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MARY ELLIN BARRETT

1926 - 2022

MARY ELLIN BARRETT obituary, 1926-2022, New York, NY

BORN

1926

DIED

2022

MARY BARRETT Obituary

BARRETT--Mary Ellin. Mary Ellin Berlin Barrett died peacefully on July 16, 2022 at the age of 95. A life-long New Yorker, she was the daughter of Ellin and Irving Berlin. She graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Barnard College in 1949. After college she started her career as a researcher at Time Magazine. She was an editor at Glamour and Vogue and wrote book reviews and features for Cosmopolitan. Her four books included three novels, Castle Ugly, An Accident of Love, and American Beauty, and a memoir of her father, Irving Berlin: A Daughter's Memoir. She married writer and journalist Marvin Barrett in 1952. He died in 2006. She is survived by a sister, Linda Emmet; four children, Elizabeth Matson, Irving Barrett, Mary Ellin Lerner, and Katherine Swett; two sons-in-law, Sasha Matson and Benjamin Swett; five grandsons, Peter Matson, James Matson, Benjamin Lerner, Nicky Swett, and William Swett; and a great- grandson, Jude Lerner, born in June of this year. Another sister, Elizabeth Peters, and a granddaughter, Rachel Swett, predeceased her. Mary Ellin loved books, opera, films, and conversation with her many relatives and friends. She remained interested in art and politics until the day she died. In the autumn there will be a memorial service to celebrate her life.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 22, 2022.

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Porter Scobey

August 8, 2024

I have no idea how "An Accident of Love" came to my bookshelf, but there it was when started to perform a much-overdue cull of my holdings. I cannot give up a book just like that, and so I started to read ... and continued ... and have just finished. I am now sad to discover that I cannot tell the author how much I have enjoyed the read. Why is this not one we all know, and why have I not seen the movie? Is it merely that I am a child of the Nova Scotia backwoods, and thus simply out of the loop? Ah, well ... better late than never. RIP, and thank you!

research, wanting to find out who was irving berlins children.

August 9, 2023

rest in peace mary, you lived a long life, and now you must travel on, there are so many things for you to see and do, when you meet jesus, god bless. Louie Vaccaro, las vegas

April Sandmeyer

July 1, 2023

Deepest condolences to Irving and family. ~ April Sandmeyer

Arturo Gomez

August 10, 2022

I offer my most sincere and heartfelt condolence to the entire Berlin family... As a jazz radio host for nearly 40 years, rarely does a day go by that I am not reminded of the greatness of Irving. In my case, I owe a debt to Mary's uncle who as a surgeon saved my life at NYC's Medical Center in 1958 performing a miracle surgery on me when my parents were told there was no hope.

Lindsay Crouse

August 1, 2022

Rest peacefully, my dear friend Mary Ellin. My sympathy goes to your extended family. You were always an inspiration, a lover of music and theater, and a beloved friend to my whole family. You are in my heart. Heartfelt ondolences to the family.

Marisa Multari

July 31, 2022

Sono una sua lettrice italiana. Ho appena preso in mano il suo Castel Ugly, tradotto in Italia come Il castello di sabbia. Lo avevo letto, e amato, da ragazza e l'ho ripreso in mano oggi, per caso, a 50 anni di distanza. Ho cercato notizie dell'autrice su internet e scoprire che è morta pochi giorni fa mi ha molto colpita. Il suo libro comincia in un'atmosfera così carica di vita. Un'estate assolata, tre figli piccoli, un un'uomo che riemerge dal passato

Kathleen Reardon-Anderson

July 30, 2022

I was so thrilled to meet her briefly at Symphony Space at my sons' Irving Berlin show a few years ago. I had read her memoir and watched interviews online -- her serious interest in the music really impressed and touched me. Thank you!

July 23, 2022

Our deepest respect and sympathies to her family and friends from the staff of the TOFT Archive. It has been an honor to assist in preserving the legacy of her father.

Patrick Hoffman
Director and Curator,
Theatre on Film and Tape Archive
New York Public Library for the Performing Arts

Tom Harrison

July 22, 2022

RIP Mary Ellin
My deepest sympathies to Katherine. Benjy, Willy and Nicky.

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