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PHILIP DECOCCO Obituary

DeCOCCO--Philip.

Philip "Phil" Joseph DeCocco, 79, passed away on Wednesday, August 30th, 2017 surrounded by loved ones. Phil was born on February 20, 1938 in Schenectady, NY to Theresa and Joseph DeCocco. Phil earned a BA degree in English from the College of the Holy Cross. After college, Phil embarked on a long and successful career in the field of Human Resources Consulting. Phil held senior roles with General Electric and International Playtex before founding his own consulting business Sturges House. Phil had a wonderful sense of humor, a sharp wit and was gifted in both the musical and culinary arts. Phil seemed most at home when sharing time with family and friends in the kitchen. After cooking a delicious meal he often played the piano and serenaded his guests. It was always a treat to sit and hear him perform wonderful renditions of jazz standards and classical pieces. He was a most gracious host with a generous heart and a kind smile. Phil and his soul mate, Patricia 'Patty' Murray enjoyed 43 years together. They traveled the world, Phil using his highly skilled eye for photography to capture in striking detail the settings and faces of each journey. Phil and Patty held long-time residences in Ft. Myers, FL and Edgartown, MA. Phil is survived by his wife, Patty, six children, sister and 14 grandchildren. Private family services will be held. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the College of the Holy Cross, Gift in Memory of Phil DeCocco, Class of 1960.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 9, 2017.

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Glen Lillquist

September 2, 2021

Classmate at Mater Christi Seminary, Albany, NY 1956-1958 Phil was a very talented gent, enjoyed singing with him and sports. A gifted personality.
God bless. Glen

GLEN AND MARY LILLQUIST

GLEN LILLQUIST

February 22, 2018

PHIL AND I WERE CLASSMATES AT MATERCHRISTI SEMINARY, ALBANY NY. GREAT GUY, WONDERFUL PARENTS. SPOKE GOOD FRENCH AND ITALIAN. HIS LATIN WAS OF TOO. MISS EM. GLEN LILLQUIST

Sarah McWilliams

September 26, 2017

I met Mr.DeCocco through my husband Jim McWilliams who was Mr. DeCocco's son Joe and which was Jim's best friend and best man at our wedding. And then Joe asked Jim to be his best man and along with his wife Cathy we soon became very good friends. The first time I meet Mr. DeCocco and his wife Pat to there lovely home in Martha's Vineyard. I have to admit I was very nervous, but he made me feel right at home we will miss him very much a beautiful, generous and gracious man who made anyone feel like they where part of his family and it was an honor to meet him he will be sorely missed. Very sorry for your loss.

Geoff Bellman

September 16, 2017

This was one great guy! The obit reflected well the Phil I've known over the last forty years. His strong will, his positive spirit, his practical wisdom, and his quick wit informed all that he did. I'm missing him.

September 12, 2017

Phil, my high school class mate 61 years ago. You were such a delight at our 50th Reunion. RIP, dear friend.
Jeanette Siedband Kronick

James Romelli

September 12, 2017

Phil was my cousin who I looked up to all my life. I have so many memories of our times together when I was growing up. I will miss him so much but I know he now sits by Gods side. My heart felt condolences to his family that he loved so much.

September 12, 2017

Phil was a wonderful man, thoughtful, fun to be with and always thinking of ways to make the world a better place. I went to high school with Phil. Carolyn Micklas

Jennie Eplite McCadden

September 10, 2017

With sympathy.

Joan Cannizzaro

September 9, 2017

Thoughts and prayers and good memories from
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Lillian

September 9, 2017

Sorry to hear about the passing away of Mr. Decocco may the God who "comfort all who mourn" comfort you and your family. May God fortify you and hold on to you with his right hand.

September 8, 2017

You have my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your dear husband. May God lovingly comfort your family through this time of sorrow. (Psalm 146:5, 9)

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