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Susan Sommer Obituary

SOMMER--Susan (Suki) Thiemann, born in New York City, January 7, 1935, died at home in New York on March 4, 2008, after a lengthy illness. Ms. Sommer was the Acting Director of The New York Public Library for the Performing Arts (1999-2001) when she retired in 2001. She also was Chief of its Music Division from 1997 to 2001 and Head of its Circulating Collections from 1987 to 1997. She joined The New York Public Library in 1961. In 1969 she became head of the rare books and manuscripts section and curator of the Toscanini Memorial Archives in The New York Public Library for the Performing Arts. She will also be remembered for nurturing many of today's music librarians lucky enough to have taken the famous course in music librarianship she taught for years at Columbia University. Suki was a product of the Greenwich, CT, public schools and was graduated magna cum laude from Smith College in 1956. After receiving a masters degree in musicology at Columbia and studying in Florence on a Fulbright scholarship, she gained a second masters at Columbia, in library service, and became a luminary in her chosen field of music librarianship. She served a term as president of the Music Library Association and excelled as the editor-in-chief of its journal, Notes, from 1982 to 1987, after years of writing and editing book and music reviews. She was awarded an honorary membership of the Association in 1994. She was active in the International Association of Music Libraries and edited that organization's journal as well, from 1992 to 2000 One week before her death, she traveled to Newport, RI, for the annual meeting of MLA, where she conversed with some 100 of her closest friends and admirers. She enjoyed a happy 38-year marriage to Robert C. Sommer, who died in January 2007. She is survived by her brother, Nicholas Thiemann, of Westport, CT, his wife Helen Clark Thiemann and her nephew, Clark Thiemann. Contributions in her memory may be made to the Music Library Association, the New York Public Library Music Division, and the Visiting Nurse Service of New York, whose Hospice Care program allowed her to live her final months at home in comfort and with dignity. A memorial service is in the planning stages.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 9, 2008.

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Dorothy Billinga

March 3, 2021

I think os Suki every day--she is always with me. I am 87 now--I think that means she would be 85 or 86 We met when we both lived in International HOuse as graduate students. We decided to move into an apartment, and then another one, and then another one, and finally the one some of you knew--on 112th St. I went to Australia and then New 'G"uinea to do my anthropological field work. I came back 4 years later and she was about to marry Bob. We were just together togehter--with our 3rd roommate, Martha, who has also crossed the bar. Love to all, Dotty. and yes thank you so much for taking care of Suki at the end. And I believe Michael also took care of her cat.

Janet Pinkowitz

April 10, 2008

Suki and I met when I began working in the Music Division at NYPL. I was 22 and she was 32 (old, it seemed to me at the time). Even back then she set a high professional standard for herself and others, allthewhile keeping a sense of humour and having a great time. I left NYPL some years later to start raising kids, and Suki watched our two children grow from toddlers into young adults who would fret about their trials and tribulations. I remember quite clearly her commenting that as you get older you come to realize that “it doesn’t really matter all that much; you just try to enjoy each day as much as possible.”
In her readings during her last months, Suki seem to find comfort in the idea that our ancestors live on through us. What I will cherish most about her is her attitude towards her own life – how much she laughed (sometimes raucously), enjoyed music, books, flowers, work, her friends and family. Suki will always be a source of inspiration to anyone fortunate enough to have known her.

Dotty Billings

March 10, 2008

Suki, my friend, you picked up speed as you neared the finish line. What a grand show. I hope you took the fourteen cocoons with you as you passed through the looking glass. Love, Dotty

Rebecca J Littman

March 10, 2008

Suki was a remarkable woman who drew people to her regardless of their status in life. The Music Library Association, the people and the organization, will be the poorer for having lost her, though we are all the richer for having had her to begin with.

Andrew Pinkowitz

March 10, 2008

As Suki's personal friend (40 years), opera co-conspirator (10 years) and acknowledged "safety net" (1 year) I would like to take this opportunity to thank Michael & Carol Ochs and Maureen Buja for their loving devotion and participation in caring for Suki in her final weeks. Suki's love of life and appreciation of her friends and caretakers was an inspiration to those of us who were fortunate enough to be involved.

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