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PETER NITZE Obituary

NITZE--Peter Paul. Peter Paul Nitze, a paragon of decency, generosity, and grace whose kind heart, keen intellect, unassuming wisdom, and joyful sparkle put him at the center of a broad universe of family, friends, and colleagues, young and old, died on October 30, 2022, with his wife of 51 years, Susan Nitze, by his side. He was 87 years old.

He died at rest, peacefully, as a result of complications from aspiration pneumonia.

To be with Peter, in conversation or even silence, was to feel reassured and uplifted. People who met him only briefly would remark on the feeling of having been seen and understood; those who were fortunate enough to know Peter were changed by knowing him. Helped to feel happier, or less sad, or more hopeful. Encouraged. Inspired. Accepted. He loved children, and they sensed it immediately. Grandchildren, great- grandchildren, even the children of strangers were drawn to him; something about the twinkle in his eye and his delight in mischief made them go to him, pick him out as an ally or refuge. The little ones would invariably climb into his lap.

People turned to Peter, throughout his life, for his wise counsel, friendship, and gentle good nature. Peter lived with infectious ebullience and curiosity. He loved good food, good wine, and good conversation. He loved New York, his birthplace and lifelong home. He loved the Maine coast and being near the sea. He loved language and a well-placed word and was himself an eloquent wordsmith. He loved tradition, but also irreverence and satire and the unconventional. He loved his work - the business he built with his dear friend Frank Stagen. He loved his friends and his family. He loved music and dancing. He loved to travel, especially with Susan, his best friend and love, at the helm, pushing them to see and feel and experience more, together.

Peter was born in New York City on September 17, 1935, to Phyllis (Pratt) and Paul Henry Nitze, an expert on military power and defense policy who served in administrations of both parties, from Franklin D. Roosevelt through Ronald Reagan. He was the great-grandson of Charles Pratt, a co-founder of Standard Oil and founder of the Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, and grandson of Ruth Baker Pratt, the first woman elected to Congress from New York.

Peter attended grade school in Washington D.C. following his parents' move from New York at the start of Paul Nitze's career in government. Peter subsequently attended the Groton School, in Massachusetts, for high school, where, among other accomplishments, his joie de vivre and prankster's gifts led to a record-setting accumulation of demerits and Saturday detentions, which he served with pride. Peter went on to graduate from Harvard College in 1957 and to receive a J.D. from Harvard Law School in 1960.

Following graduation from law school, Peter began his professional career as a tax attorney, joining the law firm of Shearman & Sterling as an associate in 1960 and becoming one of its youngest partners in 1968. No sooner had he achieved this significant professional milestone than he left the firm to embark on a bold entrepreneurial adventure that would anchor the rest of his professional life and give rise to a singular friendship with his partner Frank Stagen. Together, Peter and Frank formed Nitze-Stagen, & Co., Inc., a private investment firm that, at first, offered investors little more than the young partners' energy, vision, integrity, and promise. Over time, those qualities led to real success, through their hard-won expertise in real estate investing, particularly in the areas of commercial office, industrial, and retail properties, and in the adaptive reuse of historic buildings.

Following the opening of a Nitze-Stagen office in Seattle in 1987, in a move that would become the firm's defining investment, Peter and Frank in 1990 purchased a hulking old building there that no one else wanted? the cavernous Sears store and warehouse on First Avenue South -- and converted it into a vibrant retail, office, and storage complex. The investment, together with the formation of the first business improvement association, transformed the neighborhood; today the building houses Starbucks' global headquarters and bears the coffee giant's name. The success of this investment validated Peter and Frank's long-held view, a core value of their business, that real estate investment should be a catalyst for improving communities. In addition to the Starbucks Center, Nitze-Stagen led the revitalization of a number of Seattle neighborhoods and historic buildings, including the Cadillac Hotel, Union Station, Merrill Place, and the Frye Museum.

Peter remained on the board of Nitze-Stagen, as Chairman, until his death, and was actively engaged in setting the strategic direction of the company. In his work, as in his personal life, Peter was generous, honest, and kind, and he treated investors, employees, and all others with openness and respect.

In addition to running Nitze-Stagen with Frank, Peter served as a director of a number of private and public companies. He also was deeply engaged in charitable causes, including as a lifetime trustee and member of the finance committee at The Professional Children's School; Co-Chairman of the Advisory committee at The NYU Center for Global Affairs; and longtime supporter of the West Side YMCA and International Women's Health Coalition. Peter also was the longest standing President of the board of the Dakota, where he was among the first people to buy a co-op unit in the 1960s as part of the successful effort to save the building from demolition. Peter is survived by his wife Susan; his six children - Peter Nitze, Andrew Nitze, Amanda Sanfilippo, and Benjamin Nitze (from his first marriage), and Sam Nitze and Kate Nitze (from his marriage to Susan); 15 grandchildren; five great-grand-children; and his sisters Heidi Nitze and Phyllis Anina Moriarty. He was predeceased by his brother William Albert Nitze in 2021 and his partner and friend Frank Stagen in 2013.

Peter and his family extend their boundless gratitude to Teodoro Garcia and Petra Silva for their love, friendship, and support of Peter, especially during his final years.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 13, 2022.

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Merrill Stone

February 20, 2024

Dearest Susan,
I just learned of dear Peter´s passing. I´m so terribly sorry darling. Peter was a great man of integrity, goodness, intelligence, humility, humanity and kindness with a lovely joie de vivre.
He loved wonderful you and all his beautiful children and family and friends. My beloved parents Lydia and George adored him and you. Marvelous, sweet memories.
May Peter rest in peace.
With much love,
Merrill Stone

Don Meadows

November 28, 2022

Dear Susan and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. I enjoyed his wit and candor as I helped him with his wardrobe. I pray that God will be gracious to all of you in your time of grief.
Don Meadows

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