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Dorothy Billinga
March 3, 2021
I think os Suki every day--she is always with me. I am 87 now--I think that means she would be 85 or 86 We met when we both lived in International HOuse as graduate students. We decided to move into an apartment, and then another one, and then another one, and finally the one some of you knew--on 112th St. I went to Australia and then New 'G"uinea to do my anthropological field work. I came back 4 years later and she was about to marry Bob. We were just together togehter--with our 3rd roommate, Martha, who has also crossed the bar. Love to all, Dotty. and yes thank you so much for taking care of Suki at the end. And I believe Michael also took care of her cat.
Janet Pinkowitz
April 10, 2008
Suki and I met when I began working in the Music Division at NYPL. I was 22 and she was 32 (old, it seemed to me at the time). Even back then she set a high professional standard for herself and others, allthewhile keeping a sense of humour and having a great time. I left NYPL some years later to start raising kids, and Suki watched our two children grow from toddlers into young adults who would fret about their trials and tribulations. I remember quite clearly her commenting that as you get older you come to realize that “it doesn’t really matter all that much; you just try to enjoy each day as much as possible.”
In her readings during her last months, Suki seem to find comfort in the idea that our ancestors live on through us. What I will cherish most about her is her attitude towards her own life – how much she laughed (sometimes raucously), enjoyed music, books, flowers, work, her friends and family. Suki will always be a source of inspiration to anyone fortunate enough to have known her.
Dotty Billings
March 10, 2008
Suki, my friend, you picked up speed as you neared the finish line. What a grand show. I hope you took the fourteen cocoons with you as you passed through the looking glass. Love, Dotty
Rebecca J Littman
March 10, 2008
Suki was a remarkable woman who drew people to her regardless of their status in life. The Music Library Association, the people and the organization, will be the poorer for having lost her, though we are all the richer for having had her to begin with.
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Andrew Pinkowitz
March 10, 2008
As Suki's personal friend (40 years), opera co-conspirator (10 years) and acknowledged "safety net" (1 year) I would like to take this opportunity to thank Michael & Carol Ochs and Maureen Buja for their loving devotion and participation in caring for Suki in her final weeks. Suki's love of life and appreciation of her friends and caretakers was an inspiration to those of us who were fortunate enough to be involved.
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