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Sam Kader Obituary
Sam Kader, beloved son of Salwa & Ralph, dear brother to Nino & Rick, and loving friend to many across the world, passed away on Thursday, September 10, 2009, at the age of 30.
He was in intensive care at Mountainside hospital in New Jersey and battled pneumonia and MRSA for three weeks. His untimely death has deeply, deeply saddened us all. May he live on in each of us.
Born March 12, 1979, he grew up all over the world. As the son of a UN Diplomat he traveled to dozens of countries, experienced a wide array of cultures, and learned to speak fluent Arabic and Spanish as well as conversational Russian and French. He graduated with honors from Valley Forge Military Academy & College and later studied at Columbia and George Washington Universities.
Sam lived life to the fullest. His passions included: international affairs, polo, surfing, auto racing, motorcycles, aviation (he had a pilot's license) and most of all music (he was a fantastic DJ and an unparalleled dancer). He touched countless numbers of lives with his natural open hearted compassion, great sense of humor and generosity. In addition to his work in international business consulting, Sam was devoted to humanitarian and peace causes and volunteered at the United Nations.
Family and friends are planning a memorial celebration of Sam's life in October at the United Nations in New York City. Memorial services will also be held around the globe in: Taiwan, China, India, Malaysia, Jordan, Lebanon, Qatar, Egypt and Dubai. If you would like to be notifed please contact [email protected].
In Sam's honor the family is establishing the Sam Kader Memorial Fund. Inquiries and contributions can be made to [email protected].
May he rest in peace at the Laurel Grove Cemetery in NJ and may God's infinite love, grace, and peace bless him for all eternity.
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Memories and Condolences
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Anthony K
March 21, 2018
Sam,
Unfortunately I just heard of your passing. I will never forget all the great times we had by Hofstra, and throughout NyC. You were one of a kind, and wish we had stayed in touch. Prayers to you and your family. Rest easy buddy
Stephanie Pestana
September 8, 2010
Sam it's almost been a year since you passed. Just want to let you know that you are thought of often and will never be forgotten. You will always have a special place in heart. May you eternally rest in peace
Rick Kader
November 9, 2009
When I look back upon my life
No matter when or where
At every age & step & stage
My brother was always there
He made me feel so safe so loved
His kindness meant so much
I still can hear his words of cheer
And feel his gentle touch
When I'd set out to bring about
Some special dream or plan
His pride in me was plain to see
He was ...my biggest fan
If I had news to celebrate
Or hopes that had been shattered
He always knew just what to do
To show my feelings mattered
He'd hang in there to help me bare
The stresses and the stings
And always knew when to let go
So I could try my wings
And still today I'm glad to say
I feel your loving care
In the deepest part of my greatful heart
My brother was always there.
I Love You Sam, Always and Forever.
Your little Bro.
Manish Bhatt
October 15, 2009
I knew Sam from GWU, he actually lived across the hall from me and was always nearby with a smile. Even on the tough days he found it within himself to make others happy. His presence will be missed by all whose lives he touched but his spirit will live on. Rest in peace my friend, my prayers and thoughts for your family.
Matt Ronquillo
October 12, 2009
Sam, you were a great friend. I will always remember the many good times we had and the ever-present smile on your face that could not be wiped away even after breaking 6 full pint glass racks that one Christmas eve at work years ago. You were a great person and your spirit will continue to enrich all our lives through our great memories of our times together. Rest in Peace my friend...
Zineb Benkirane
October 10, 2009
I got to know Sam during my Sophomore year at GWU, when he always impressed me with his worldiness and great sense of fun and humor... I am deeply shocked and saddened by his untimely departure. May God bless his soul and all my deepest of condolences to his beloved family and friends. Allah y rahmak, Sam. You will be missed.
Ali Emam
October 10, 2009
I went to school with same in BIS back in Iraq. He was one of my best friends throughout my childhood. When I look back at those wonderful times I always remeber Sam with his warm smile...he was always active and fun to be with. I really Miss you Sam...God rest your soul
Rachel Achmad
October 9, 2009
I worked with Sam in 2002-2003 and had so much fun spending time with him. Frequently, I gave him rides home from work and he would always have me laughing with his stories about the pet rabbit he had illegally living in his apartment.
He was so smart and I had no doubt that after school he would be very successful in whatever he did. I moved away in 2003 and did not stay in touch with Sam, but have thought fondly of him over the years, and am so saddened to learn of your loss. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Rachel Achmad
Adolfo Pons
October 9, 2009
I went to Valley Forge with Sam.. he was always joyful and very attentive to his classmates. My deepest simpathies to his family and friends and all his family from VF.
Jane Mikulecky
October 9, 2009
I worked with Sam at Buca in D.C. and I am saddened to hear of his death. Sam was a character to remember. One night after a stressful shift we went out and discussed dating life. He shared all of the perils of dating girls from New York and New Jersey. I wish I would have taken notes! He was funny and sweet and will truly be missed. My deepest sympathies to the Kader family.
Aubrey Jean-Louis
October 9, 2009
i met sam in Iraq in the baghdad international school and he was always making jokes and was always a fun person...my heart goes out to his family and may God send comfort your way!!! Amen!
Robert Day
October 8, 2009
My Prayers are with Sam and the Kader family.
Rest in peace dear friend
Lucy Ghazal
October 8, 2009
Dear Kader family,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of a great soul. Sam and I went to school together in Jordan, and even then, at that age, he left an impression. He was so giving and loving, and had a great sense of humor. He always knew how to make us all laugh.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had the words.
All my love and thoughts are with your family,
Lucy Ghazal
Kamal Pathak
October 7, 2009
Sam, rest in peace brother. You will be sorely missed.
sherwat elgayar
October 4, 2009
Its a shock , but thats God's will, we all pray for him. may he rest in peace
Amr El-Sayed
October 3, 2009
Rest in peace dear old friend :'(
Sanja Poznanovic
October 3, 2009
Dear Nino and the entire Kader family, I am so sorry for the lose of you brother and son. May he rest in peace.
Sanja Poznanovic Kijanovic
Tsu-Wei and Wilson Chang
October 1, 2009
Remember, the physical separation is temporary. Sam, his bright smile and good manner will always be there with us all. We love him and your whole family, and you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Randa Fahmy Hudome
October 1, 2009
Dear Nino and the entire Kader family: I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved brother and son. My prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Salwa Kader
September 27, 2009
Please join us for a celebration of Sam’s life October 19, 2009 at 5:00pm at the United Nations Chapel
Details
Location: United Nations Chapel,
777 UN Plaza, 44th street and First Ave, NYC, New York 10017
Date: October 19, 2009
Time: 5:00 – 7:00 pm
Thank you,
Salwa Shatila Kader
19 Taylor Dr
West Caldwell, New Jersey 07006
eMail: [email protected]
+1973-568-8384
Nancy Elbassiouny
September 25, 2009
My prayers are with the Kader family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss, May God bless him and may he rest in peace.
Bahaa Elkoussy
September 24, 2009
No words can simply express the sadness and shock from this bereavement. Bahaa Elkoussy, Eman Fouad and their children Dina and Omar send to their good and dear friends Raouf and Salwa, as well as to Rick and Nino, their deepest and most heartfelt condolences and sympathies. May God rest his blessed, graceful soul in peace and heaven.
Bahaa, Eman, Dina and Omar Elkoussy in Lebanon & USA
Thouria Benferhat
September 22, 2009
Dear Ralph and Saloua,
Though I did not get to know Sam personally, I do want to express my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences.
May God give you the strength and courage to deal with this loss.
Innaa Lillaahi wa Innaa Ilayhi Raaji3uun
Michelle Abboud
September 16, 2009
Sam,
You were so full of life and lived yours very well. You were kind and funny and just an all around good guy who was loved by so many.
Even after school, you kept in contact and I'm so glad that we were in touch again recently. I was very happy to hear how well you were doing! I only wish we had gotten the chance to hang out again, since you always made me smile.
Even though it's hard to believe that your time with us was cut short, you will be remembered by all of your many friends at GWU and will live on in those memories!
I am praying for you and your family and may God bless you all!
Aref Nahhas
September 16, 2009
Dears Raouf & Salwa, The news of Sam's death came to us all in ESCWA who knows ur family as a shock.
I wish that I could tell you I am truly truly saddened and so sorry for this terribly painful loss. I knew Sam when I visited you at your home, while he was still child, but he surely left his mark and his passing away affected us so deeply.. we all remember your family with proud that you raise him as a man, with his bright personality and his loving, kind person. I really don't know how to express my sorrow and find myself at such a loss for words. All I can do is pray "Allah yer7amo, we yeghferloh, w'eywasa3 3alaih InshaAllah Ya ALLAH.
Because we are only human, these shocks are bound to bring us tears.
But we are not afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I send you and Sam my most heartfelt prayers. Love, Aref and Faten Nahhas.
September 15, 2009
Dear Ralph and Salwa,
I want to share my heartfelt condolences at the sudden death of your son, Sam. No doubt this sad event has been very disturbing for you and for the many other people who knew and cared for him. I am thinking of you in this time of loss and bereavement. May his soul rest in peace.
With sympathy,
Aida Alzhanova
Ex-DPR of Kazakhstan
A'mina Treky
September 15, 2009
Taunte Salwa, Ammo Raouf, Nino, & Rick. The news of Sam's death came as a shock to me as I was not even aware that he had fallen ill. I am truly truly saddened and so sorry for this terribly painful loss. I knew Sam very briefly but he surely left his mark and his passing away affected me so deeply.. I remember his sense of humour, his bright personality and his loving, kind person. I really don't know how to express my sorrow and find myself at such a loss for words. All I can do is pray "Allah yer7amo, we yeghferlo, w'eywasa3 3alaih InshaAllah Ya Rab. I send you and Sam my most heartfelt prayers. Love, A'mina Treky.
September 15, 2009
We are the parents of Mazin and Jinaan who knew Sam from university. We offer our deepest and heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son and brother. Our children have told us how wonderful Sam was and, through this hurt and pain, please remember, memories of him are beautiful.
Our deepest sympathy goes to all of you.
Issam and Leila Elias
Allentown
Pennsylvania
Jinaan Elias
September 15, 2009
Sam...
I dont even know what to say.
You were such a great friend at GWU...We had so much fun together. Such a great man, a great soul, a great friend...
My heart is broken knowing that youre gone...i couldnt believe the news when i heard it....i hate the reality of it all...
I pray for you and your family. ... youll always be in my heart Sam...
Love
Jinaan Elias
Doug Hostetter
September 15, 2009
Ralph & Salwa,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys during this painful time. May God grant you comfort and peace.
Love & prayers,
Doug Hostetter
September 15, 2009
You are all in my prayers...and have my deepest sympathy. Sam was a special young man who shall be missed by all who knew and loved him.
Affectionately,
Sallie T. de Barcza
(Mrs. Charles G. L. de Barcza
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