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ROBERT ASHTON Obituary

ASHTON--Dr. Robert, Jr.,

52, of Ft. Lee, NJ, thoracic surgeon and proud father of Alex and Chloe, son to Lillian and Bob Ashton, of Naples, Florida. Born in Vineland, NJ, attended Muhlenberg College and then Medical College of Pennsylvania and did his cardiothoracic fellowship at Columbia where he met his ex-wife Dr. Jennifer Garfein Ashton. Robert was the thoracic surgery director at Montefiore Medical Center in the Bronx and chief thoracic surgeon at Hackensack University Medical Center. He was deeply loved by his family, friends and countless people he helped in the many years as a physician.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 14, 2017.

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Kimberly Hults

February 8, 2021

Seems like yesterday I rode with him in an elevator with the dog...he was an amazing man! I am sorry for your loss. Hope you are healing ❤

Nancy Anderson

May 16, 2019

5/16/19 ( Just saw Dr. Oz show today) Prayers and peace to You, The Ashton family, and all your Loved Ones.
- Just a Fellow Traveler

JAMES MASTRICOVA

January 8, 2018

HE WAS A WONDERFUL COMPASSIONATE MAN

Norma Napoli

February 22, 2017

Lillian and Bob,
My deepest sympathy to you and your grandchildren. You will all be in my prayers,
Sincerely, Norma

Joann De Grosa

February 21, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I was so taken aback and saddened hearing of his passing. He operated on me 10 years ago, as I had a rare form of lung cancer. I thanked God for Dr. Ashton and his gifted hands, expertise, and gentle caring ways. God's grace and Dr. Ashton gave me a second chance at life. May he rest in peace.

Melinda Breen

February 21, 2017

With profound gratitude from all the patients whose lives you extended, including my mother's. May your parents and children find strength and comfort in that thought as long as they live. RIP

SueAnn (from wheaton) Dolinsky

February 20, 2017

Bob and Lillian,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you.

Glenn and Kathy Kahley

February 20, 2017

Bob and Lillian,
Thinking of you and remembering the good times shared at Little League and the Prep. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy.

Glenn and Kathy Kahley

Dom & MaryAnn Diorio

February 19, 2017

Lillian and Bob, Sorry for your loss. May God's blessing be a comfort to you.

February 18, 2017

Dr Ashton gave me a second chance at life ,
Rest In Peace ,
I will never forget your kindness and grace ,
Gerard Zoppi

Annie

February 18, 2017

May mercy and peace and love be increased to you during this sad and difficult time. Jude 2.

Mindy Feinberg Liebowitz

February 17, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. It is very difficult. I went to Muhlenberg with Rob, and have wonderful memories of him. He was special, and will not be forgotten.

Nancy and Greg Vorbach

February 16, 2017

Dear Jen, Alex, Chloe, and your families, We know how much you loved Rob and that he felt the same in return. His loss brings us great sorrow, and our thoughts and concern are for you. I hope and pray the support you are getting from each other and everyone around you who loves you and cares for you will bring you strength and peace. Love, Nancy, Greg, Bryan and Ian Vorbach

Lynda Cohen

February 15, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. Dr. Ashton saved my life 8 years ago. He was truly the most gentle, kind and compassionate doctor I've ever met. RIP

Mary Renda

February 15, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I worked with Rob in Boston a few years ago and found him to be a warm and wonderful person. May he rest in peace.

February 14, 2017

Rob was our neighbor for many years. As a boy He always stood out for his mature presence. He expressed a deep concern for those around him even as a boy. There are no words to express the deep sorrow that everyone that knew him feels.May his memory be a blessing. Lynch family

Taffy Ashton

February 14, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I know he will be missed by all whose lives he touched.

marilyn and family birnback

February 14, 2017

My God give you the strength and courage to heal in this tragic sorrow...

Rosanna Consalvo Sarto

February 14, 2017

The Consalvo Family of Atlantic City, NJ, is so sorry for your loss. My sisters and I have such wonderful, fun filled memories of Robbie, when we were all growing up and celebrating special occasions in our lives in South Jersey. Our love goes to his parents and his family. God Bless!

Kimberly Hults

February 14, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I met Rob when he was looking for an apartment last year and although I was only an acquaintance he touched my heart talking about his children and how much he loved those sweet dogs..amazing man and this hurts many people whose lives he touched. God bless you all .

Mrs. B.

February 14, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. May the precious memories of your dear loved one comfort you. Psalms 94:18,19

Andrea Procaccino

February 14, 2017

I knew Rob from grade school and middle school. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jo-Ann Haney-Tilton

February 14, 2017

Am so so sorry for your loss. Rob and I were friends/classmates at MCP. He was kind, compassionate, so smart, so driven. We had many spirited political debates! Am praying for the comfort of his family.

Jo-Ann Haney-Tilton

February 14, 2017

Am so so sorry for your loss. Rob and I were friends/classmates at MCP- kind, so smart, so driven. We used to have many spirited political debates!
He is remembered with great fondness. Praying for the comfort of his family.

AC

February 14, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss. God keep those who pass on in his memory because they are precious to to him. Psalms 116:15.

Nancy Vanden Houten

February 14, 2017

To Jen, Alex and Chloe and all of Rob's family and friends: I am so sorry for this unfathomable loss. I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I will remember Rob as a wonderful friend to my brother Arthur, and as a kind, generous friend to our entire family. Sincerely, Nancy

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