fran Brunelle

September 9, 2016

To Debbie, Alyssa and Daniel who I have never personally met but I knew you like family. Jeff loved and cherished his family. I am as heartbroken as you are. Jeff was a great loyal friend and co-worker. I will miss his stories. Your family is in my prayers.

Patrice Goldstein

September 9, 2016

My heart aches for all of you...prayers to you and the kids...

Michele Zanghi

September 9, 2016

What words can describe such an honest, brilliant and say it like it was kinda guy. That was the essence of Jeff. He was loved by all and if you didn't like him, well honestly I couldn't like you. Jeffrey always popped in unannounced and knew that he was always welcome in our home, anytime day or night. I remember fondly him sitting at my dining room table
In the a.m and me going down the stairs half asleep-in my nightgown looking like the bride of Frankenstein. I would ask him "Jeff, stay right there until I get a cup of coffee, before I can talk to you or anyone ." We then would sit with my husband Frank and always enjoy our conversations. My husband rarely connects with people but that was never the case with Jeff. They truly loved, admired and respected one another and shared a unique and strong bond. Our family met over twenty years ago and our friendship became so much more. I consider the Goldstein's my family. There isn't a thing I wouldn't do for them.
Jeff's passing has left an imprint in my families heart and soul. He will be so very missed. Selfishly I wish his body was still here to continue his early morning impromptu visits and love we shared. The only thing that consoles us is that which he left behind, his spirit and the love and memories that have been engraved in our hearts...our friend, our family....Jeff we will miss you so very much. Rest in peace and know that we will always be there for your family. Until we meet again, keep rocking our dear Dead Head

Michelle Matthews

September 8, 2016

Sending you and your family so much love. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Michelle and Bruce

Tahir Mahmood

September 7, 2016

Shocking,heart breaking and saddened demise of my friend know not for long time but very close to the heart of each other. Jeff a passionate,family oriented,caring father and husband left me behind in shock and speechless. All prayers for his departed soul and deepest sympathies with,Debbie,Dani and my daughter like cute and pretty smiling face girl.May Allah fortitude them courage to bear this unbearable loss.........I can find words to express my feelings on the tragic loss who came to see me Sunday morning saying me final goodbye.May Allah bless his soul and rest in eternal peace.

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