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John Oehler
February 6, 2025
I am very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was a great mentor and friend. I worked for him for a number of years and really benefitted personally and professionally from his guidance and thoughtfulness.
We developed some really unique buildings that benefitted and changed the communities in a really meaningful way.
The world is a much better place with you having been in it. I will fondly remember our time together.
My condolences to the family.
Lauren
February 5, 2025
Joe was such an uplifting, joyful presence at Williams. He made everyone he encountered feel like gold. And, of course, we all loved that little bit of mischievousness that followed him everywhere. He will be sorely missed by so many in the class of 1981.
Marie Ferguson
November 28, 2024
Occasionally, I would run into Joe in DeCicco and he was usually so pleasant. I´m sorry to hear about his passing.
Condolence to the family!!
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Karen Malm
November 4, 2024
Joe was such a part of the Hackley community and will be missed at our reunions. He always showed up with a big smile on his face and plenty of laughs. He has made such a huge impact in Westchester with his development projects and will leave his legacy in his many building projects and developed communities. Life is short - get out and live it!
Elyse Damsky Lenskold
November 3, 2024
Remember Joe fondly always for his kindness that continued for my mom when we lost his dad.
Mike Sartain
November 3, 2024
When Joe arrive at Kings Taunton , he brought a blast of energy and adventure. Playing rugby he taught me how to throw a rugby ball "american" style, and team tactics that lead to winning the house basket ball competition. One long weekend he came with my brother, Rex, and I to stay with my Aunt in her Tudour timber cottage on the outskirts of London. We took Joe to see the sights of London. Buckingham Palace, Trafagar Square, ending up taking our photo (besides a very large policeman) on the steps of No 10 Downing Street. Every time I see no 10 on the TV, I say to my family .. "I was there with Rex and this great guy called Joe Cotter.!! He will be greatly missed, and our thoughts go to all his family. We've all lost another "good-un" From Mike Sartain - Meynell House Kings Taunton.
ADL
November 1, 2024
Joe was a visionary and mensch. He created thousands of jobs, and made the Hudson Valley a better place for the next generation. May his memory be a blessing. I will miss him.
Frank Cooney
October 31, 2024
My Condolences and Prayers to the Cotter family and all those who knew & loved Joe.
Tim Brooks
October 31, 2024
Sincere condolences.
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