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CASTELLANO--Peter Maurice 62, passed away at his home in Atlantic Beach, FL on January 24, 2012 after a lengthy illness. Peter was born on February 14, 1949 in Brooklyn, NY to parents Michael and Elyane "Lana" Castellano. He attended St. Sylvester's Roman Catholic Grade School where he also served as an altar boy at Sunday masses. He attended Thomas Jefferson High School. Peter found his calling as a professional photographer when he was just a boy and his Uncle Charlie gave him a camera. This sparked his creative interest in photography and he pursued that as a career, which spanned over 35 years. Peter became a well-known fashion photographer both in Europe and the United States in the 1970's. He studied under Guy Bourdain and Gustav Petersen and was touted as the "next Scavullo" in the early 1980's. He worked with some of the finest art directors in the business. Rowan Johnson, Juan Ramos and Antonio Lopez were among his early mentors. He also collaborated on a book with famed science fiction writer, Arthur C. Clarke. During Peter's years as a professional photographer, his editorial work included French Elle, The Sunday Times in London, Vogue and Viva to name only a few. Peter's love of fishing, animals, nature and science fiction were well known to his close friends and family. He often remarked, "Any day I'm fishing is a great day. Period." Peter is survived by his wife, Bettina McMahon Castellano, sister Michele Scaglione, brother-in-law Vito, his niece, Danielle Mayol and her husband, Gerardo, his great niece, Sabrina Mayol and his dog Click. He is predeceased by his parents. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to: ASPCA: www.aspca.org, (212) 876-7700. American Liver Foundation: www.liverfoundation.org or American Liver Foundation, (212) 668-1000.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 29, 2012.

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Marie José Canelli

February 5, 2023

Dear Peter, In remembrance of Haute Savoie and Paris, Love to you where ever your soul may be, José

February 14, 2021

Happy Birthday, Peter! Love and miss you every day but especially on Valentine's Day.

Randy Simon

March 7, 2018

Just learned of Karim's death and thought I better call you. This is not where I wanted to find you my friend. You were a great human being. Peter .

Karen

February 14, 2018

My dearest Peter, Its your birthday and Valentines Day and I miss you today and every single day since youve been gone. You will never be forgotten. All my love, always. ❤

Lynn Marrapodi

January 11, 2018

My dearest Peter, our years working together were filled with so much joy and laughter. We shared our secrets and feelings in confidence, and could laugh aloud at ourselves. We created beautiful images together and we were both so proud! You were an incredible photographer, friend and confidente. I miss you and think of you so often. I know you have found peace and are watching over us all. Sending all my love...ps..you beautiful sister reached out to me, and I see you in her eyes...

Arleen Currie

February 14, 2017

Happy Birthday-you will always be my Valentine!!! Forever in my heart!

February 13, 2017

Happy Birthday and Happy Valentine's Day, Peter! ❤
Miss you every day. Love you. Always.

Michele scaglione

February 7, 2017

It is officially birthday week brother...Karen and I will be celebrating your life. Love and miss u every single day... forever my first valentine...xoxoxox

Michele Scaglione

August 30, 2016

Love u and miss u....my brother

August 28, 2016

Peter,
Missing you so much. Wishing you were here. Love you. Always. Forever. xoxo

June 26, 2016

Life is not the same without u guys

June 26, 2016

My dearest brother...think of you every day. I found some photos of you and Bettina and baby Click. I love you guys always in my heart forever

Arleen

February 14, 2016

Happy Birthday!!!

Arleen Currie

January 25, 2016

Always in my heart.

June 5, 2015

Missing you. Wishing you were here.

February 15, 2015

Happy Birthday to my First Valentine 2/14/49. Miss u sooo much my brother and sissy Bettina....Until we meet again I will be holding u both in my heart...Love Michele

November 2, 2014

Dear Bettina: I have just heard that you passed away-I am so sad! I moved to Palm Beach area 2 years ago and have been trying to find you. I thought you were in Bermuda. Now I find out you were in Jacksonville the whole time I have been here. Wish we could have had a reunion. Now it is too late. I will always remember your laugh and fun spirit. Peace to you. Grace

asma meredith

July 25, 2014

I miss you my Bettina, Rest in Peace,,

Bettina & Baby Click

July 22, 2014

July 20, 2014

On this day 45 years ago we were at the pub in London having a beer and a sandwich, watching the USA land and walk on the moon. It was a special moment for us. Missing you, Arleen

July 18, 2014

My Sweetie Bettina I know you are at peace now and with Peter & Click, We will miss you forever...until we meet again.
Love your sissy & Vito. xoxox

Robin Ford

July 17, 2014

Peter, I never met you; but, had the honor of meeting your lovely wife, who never stopped grieving for you. Now she has passed, too. It is my hope & prayer that you both are reunited in love, peace & joy. Bettina-- thank you for the brief moment we had to get acquainted. I loved & served you in all honesty & truth. I hope you are at peace & will be happy when we finally meet again one day. I'm sorry I couldn't ease your pain. Maybe now you will be free. I love you. Sincerely. Robin xo

February 16, 2014

Missing you so much. Happy Birthday In heaven! Love you Valentine!

February 14, 2014

Peter,
Missing you today. Happy Birthday and Happy Valentine's Day.
All my love always. xoxo Karen

February 14, 2014

Weedie you were my 1st Valentine! Happy Birthday in Heaven Peter Maurice Valentino Castellano.

February 14, 2014

My brother how I wish you that you were here. We all miss you so much. Happy Birthday in Heaven xo
I will be thinking of you and celebrating your life today!
Love you sister Michele

Arleen Currie

September 9, 2013

I miss you so much!!!

Peter & Bettina June 2011 boat ride

February 14, 2013

February 14, 2013

sending out an sos to the universe hope u get it packed with love, hugs & kisses.....Michele

February 14, 2013

My Darling Brother Today Valentine's Day is your Birthday here and in heaven. Today we celebrate your life a life well lived but not long enough for those of us who loved you. Please rest in peace brother. Thank you for all the signs.
Today is also National Donor Day what a way to Honor you!

carol Moser

February 6, 2013

We had some good times back then shooting for Macy's, you'll be missed.

January 26, 2013

Peter, Always in my thoughts, always in my heart, always in my prayers......miss you always....

Arleen Currie

January 26, 2013

Peter, I miss you more and more. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I hope that you are at peace. Love you, Arleen

Karen Greenblatt

January 25, 2013

My Dearest Peter,
Though you have been gone for a year now, I continue to miss you more with each passing day. I know not one day will pass without thoughts of you. Your mischievous antics, your big heart, your laugh and smile. All are missed and remembered. XOXO

remembering us

January 24, 2013

Peter today is the day you left us. 'we did not want you to go but we knew you were tired. All of us who loved you are now left with a gaping hole in our hearts. You are missed more then you know. Love you forever.......forever you will be here in my heart.

Judi Just

January 7, 2013

I looked for you for many years thinking you were in New York or New Jersy. I called so many of your friends and got a telephone number from one. The phone had been disconnected. If only i knew you were in Florida. I was there too perhaps i would have seen you. You are in my thoughts so often. My memories of you and my husband are so vivid. I remember that summer in East Hampton so vividly My best summer.My love to you always dear, dear friend wherever you are...

July 20, 2012

My dearest Peter,
Though many months have passed since you left us, I miss you now more than ever. Thinking of you and remembering you each and every day. Love always.

May 31, 2012

Peter I am thinking of you as always and missing you'

April 12, 2012

Peter......missing you and your phone calls. It just seems to get harder instead of easier.

Beverly Silver

February 27, 2012

Peter, You are in my heart forever, I will love you always. Until we meet again...........Beverly

Victor & Family Santangelo

February 26, 2012

Dear Peter
My husband and I never got to meet you in our lifetime. We pray for you daily for a miracle but god decided to call you home. We will meet you in heaven and we promise to always be with Michelle & Vito for always.

Love
Victor, Carmen, Victor Jr, Adele Santangelo

Carmen & Paul DiBenedetto

February 22, 2012

Michele,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. We will forever remember Peter in our hearts.

Jeanie Edwards

February 19, 2012

Rest in Peace Peter!
My thoughts & prayers to your family!
Jeanie Gaffney Edwards
(Arleen Gaffney Curries'sister)

February 17, 2012

Michele
Peter, your brother and my cousin , has been absent from my life for so many years, but never from my thoughts and now my prayers.
Love, Cousin Rich Castellano

Peter on Boat Ride June 2011

February 16, 2012

Peter & Vito Fishing June 2011

February 16, 2012

February 16, 2012

LOVE YOU FOREVER-ARLEEN

February 14, 2012

Happy Birthday Baby! Wish you were here. XOXO

Christine de Lassus

February 12, 2012

My dearest Peter,

May you rest in sweet Peace.
You will always be in my heart and you know it..
Your kindness, your laugh , your love of Life, your incredible talent, your sense of humor were all so contagious, to the point that I followed you all the way to America from Paris.
I owe my life as an adult here in NY and my career as a stylist to you. Thank you from the deepest of my heart where you will live forever. I love you.

thomas smallwood

February 11, 2012

Peter - you are one of a kind, RIP wild & crazy fellow...t.s

Norman Randall

February 11, 2012

Michele, Bettina and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Peter RIP, only the Lord knows best.
Norman, Angela and family.

Peter. en route to the Hamptons 1995

Andrea Lannin

February 10, 2012

Andrea

February 10, 2012

Peter, will love you always.

February 10, 2012

Peter
I miss you sooooo much. Your light will burn forever in my heart. Although you never had any children, you live on through me.........xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Joe and Desna Clements

February 10, 2012

To Michele, Bettina and family,
Although we never met Peter, his wonderful life and the outpouring of deep love here show what an extraordinary man he was. Our hearts are so sorry for your loss..Know that he is with the Lord and is always with you..watching over you and in your heart. Rest in peace, Peter.
With love, Joe and Desi

Sandra Haim

February 9, 2012

I am so sorry that I was never able to find Peter again and reminisce over old times in the 1980's. He made a strong and lasting impact on a young woman new to the field of photography. He will always remain in my heart though. My condolences to his family who had the great fortune to know him throughout his life.

Paul Ferguson

February 9, 2012

No Vogue photographs could be more beautiful than the photos Peter took of our son in the moments after his birth. We often look at the photos Peter took for our family and think of the friendship which developed. We saw him too infrequently over the past few years but thought of and spoke of him often. Just last week, a relative asked for a framed copy of a photo taken by Peter years ago.

I hope that Peter is at peace and that the pain which plagued him his last years is gone.

Michele and Paul Ferguson and family
Our condolences to his sister, Michele, and the rest of his family.

February 8, 2012

Dear Michele Vito and Family,
we want to express our deepest sympathies on the passing of your dear brother Peter. Although we never met him we felt as if we knew him. Our faith tells us that he is with our Lord. Have comfort in that. He is whole and waiting for the day that we will a be reunited . In the meantime, he is your angel, looking out for you and taking care of you as you did him.
Rest in peace dear Peter.
Love always,
Bill, Aggie and Gina Marie Terraglio

Stephen Campbell

February 7, 2012

I've just heard from Francis Murphy that Peter has gone, I remember a crazy,funny,and very talented photographer, laughing in his S type jaguar , laughing in a white Rolls Royce, and laughing in the Hilton , all in the Uk, lovely . . . Great times. . .

February 6, 2012

Michelle,
We are very sorry for your loss. He is in peace! Find comfort in knowing that. Love you, Laura, Paolo & Paolo Jr. (Boca Raton, FL)

Danielle Mayol

February 6, 2012

Mom, I wish I could be with you during this difficult time. I love you so much. Peter is at peace now. No more pain and suffering. He is with Dya and Magee now and that should bring you great comfort. All my love.

Josephine Polizzi

February 5, 2012

Peter will always be in my thoughts. I'm so sorry for your loss and will always be there for you if you need me. I love you dearly.

Aggie Nuhfer

February 5, 2012

My Dear Michele, I unfortunately never met Peter but I feel like I did because of all our talks. Peter was blessed having an amazing sister like you who always was there for him day and night. May God comfort you during this time of loss and know that he is now in a better place where there is no more suffering and pain. I love you and I am always here for you!

Vincent Moore

February 5, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss Michele. You will always have a brother as long I'm here. I love you. Vinnie!!!!!

Carolyn Martinez

February 3, 2012

My Dear Friend, You are a wonderful friend, Wife, Mother, daughter and sister! I am so happy that you were able to spend good quality time with your brother during the last few months! I am sure that your pure affection and support during his struggles meant the world to you both! I pray for you and all his love ones that you have the healing during this difficult time. My sincere sympathy! I love you girlfriend and I am always here for you and yours!

Linda Silverman

February 3, 2012

I am very sorry for your loss. I love you Michele.

Susan Sommers

February 3, 2012

Peter was an original and a delight. We were friendly awhile ago and he also did a few photography jobs for me when I was an editor at various magazines. I am so sorry for your loss.

Abraham Portnoy

February 2, 2012

Shelly, i am so sorry for your loss, but i am happy that you had the chance to spend time and rekindle your family love and bonds.... i am sure that it made the days brighter for the both of you...
my thoughts are with you as is my love
abe

eileen pender

February 2, 2012

Our dearest friends Michele and Vito. I remember you talking about your childhood.and how peter protected you. growing up.. Peter cherishd every single moment.He had with you.these last few years you were Peters protector, his own florence nightingale, light of his life and his little angel. his best friend. Peter used to say to me my sister is just like Jackie Kennedy full of grace and class.but more beautifu!! yes you are my sweet friend. you were by his side and he will be forever at yours (noynee noynee).Peter had the most amazing presence and charm!! and we will miss him dearly. all of our love to you and Vito and your family .friends Eileen and Marty

Eileen McAloney

February 2, 2012

To my dearest friends,
May God bless you and family with His Love and peace at this sad time and always. I love you.
Eileen

Nefertiti Ferguson

February 1, 2012

Rest in peace Peter , I have so many fond memories of working with Peter , sorry to we lost him , my sympathies to his family

Lawrence & Janice Castellano

February 1, 2012

Dear Michele,
Your happiness is our happiness, your sadness is our sadness. Whether happy or sad we are always here for you.
Love,
Lario and Janice

February 1, 2012

Rest in Peace

judi just

February 1, 2012

He was a wonderful friend...always there for anyone who has problems...he was a special man. wirh many talents.. i will always remember fondly the times he spent with me and my husband Hal who has since passed away, in East Hampton. Those were happy tiimes. It is so heartbreaking to know that he is no longer with us. My heart hurts so very much and i know it always will.

Andrea, Eddie & Anthony Palone

February 1, 2012

Dear Cousins Michele & Vito,

We are so sad and sorry for the loss of your brother...words can't express how we feel. Please know that Peter and you are in our thoughts and prayers...and Peter will be forever in our hearts. We love you...Cousins Andrea, Eddie & Anthony

Cousin Peter...I will miss our crazy phone conversations at all hours of the night...and I know your Aunt Dottie will miss talking to you every day as well...you will be missed so much by your Uncle Pete, Aunt Dottie (my parents) and me. Rest in Peace Cousin...We love you...Cousins Andrea, Eddie & Anthony

Jim and Andrea Baer

January 31, 2012

Michele,
We are so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. We know how much he meant to you. He is in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you.

Gina Pantano

January 31, 2012

Dear Michele,

I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Rest in peace Peter

Gerardo Mayol

January 31, 2012

Michele,

I offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of Peter. May the memories and laughter he left behind bring all of us comfort. Peter, you will certainly be missed but never forgotten.... Always in our hearts.

Paulie, Gina, Anthony & Isabella Scaglione

January 31, 2012

Michele - We are so sorry that we can not be with you. We knew from what you had told us that Peter was amazing, but we didn't realize just how incredible he was until we read this. We love you.

Mac Gordon

January 31, 2012

Though I didnt know Peter, I heard a lot about him from his sister, Michelle. We worked together for many years at Merrill Lynch. I'm sure she'll miss him dearly. My sincere condolences to those he's left behind.

Mac Gordon

Melo Dibenedetto

January 31, 2012

Michelle,

may your brother rest in peace.
I am proud to have had Peter in my life.

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
love Melo

Michele DeRiso and Family

January 31, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Joe & Lali Briguglio

January 31, 2012

Michele and Family,you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Denise DeRiso

January 31, 2012

My Dearest Friend Michele and Family

"A Beautiful Life"

A beautiful life that came to an end, he died as he lived, everyone's friend. In our hearts a memory will alway be kept, of one we loved,and will never forget.
May you rest in peace.

Vito Scaglione

January 31, 2012

Peter I will miss our daily phone calls I'll go fishing with you in the big pond in heaven. Rest in peace until we meet again.
Love your brother in law vito

Mike Catanzarite

January 31, 2012

Michele and Family. Thinking of you at this difficult time. May your brother rest in peace. Mike and Robin Catanzarite

Domenick Scaglione

January 31, 2012

Peter: Although we never met you we got to know you through your sister Michele. She spoke so much and so highly about you and that's the way we got to know you. Regrettably, we never got to meet you in person. We hope, however, to join you someday up where you are in the presence of our Creator. Rest in glory with our God. Domenick & Josephine Scaglione

Linda Pellegrino

January 31, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. Never had the pleasure of meeting Peter, however, feel as if I had through memories Michele shared with me. May Peter rest in peace.

John & Janet Sully

January 30, 2012

Michele and family, you are in our prayers.

Jennifer & Pino DiBenedetto

January 30, 2012

Peter-may you rest peacefully in God's loving hands.

sabrina mayol

January 30, 2012

Uncle peter, I hope you know that i always loved you! You will always be in my heart! Love you sooo much!!! Love, Sabrina

Danielle Mayol

January 30, 2012

Uncle Peter, you will be missed very much! I often think of the laughs we had over Petite Fours and the "toothless wonder". Rest in Peace Uncle. You will be forever missed. Danielle

Karen Greenblatt

January 30, 2012

My friend, I will miss you forever. I already miss you more than I can say. Rest in peace.

michele scaglione

January 30, 2012

My Brother ......you will always be in my heart.
I love you and miss you.....Michele

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