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WALLACE GOSSETT Obituary

GOSSETT--Wallace D., III, attorney, died peacefully on August 21, 2021 in his Manhattan home. Wallace was a graduate of Stuyvesant High School, the City College of New York and Columbia Law School. He held several illustrious positions throughout his career including Executive Assistant General Counsel - Torts for the Metropolitan Transit Authority. Wallace savored life! He was a bon vivant and an avid patron of the arts. He is survived by his life partner Odette McNeil, his sister Linda Gossett Zaino, her husband and children and a circle of wonderful friends. A memorial celebration of life will be held in the fall.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 1, 2021.

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Walteen Whitfield

January 12, 2025

Condolences to the Family of the
Late Wallace Gossett. I met Wallace when his sister Linda and I were in P.S. 113 in Harlem. Most of the girls in our class thought he was so handsome when came to pick up Linda from School. May He Rest in Peace. Condolences to the Gossett Family.

Lorna Paris

December 27, 2021

Wallace was a beloved, long time friend. I was so shocked and sad to learn of his transition during a time I was out of the country to West Africa. Rest in peace dear friend...

Dr. Ernest Lofton

October 26, 2021

My sincere condolences to the family of Wallace Gossett and Odetta McNeil. I haven't seen Wallace since our days together at Wadleigh J.H.S. He was an impressive teenager and I see he became an outstanding attorney and wonderful man.
Well done my brother.
Ernest (Ernie) Lofton, MD
Wadleigh J.H.S. class of 1959

Patricia Phipps

September 16, 2021

So many friends of over 50yrs will be veryyyy saddened when they are made aware of this, as high school and our youthful experience of love and fun we did share. REST IN OUR LOVE, WALLACE !!

Elliot Jacobs, MD

September 15, 2021

Deeply saddened by the unexpected loss of my dear friend and fellow "Stuy Guy," Wally. We shared many wonderful meals together, regaling one another about our lives, discussing politics, world affairs, travels and offering advice to each other on dealing with life's adversities and blessings. I will miss him greatly and will hoist a glass of grappa in his memory.

My sincerest condolences to Odette and his family.

Elliot W. Jacobs, MD
Stuyvesant HS Class of '62

Leslie Boyer

September 9, 2021

Odette, my sincerest condolences to you on your loss.

George and Audrey Hayes

September 6, 2021

To the family of Wallace Gossett & Odette McNeil, Our sincerest and deepest condolences in the loss of your loved one. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Rachel Phipps Rivers

September 6, 2021

My sincere condolences to you and your family.. Rachel Phipps Rivers

Davette Conner

September 6, 2021

Dear Odette - extending sincere condolences to you and the Gossett family. Keeping you in thoughts and prayer. Sincerely Davette Conner

Lucille Golden-Blakey

September 5, 2021

My sincere condolences to you Odette and your Family.
Sincerely, Lucille Golden-Blakey

Karen Wheeler-WIlliams

September 5, 2021

My deepest and sincere condolences to Odette and his family.
Karen

Neal Hurwitz

September 5, 2021

Great guy! Big loss!--- I am very very sorry to hear this... Wally will be missed.
Best, Neal Stuyvesant HS '62 with WG

Gerthie Hartley Owtram

September 3, 2021

My heart goes out to all who mourn him.
Gert

Gerthie Hartley Owtram

September 3, 2021

Hi Linda, We take heart in knowing that Wallace enjoyed his life. My heart goes out to all who morn him.
GERT

Mark Amsterdam

September 1, 2021

Wally was a wonderful fellow, Always fun to speak with at law school reunions. I´m very sad to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences to his family

Thomas Lowy

September 1, 2021

We were classmates at Stuy. I have warm memories of Wallace and am sorry we didn´t keep up after graduation. He was a great guy.

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