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JOHN O'BRIEN Obituary

O'BRIEN--Dr. John Maxwell, age 82, died on Sunday, June 26, 2022 at home. Services held this afternoon, Wednesday July 6th, from 3-7pm at the Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford, CT. (860)354-4655.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 6, 2022.

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Ken Kelly

August 2, 2022

Dr. O'Brien was one of the best teachers that I ever had. It was a joy to take his classes at Queens College. He will be sorely missed. Our loss is heaven's gain.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Love, Ken, Pete and Nancy

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Aaron Desrosiers

July 5, 2022

Hi John, I like to think you can read this where you are. I just want to say thank you for being my friend, if only on facebook. It was all because of Our shared enjoyment of James Joyce, and then your book Aloysius!
I loved our many messages back and forth, and will always remember you.
I hope to see you again someday!
O'Brien family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. If you're ever in the area of Fall River, MA , shoot me a Facebook message. Bill knows my profile. I'd like to get together for a meal or drinks etc, to remember John.
All my best
Aaron Desrosiers

Paul McGovern

July 5, 2022

On behalf of the McGovern family, please accept our heartfelt condolences to the O´Brien family for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting John and his brother James in person once to talk family history. I had hoped to have many more opportunities since we shared a deep interest in our ancestry. May he Rest In Peace.

Anna Rossini

July 5, 2022

Dear Mrs. O'Brien and Family:

On behalf of the Administration, Faculty and Staff of Queens College, we would like to express our deepest sympathy on the passing of your loved one, John.

May he Rest in Peace,

Wendy Burkett

July 5, 2022

It´s been such a gift knowing John . He touched so many lives . I will truly miss seeing him in the rooms. RIP my friend

Thoughts of Tranquility Floor Basket

With our love Susan and Andy

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Anthony T. Sabella

July 5, 2022

With Deepest Sympathy for Dorothy and Family. John left a profoundly positive impression on the course of my life. I will always cherish and value the wisdom he so freely imparted to me.
Fondly,
Tony Sabella

Ivan Hernandez

July 5, 2022

John- you always reached out with a helping hand! We will always remember you! Thank you for your service in Washington!!

Shanta Acharya

July 5, 2022

For John, who was a wonderful, decent, thoughtful human being. My deep condolences to his family.

Steven Naudts

July 5, 2022

My condolences to the family and friends

Marty O'Connor (Australia)

July 4, 2022

RIP My Dear Friend John ,You lived you life to the full and more,I shall miss our chats (My morning time and your evening time) Your advice and humor I shall hold dear with a smile John.Your story will continue in Ireland and Australia.Love to All John's Family that he NEVER STOP Talking about.He Only had love in his blood.Kindest Regards Marty from Australia

Lisa Keiffer

July 4, 2022

I had the true honor of knowing John from "the rooms". I would look forward to seeing him Sunday mornings at our Reflections group. I would make my rounds to say hello and I would greet him with a kiss to which he would respond in an exagerated fashion taking both of his hands and lifting his hat high off his head as though my kiss had magically blown it off his head!! He was a special person and loved hid wife and kids dearly! My heart breaks for you all and it's people like John that make me believe in heaven.

Comfort Planter

Anthony T. Sabella

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John and Madeline Czel

July 4, 2022

Dorothy and family,
Our deepest sympathies to all of you.
John was a kind soul and we were blessed just to know him.

Timothy E. Dunne

July 3, 2022

Dear O'Brien Family... You have my deepest sympathies, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Jon Maxwell O'Brien's life, was a life, well lived at every turn of the page.
He has left us all a great legacy; that will no doubt, enable future generations curious minds to connect with his Genius mind, to be enlightened and enriched for all the ages.
Requiescet in pace
Suaimhneas síoraí
Rest in Peace

John Dunne

July 3, 2022

RIP, Great intellect+personality

Victor and Jackie Oliveira

July 2, 2022

Prayers to all of you at this difficult time.

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