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PHILIP LISTER Obituary

LISTER--Philip Nathaniel, M.D., died on June 22, 2024 at the age of 70. He is survived by his wife Elena Lister, M.D., his daughter Molly Weissman, her husband Jason Weissman, his son Solomon Lister, and his grandson Owen Weissman, as well as his brother Eric Lister, M.D. He was an adult and child psychiatrist, a poet, a writer, and an artist. He was a seeker of love and adventure. He was dedicated to his patients, multi-center efforts to make medical care more humanistic, and his research pursuits, including groundbreaking research into the use of psychedelics to treat trauma. He was the author of "A Short Good Life: Her Father Tells Liza's Story of Facing Death." He died as he wished, in his home surrounded by his family with a view of the birds and lake he loved so much.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 14, 2024.

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Howard Molen

May 15, 2025

Dr lister to me and all the people who worked in your home I express my condolences to your family. Both you and your entire family were kind considerate and fabulous to work with and for. Howard. [email protected] rip

Robert Kershaw

February 16, 2025

I have gratefully brought to mind and shared Phil´s heart-warming mantra "be a love slinger" with many McDonogh `70 classmates who knew him - on the tennis team or otherwise. Phil´s legacy of love, medical scholarship and poetic light endures.

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E L

August 22, 2024

I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Dr. Lister - Phil. He helped my husband and me immeasurably after the loss of our baby in 2021. Even in our short time together he impressed upon me how remarkable of a human being he was - razor smart, uncommonly observant, truly kind. The world is a bit dimmer for his loss. I think of him often and will miss him.

Daniel Schechter

August 20, 2024

Dear Elena and family,

I just learned about Phil's passing. My sympathy for your loss. I have memories of a kind and inspiring man from the Columbia Center. I have learned much from his book and referred to it in teaching on illness, grief and traumatic loss in Switzerland and will continue to do so in my work.
My warm wishes to you all.
Dan

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David Semenoiff

July 15, 2024

Elena and family,
I was so very saddened to hear of Philip´s passing. We were classmates at McDonogh, and I remember what a bright, kind, talented person that he was. We did not keep in touch after leaving McDonogh, though our careers independently involved the medical field. I will keep Philip and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Robert Kershaw

July 15, 2024

Dear Elana and family,
I too was a McDonogh friend (`70) with Phil. Our paths did not cross after school, but it seems our adult passions and geography followed synchronistic nearby orbits. I shall hope to join you and Phil´s friends on August 10. I wish you and your family comfort in sadness with beautiful memories of living so very well. Shantih. Robert Kershaw

Thomas Young

July 15, 2024

Elana and family,
I knew Philp at McDonogh. We are sorry for your loss. Remember all that he did with you and for you, and he will live in your heart forever. The sadness you feel today will turn to happy memories in the years to come.
Diane and Tom Young Class of 1970.

Steve Herman

July 15, 2024

Oh, Elena, I am so very very sorry. I was always so impressed with Philip's and your dedication to the mental health of children. He was so kind - even for a doctor he was warm and caring, and ethical.

Judy Williams

July 14, 2024

Oh no. I am so sorry to read that Phil died. Elena, my thoughts will be with you

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