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VIVIAN MILSTEIN Obituary

MILSTEIN--Vivian. Vivian Leiner Milstein passed away peacefully at home on September 17, 2021. Born on February 27, 1922, in the Bronx, she was the daughter of Dr. Joshua Leiner, a prominent neurologist and psychiatrist, and his wife, Beatrice. Vivian was predeceased by her beloved husband and true partner of 56 years, Seymour, her cherished sister, Clarice Levy, and brother, Robert Leiner. Vivian was the devoted and loving mother of Constance and her husband, Said, and of Philip and his wife, Cheryl. She is also survived by her adored grandchildren and their spouses, Abby and Rick, Joanna and Bjorn, Meredith and Lance, Joshua and Rachel, Toby and Judah, and Laurence, and her treasured great-grandchildren, Sara, Sophie, and Samson. Vivian was an elegant woman, dedicated philanthropist, sophisticated traveler, adventuresome lover of life, art, music, and all things of beauty the world had to offer. Our family matriarch, Vivian was a dignified shining light and an inspiration to all who knew her. She will be forever remembered, deeply missed and always in our hearts. We are enormously grateful to Maya for all the care and attention she provided to Vivian with so much love.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 20, 2021.

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gail (gordon) and Leslie nizin

October 3, 2021

So sad to hear of your loss. Your mother was an elegant, dignified woman. a benefactor EXTRAORDINAIRE. A great loss to your family and the world.

Solly Avi Refael

September 21, 2021

So much dignity in this lady RIP.

Sue & Elliott Solomon MD

September 20, 2021

We were so sorry to hear of your Great Loss, you were so lucky to have her so long. Please accept our Deepest Sympathy & Know that our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.
Most Sincerely,
Sue & Elliott

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