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HOYT--Richard Palmer, an associate real estate broker, caterer, and snowboard instructor, died on Monday, March 30th, at Mount Sinai West hospital in Manhattan. He was 59. His wife, Debra, and his daughter, Sophie, said the death was unrelated to Covid-19. Rick was a vivacious hobbyist. A lifelong fly fisherman, he wrote haikus in his free time and picked up snowboarding at the age of 40. Most recently, he enjoyed boxing with friends at Gleason's Gym. According to his daughter - who does not care to admit how many games she has lost - Rick was an excellent scrabble player, who managed to commit a majority of the two-letter words to memory. He was also a dedicated lover of the arts. He was a classically trained saxophonist, and throughout his life, he performed in numerous choral groups. Though he wore many (literal and figurative) hats, Rick will be remembered by many as a dapper dresser, who loved to sport color-coordinated suits, which he always completed with bowties and his infectious smile. Rick Hoyt was born in Denver on October 2, 1960, to Charles Richard Hoyt, who was a real estate developer and entrepreneur, and Suzanne (Rice) Hoyt. Like his father, Rick was a fiercely independent entrepreneur who carried himself with a captivating optimism. The youngest of three, Rick grew up in Denver and later moved to Portland, OR, to attend Lewis & Clark College. There, he met Debra Morton, and graduated in 1983 with a bachelor's degree in Music Performance. Debra and Richard Hoyt moved to Brooklyn in 1984, and were married two years later. "We had two sleeping bags that we used until we had enough money to buy a mattress," Debra said, remembering their early days in Brooklyn. "We couldn't afford a phone, so we used the pay phone on the corner. For silverware, we saved fork-spoons from Bojangles." Later they moved to the Upper West Side, where they raised their child, Sophie Palmer Hoyt, who was born in 1997. A loving and generous father and a devoted husband, he prized his family above all else. Rick is survived by his wife and daughter; his mother; his brother, James Rice Hoyt; and his sister, Cynthia Hoyt Kinney. Donations can be made in his name to the New York Blood Center. Rick was an avid supporter of blood and plasma donation, and he would always find time to fit a donation into his busy schedule, encouraging others to do the same.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 15, 2020.

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Jan Ross

May 9, 2020

Rick was a superstar in high school and an all around great guy. May you find peace in your memories. While I missed our last reunion, its clear his light will shine on through your family. Take care!

Marcela Cuan

April 22, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Marce Cuan

Ken Yudell

April 18, 2020

Rick, you always had a smile. You will be missed. I'm glad I got to see you at Hunter in February.

Lee Elliot

April 17, 2020

Rick, you always made us smile, we couldn't wait for the next escapade... As Debbie said you were in charge of fun!! Keep everyone smiling up there. We miss you here and will keep you alive in our hearts.

Jennifer Hutchison

April 17, 2020

Ricky, so sorry for your sudden loss! It has been so long since Rob and I last saw you; but your life story reflects a truly creative and energetic spirit! It was so much fun growing up with your family, camping, and generally enjoying the Colorado outdoors. How can it be that you are no longer with us? I will hold onto the many wonderful family memories we shared. Peace and comfort to Debra and Sophie in this most difficult time. Sending love, Rob and Jennifer

Peter Osterman

April 17, 2020

Rick was life. He filled space with joy, humor and zest. That we, the boys of B-30, could gather after more than 30 years apart was remarkable. The wit and laughter of Rick was a big part of that time. I am so glad we met again.

Christina Myers

April 16, 2020

Your kindness, talent, and bright joy will be missed. Sending love and sympathy to your family from ours.

Drew Wills

April 16, 2020

Playful, boisterous, exuberant, generous and caring. You were one of a kind and will be missed by many. The B-30 gathering and adventures with you and Deb in Montana is cherished all the more. God bless and keep you my friend.

Robert Montano

April 16, 2020

Rick, you always had an amazing smile and a high positive energy to follow suit. You were all so proud to share your daughter, Sophie's accomplishments whether it be school or acting gigs. I will miss your smile, the repartee, and your bow ties. See you when I see you pal! With love, Robert

Nina

April 16, 2020

The most dapper dresser EVER! Ill always remember talking music/arts with Rick! One of the most generous, encouraging & loving humans Ive ever met. Your legacy lives on in Sophie now! My dad Harvey is in the hospital with Covid now but wants me to send His deep condolences & love. He is devastated about this news. Rest in peace Rick. Love, Nina & Harvey

April 16, 2020

"Ricky" as we called you. I will always cherish our youth as 2 families in the Colorado mountains. We had several wonderful years exploring the backwoods. Never mind all the wonderful dinner parties our parents had. With love to the Hoyt's, Kinney's, Debbie and extended family. Your spirit and kindness will always be remembered and dearly missed.
Meredith Hackstaff

Angela Dohrmann

April 16, 2020

A true light lost. His smile lit up the room. My sincere sympathy to his family.

margie larson

April 16, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Kari

April 16, 2020

I will always remember Ricks quick smile. It would light up a room. I am so deeply sorry for the grieve you are experiencing. Rick will live on in the hearts of many.

Marjorie West-Daniels

April 16, 2020

Rick will be missed by the entire Thunderbolt Family, Denver Colorado. Rest in Peace .

Mary

April 15, 2020

Rick was a wonderful source of energy and joy to our Upper West Side community. I always loved seeing his smile and his positive outlook was contagious. I miss him.

Fanny Montalvo

April 15, 2020

My dear friend, Rick- I am yet not over the shock of us losing you. My heart breaks for your wife, daughter and family- they such pride you held of them. We, left with such pride in knowing you. You, such an authentic and humble soul- leave us with a void in our lives and our hearts are missing that piece of sunshine that was you. Rest In Peace, knowing you are missed, treasured and prayed for always.

Felice DiMartino

April 15, 2020

I remember vividly, meeting Rick (Debra and Sophie) at the Greenbergs in Long Beach for the first time. Rick was warm, friendly, and completely present in our conversation amidst lots going on around us. He had a way about him that made it seem as though I was an old, familiar friend, when I saw him at future Greenberg gatherings. Love, Warm thoughts and peace of mind and heart to you, Debra and Sophie. And Blessings for his easeful journey.

Janice Goldberg

April 15, 2020

What a mensch Rick was! Handsome, kind, and deeply talented. And he will be deeply deeply missed.

Liz Belson

April 15, 2020

May his memory be for blessing. Rest In Peace.

Scotty Watson

April 15, 2020

Rick, you will be remembered with love & laughter.

Jeffrey Hedgepeth

April 15, 2020

Thanks for being such a great friend for almost 40 years. You are deeply missed.

Alyssa Winn

April 14, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful uncle. We will love you and miss you always.

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