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RICHARD ADER Obituary

ADER--Richard. Bennington College mourns the death of Richard Ader, who served on the Bennington Board of Trustees since 2017. We are grateful for his commitment and work on behalf of the College. He was a wise advisor and passionate advocate for Bennington. Our deepest sympathy to his family. Nick Stephens, Chair of the Bennington College Board of Trustees, and Laura Walker, Bennington College President

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 9, 2023.

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Rabbi Seth Daniel Riemer

September 4, 2024

I never met Richard in person but had the honor of speaking with him on the phone not long after I had come to Bennington and Congregation Beth El to begin my work as rabbi here and shortly before his untimely death. Pamela later sent me a copy of Richard's book, which testifies to his courage, determination, and generosity of spirit, traits that were so powerfully evident to me during our brief phone conversation. I wish I'd been blessed to have a longer and fuller acquaintance with this exemplary man.

Karen Gross

December 13, 2023

Pam - I just learned of your husband´s death.... We had chatted earlier in the year when he called the wrong Karen but I was delighted to speak to him. I will make a donation to the suggested organization. I hope time gives you peace and comfort..... he was remarkable.

Hal Weston

October 14, 2023

R.I.P. old friend.........You were a giant in life/ athletics/ philanthropy/ business/ values/ and family...........Cannot say enough wonderful things about the quality of person you have been................and now, as you enter the Kingdom of GOD, bless you......and thanks for all the counsel you provided me over the years.............Love ya Dick and will miss you ! .........................HRW

Seth Gabriel

September 17, 2023

Richard was the best friend and business mentor I could have dreamed of. Richard and Pam´s kindness has shaped our town in southern Vermont.

Skip Hartman

September 15, 2023

Dick and I never got to know each other well, yet we met many times through tennis and had a mutual interest in NJTL. I had planned to attend the memorial service this past Tuesday but came down with a bad cold - a result of too much heat and air conditioning the second week of the Open. His genuine interest in helping young people through tennis - whether it be in Vermont or through the USTA Foundation, and his advocacy for NJTL within the Foundation were actions that spoke louder than words. My condolences to his family and thanks to him for all that he accomplished.

Philadelphia

September 13, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to pass, and as you return to life's routine may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

J.

September 12, 2023

May God's promise found in John 6:40, of the hope to see our loved ones again, comfort your heart and give you peace, strength, and hope in the days ahead.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

JJJ

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Jay Jacobson

September 12, 2023

With fond memories of Rich and his incredibly talented senior sibling, sending recollection of days when we were parts of New York´s long forgotten Inter-School Congress.
Jay (and Pat) Jacobson

Nicole Kovensky

September 11, 2023

We love you Pam! We are devastated to hear about Richie. Our hearts and love are with you. Richie will always be remembered.

Philadelphia

September 11, 2023

May the memories carry you though this very difficult time. My condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted.( Isa 61:1)

BP

September 11, 2023

My condolences to the family. I am very sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and peace from God. Romans 15:13

Myra Levy

September 11, 2023

To Pam, my sincere condolences. Myra Adler Levy, Syracuse, 1964. AEPhi.

Jean, Carrie & Kano Kanokogi

September 9, 2023

It has been an honor to call you my friend. It´s a bigger honor to know the friend you were to Rusty. Thank you for all you have done, your impact will continue without boundaries. Our deepest condolences to Pamela and family.

Lori (Ader) Gladstone

September 8, 2023

I am sending my deepest condolences to Jason, Pam and Jenny. I´m so very sorry to hear of your loss. I was honored to have known such a wonderful man.

Diane and Elliot Senderoff

September 8, 2023

It is with great sorrow that we learned of the passing of Richard Ader. We
extend our condolences to Pam, Jason, and the entire family.
With deepest feelings: Diane and Elliot Senderoff

Bill Kopp

September 8, 2023

So sorry to read of this. He will be missed. Too young to pass. Heartfelt sadness to Pam and his kids.

JF

September 8, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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