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Major Paul Luce Obituary

1935 - 2017
Born in Connellsville, Pennsylvania, Don grew up in nearby Perryopolis, the son of Paul Olin Luce and Mattie Lee Ames. He attended Penn State and Indiana University of Pennsylvania before joining the United States Air Force in 1955. He was stationed first at Stewart Air Force Base in New York, where he flew in B-57 Canberra bomber jets as a navigator and electronic warfare officer. In the mid-1960s he studied meteorology at San Jose State University, and after a year in Korea from 1966 to 1967, he spent the rest of his Air Force career at Mather Air Force Base in Rancho Cordova, California, as a weather forecaster. He retired from the Air Force in 1977, and then began a second career as an engineer at Overhead Door Corporation.

Don loved traveling the world with his wife, Audrey, salmon fishing in Alaska with his brother, Ames, and doting on his grandchildren, Ryan and Toby. An enthusiastic tennis player and fan for 50 years, he attended Wimbledon numerous times, as well as the Australian Open. He enjoyed Sundays on the couch watching football, and was a San Francisco 49ers fan long before they became a winning team. He also loved being on the water; he designed several sailboats (including one with wings), and sailed around the world many times in his dreams.

Don is survived by his wife of 55 years, Audrey Winsky Luce, children Kristin and Donald, son-in-law Bill Grout and daughter-in-law Elizabeth Tobias, grandchildren Claire Rietmann-Grout, Ryan Rosemary Grout, and Toby Luce, brother Ames Luce, sister-in-law Connie, nephew Doug, and niece Laura. He is also remembered fondly by many friends across the years and miles.

The family would like to thank the caregivers at Brookdale Roseville, whose kindness and humor kept Don comfortable and content in his last few years. Interment will be at the Sacramento Valley National Cemetery in Dixon, California.

"For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one."
–Kahlil Gibran

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Published by New York Times from Apr. 18 to Apr. 19, 2017.

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Ames & Connie Luce

June 30, 2017

We have loving memories of many wonderful times with my brother and sister-in-law. You are and will be greatly missed. We love and miss you always.

Ron & Kathy Roth

June 23, 2017

Don and I were best friends for over 57 years. It all started when I went on active duty in the Air Force and was temporarily assigned to Stewart AFB in Newburg, NY, March of 1960. I moved into the BOQ room next to Don, and we shared the latrine (bathroom/shower) between rooms.
Initially things did not go that well. We were totally different in our personalities and life styles. However, as time moved on over the next few months, and we spent more time together, each of us adjusting, and we did become good friends. Don filled a gap in my life since I was away from home for the first time in my life. I filled a gap in his life because he had someone to listen to his many stories, some of which were modified I'm sure. I particularly enjoyed seeing him after a flight mission and listening to hear how things went.
In the fall of that year, 26th Air Division Headquarters moved to Hancock Field, Syracuse NY. Jim Padgett also moved, and he and I along with 3 other bachelors rented a house relatively close to the base. As a result of the move, Audrey, who was still in the Syracuse area , and I became close friends. I also met Kathy there, my wife now of 54 years.
I have many memories of these years while on active duty. The most memorable was the wedding of Don and Audrey at West Point in which I was honored to stand up during the ceremony as part of the wedding party. The least memorable also occurred at wedding when Audrey tossed her bouquet of flowers to the ladies, and I accidently caught them.
After serving my active duty commitment, I returned to Illinois to establish my life, career, marriage, and family. Throughout all these years, the four of us (Don, Audrey, Kathy and myself) have maintained contact with each other and visited one another. We have always said, once we get together it seems like old times, and we pick-up our relationship just where it all started back the early 60's.
Maybe it was just fate that brought this wonderful friendship to the four of us, or maybe we can say it was because I shared a latrine with Paul Donald Luce, or as I nicknamed him, PDL (Pretty Damn Loose).
With all our Love and Prayers to Don and Audrey, Ron and Kathy Roth

Asa and Susan Whetstone

June 19, 2017

We feel fortunate to have had Don and Audrey in our lives.

Jodi Paik

April 28, 2017

Much love to all of you -- you are in our thoughts.

April 23, 2017

Don will be missed.
Lea Graves

Dave Myers

April 20, 2017

His door was always open to me and I will remember and appreciate his humanity. Happy travels, Don!

"The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time." - Jack London

Toby, Don, and Grandfather Luce

Elizabeth Tobias

April 20, 2017

What a beautiful obituary. Thank you Kristin for writing. And a perfect picture to choose. Goodbye Grandfather. Toby will miss you. And our love every day to Grandma.

Margie and Jack Reilly

April 20, 2017

Audrey,
He is in a better place. We are all better off for knowing Don.
God bless him and all the Luces.
Margie and Jack Reilly

Jack and Carol Richardson

April 19, 2017

Jack and I send you our deepest sympathy and to the whole family. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

April 19, 2017

My thoughts are with you and your family, Audrey. Don was very
lucky to have such a loving, caring wife. Please know that I am
always here for you...just a phone call away....
Sending my love,
Illene

Happier Times- Halloween 2011

Yvonne Jones

April 19, 2017

Audrey,
Dave and I are so glad to have met Don and you. It is true that we met at the beginning of 'our boy's' illnesses but the meeting was a blessing we could not have expected. Don had a great sense of humor, was full of fun and was always game to go along with my crazy ideas. Audrey, I could never have made it through the last few years without you. Your steadiness, quiet calm and warm hugs have made this horrible journey better for all those around you. Your faithfulness to and care of Don during this slow and heartwrenching journey shows the proof of a loving and dedicated wife. As our boys make their final PCS, (Permanent Change of Station), we will do what we always do; stay strong, walk confidently into the future and if need be do it 'holding hands'. We'll be here for each other, I've got your back. My condolences and hugs to the family. Love, Yvonne

Bill and Mary Ann Stein

April 19, 2017

Thinking of you all with love and sympathy. This is a beautiful obituary for an impressive man.

Tom and Karen Novak

April 19, 2017

Sorry to hear about Don's passing. I have fond memories of our childhood in Perryopolis, but I could never beat him at tennis! Our prayers are with you, Audrey, Kristin and Donnie and families.
Tom and Karen Novak

Shirley Weitman

April 19, 2017

Don was a loving husband and father. He will be missed by his loving family. Audrey was by his side always caring and showing her love for her husband of 55 years. May he now RIP. Your Friend ShirleyWeitman

April 19, 2017

May you find peace in this difficult time, Audrey. He is now at peace.

Sue Farris

April 19, 2017

Smooth sailing over tough seas to a safe harbor. Love to all the family

Nicole K

April 19, 2017

It was a pleasure to know Don and his wife Audrey. Im sorry to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers to the family.

April 18, 2017

Dearest LUCE Family...our hearts go out to ALL of you. Please, if possible, take solice in the fact you made dear Dons end of life experience loving and memorable. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Richard & Jan Hile

April 18, 2017

We will miss you Don and all the good times we had at Gold River. Rest in Peace my friend and we will meet again.

April 18, 2017

My deepest condolences to the Luce family and friends. Please read this loving promise of hope and comfort for your love one Major.
Sacramenta Landrum
Bklyn

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