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TAFT--Nathan Dudley, passed away suddenly at the end of February, 2025. Having pursued epic adventures near and far, Nathan filled his 51 years beyond their conceivable capacity, as an adoring father and husband, as a devoted family member and friend, and as a force in his field of work. Nathan was born in Providence, Rhode Island on July 8, 1973 and grew up in Santa Barbara, California where he developed an enduring love for the ocean, surfing, and natural beauty. He graduated from Santa Barbara High School (Class of 1991). While in school, Nathan volunteered at Transition House, serving families impacted by homelessness. This experience proved formative for what would become the focus of his professional life. Nathan graduated from Yale University in 1995 with a BA in History. From 1995 to 1997, he was a Yale China Fellow at Yali Middle School in Changsha, Hunan Province after which he spent two years traveling domestically to recruit prospective students for the Yale undergraduate admissions office. Nathan then worked for Yale's Office of New Haven and State Affairs, which sparked his interest in community development and real estate. In 2004, he earned an MBA from the Yale School of Management. That same year, Nathan joined Jonathan Rose Companies, where over the next 20 years he oversaw the acquisition and preservation of affordable and mixed-income multifamily housing. Nathan was key to the launch of JRCo's first social impact fund in 2005 and, under his stewardship as Chief Investment Officer, the investment business has grown to preserve and develop 20,000 units of affordable housing representing over $4.5 billion of real estate. Nathan's deep and broad legacy includes the impact he has had on countless lives, providing them access to more hospitable, healthy, and environmentally sustainable housing. Nathan was a member of the Urban Land Institute Affordable Workforce Housing Council, the National Multi Housing Council, the Pension Real Estate Association, and the 13th class of the Aspen Institute First Movers Fellowship. Nathan served on the boards of Impact Capital Managers, an impact investing organization of fund managers, Goddard Riverside, a 130-year-old settlement house in New York City that serves low- income families and seniors, and the Yale-China Association, a nonprofit that administers education, arts, and healthcare exchanges between the United States and China. Nathan met his wife Soogy in New York City, introducing himself after chasing her as she was leaving a restaurant. Their children, Wallis and Eli, are by far Nathan's proudest accomplishment, and he fiercely protected and nurtured them. An involved parent, Nathan urged his children to read, to be curious and to engage in the world with empathy and kindness. He was also the fun, active parent who would take the children surfing in the ocean or in a wave pool in a New Jersey mall, skiing through the trees, mountain biking or sledding at midnight in Riverside Park. To Nathan, the world held unlimited possibility -- whether for travel, achievement, food, experience or connection. There was always so much to do and so much to get done. In all areas of his life, Nathan was generous, principled, engaged, thoughtful, and caring. He lived each day with intent and purpose and exerted his influence not only on those immediately around him, but also the broader community. An avid reader, thinker, runner, surfer, cyclist, nature- lover, and skier, Nathan cherished every moment and hated saying no to anything or to anyone -- a testament to his mindset as a time optimist. Nathan is survived by his wife, Soogy Lee, whom he married in May of 2007, their two children, Wallis (17) and Eli (15), and a Cavapoo named Coco. Along with his immediate family, he is survived by his mother Louise Dudley Taft, his father Thomas Prindle Taft, and his three siblings Genevieve, Seth, and Charles and their families. Nathan donated his organs, his generosity and compassion evident until the end. He is and will be missed dearly. Donations in Nathan's honor may be made to Goddard Riverside's housing program at goddard.org, or to Transition House at transitionhouse.com. A celebration of Nathan's life is being planned for mid-April in New York City. Details will follow at Riverside Memorial Chapel's website, dignitymemorial.com.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 12, 2025.

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Truman Sherk

March 22, 2025

Dear Soogy, Wallis and Eli,
I will miss seeing Nathan in Pine Orchard.
Sincerely yours,
Truman

Elaine Lewinnek

March 20, 2025

My sympathy to Nate's family! I knew him in college and immediately after college, when both of us worked for the Yale-China Association. Nathan taught me my first non-textbook sentence of Mandarin Chinese, after I told him I was scared by the crowds of Chinese children who used to surround us in public. "Snot is running from your nose," is the sentence he taught me. It's a gorgeous phrase to pronounce in Mandarin, and it tends to surprise children enough that they'll make room for you to move away. That was Nathan, always: impeccably mannered and also hilarious.
As I remember it, in the mid-1990s in Changsha, there was only one dance club. They hired every single Yale-China teacher to be their backup dancers, then, after two weeks, fired all of us except Nathan. "We thought all Americans could dance," they told us. "We were wrong. Only Nathan can."

Rod Jones, President

March 20, 2025

The Board of Directors, staff and volunteers of Goddard Riverside are deeply saddened by the passing of Nathan D. Taft. As a teen, Nathan volunteered with families impacted by homelessness. This experience set him on his life´s path. While employed at Jonathan Rose Companies, he oversaw the acquisition and preservation of 20,000 units of affordable housing. His mission extended to serving on the boards of the Goddard Riverside Community Center, Impact Capital Managers, and the Urban Land Institute's Affordable Housing Council. At Goddard Riverside, he leveraged his kindness, thoughtfulness and expertise to help build our capacity to expand housing in NYC. Nathan's legacy continues through the impact he has had on countless lives, providing them access to more hospitable, healthy, and environmentally sustainable housing. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him. We offer our heartfelt sympathies to his wife Soogy Lee, his children Wallis and Eli, his entire family, friends and all whose lives he touched.

Eben Robinson

March 20, 2025

Nathan was my trusted and good friend in High School in Santa Barbara. We were both on the track and cross country team. We both ate lunch with each other in the early years, and even took our dates to Prom together. I recall his loving family. I often thought of Nathan, and it is not a surprise to see him be so successful in life, I wish we kept in touch with each other. He was that special friend that you could trust and depend on, always there if you needed a friend. I hope to celebrate his life if there is a gathering in Santa Barbara.

Samantha Bakker-Norton

March 17, 2025

Nathan made our Spanish 101 class memorable for me with his kindness and sense of fun. How he did this at 8:30 every morning after a trek up science hill, I don´t know, but he did. I will miss him.

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Kate Schlesinger

March 12, 2025

I did not know Nathan, but I have been friends with Tom, his father, for decades. Losing a loved one is like losing your right arm. I am so sorry for your pain.

Callie Rogers Emery

March 11, 2025

Dear Taft Family, I am so very sorry to hear about this excruciating loss. My heart goes out to you all. Sincerely, Callie (Trumbull `94)

Marianne Russo Arrigone

March 11, 2025

I worked with Nathan in the office of Yale Undergraduate Admissions. Nathan was one of the nicest, down to earth guys you ever meet. Always friendly, professional and easy going.
To his family I am very sorry for your loss. God bless all of you and may he rest in peace.
Marianne Russo Arrigone

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