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Gary
December 8, 2025
Miss you terribly! FOREVER IN "MY" HEART!!! All my love always!
Gary
Bailey Wilkins
December 9, 2024
Hey Grandma. I don't know why only my pictures posted yesterday. But I just wanted to tell you I love you. And that I live everyday in your memory. I got 3 amazing kids now. Ryan Asher. Corrina Elizabeth and Wesley Dean. They are my entire world.
I got married in April of 2023. Grandpa walked me down the isle, it is a memory I hold dear to my heart. Ever since you passed Grandpa has been my biggest supporter and I'm so blessed to have him.
Aaron makes me so happy. Even when Im in a bad mood, he makes sure to bring a smile to my face. I'm lucky to have him.
I also wanna say sorry about the car. We were in a bad wreck in September of 2021. I have always said that you and his grandma were watching out of us and Asher that day. As I only ended up with a broken leg even tho it should've and could've been worse.
I talk about you to the kids all the time. You were and will always be my best friend. I love and miss you so much. I hope your up there watching over me. I hope your proud of me. I love you.
Gary
December 8, 2024
Eight years have passed, and the heartache remains. I can only pray for the day we can be together again.
Forever:
Gary



Bailey
December 8, 2024
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Gary
December 8, 2023
Love and miss you!
Always in my Heart, Thoughts and Prayers.
Forever:
Gary
Gary
January 21, 2023
2 more years have gone by, and the pain remains. " Time heals all " as many say, hasn't eased the hurt and loneliness I have. I will miss you until we are together again. ALL MY LOVE!!!!
Gary

Bailey
January 19, 2021
Hey Grandma...
I came here to post a photo of Asher. Hes growing so big so fast. Already almost 3 months old...i wish you could see him and hold him..i hope your proud of me..i miss you dearly.
Bailey Loar
December 8, 2020
Hey Grandma. Its Bailey.
I just wanna say i can't believe its already been four years since youve passed. It honestly feels like yesturday..
Anyways. Alot has changed since then. Most ime sure you wouldve killed me for..But in the end. I think you'd be proud of me and the life i have created.
As of this year I have a son. Ryan Asher Wilkins. He wasnt due until December 19th 2020. But he decided to enter this world October 30th 2020. And hes the cutest little thing. And I'm sure youd love him. Hes actually named after you.
I also got engaged. To the man of my dreams. His names Aaron Wilkins. And hes crazy about me. Like I am him. Grandpa seems to like him. Which is a good thing.
Anyways. I just wanna say i miss you. Everyday. And even tho at times it's harder then others. Im doin alright. I love you. So much.
Tammi Loar
December 8, 2020
Hey mom wanted to say how much we all miss and love you. Everyone says in time will heal you well not sure that is true. When you left this world part of me went with you. I love you
Gary
December 8, 2020
They say that "Time Heals". That I wonder. Miss you terribly!
All My LOVE:
Gary
July 14, 2020
Pat, your were a good friend back in Maryland. We shared some good times, you are missed!
Tammi Loar
November 24, 2017
Mom we miss you so much. This 23rd of November 2017 was a very hard day. This time last year we were talking on the phone and you told me dad cook Thanksgiving dinner for you and him and how good it tasted. I wish we could have had this year together. As I sit here and write this I am cring I know you can see me but I wish I could see you and talk to you. The kids are doing great and growing up way to fast. Mom I never knew how hard it would be with out you. I wish I would have been there for you more and wish we would have been home for turkey day of 2016 to spend it with you and dad. Only if we knew it was going to be your last Thanksgiving. I hope you had a wounderful turkey day in heaven mom. We all love you and miss you so much. But yes we had turkey day with Dad a day early.
Colleen
September 25, 2017
I miss you mom
colleen and joey pulliam
July 17, 2017
SORRY MOM IT TOOK SO LONG TO GET THIS POSTED...ONE IT IS A BOOK AND EVERYTIME I TRIED TO PUT ON LINE I COULD NOT SEE THROUGH THE TEARS. MOM YOU WERE AN INCREDIABLE PERSON. THERE WERE ALOT OF THINGS I REGRET NOT TELLING YOU EVERY DAY, AND THEN NOW I CANNOT BECAUSE TIME RAN OUT TO SOON.
I have so many regrets and so sorry for so many things. I am sorry for sometimes being so hardheaded and difficult. I am really sorry things did not work out the way we had planned, but most of all i am sorry and regret we ran out of time to spend together for all of us.
I have always been proud to call you my mother and to call dad my dad, even if i did not always show it. It is because of you and dad that we all were raised the way we were, grandkids included...you taught us to resect others, do as we are told, always try to help others when we can. The list could go on forever.
I am proud of you for always being so strong all the time...all the way to the end...you have shown us how to fight. Your strength will carry on with us and we will do everything to help each other get through this, the way you taught us.
You and dad have always worked so hard to give us everything and take us places, as well as all the things you have done with your grandkids. You both will never be forgotten. We will learn from your strength.
One thing i never told you enough is how much i missed you being this far away...alot of missed opportunities and now i will never stop missing you....you are everywhere i turn....in my dreams, in my memories when i am awake......i watch all the new tv shows we have watched together for years and when i see a new one coming on i want to pick up the phone and call you and they i remember i cant.....i just hope you are here next to me when i am watching these shows or when i am asking you a question otherwise i might be losing my mind talking to my self. i do believe you are up there to watch over all of us. My heart just aches every day for you and i hope you are in a better place where you no longer hurt and are sick.....i hope it s a wonderful place for you because you deserve only the best.
I again wanted to thank you for all the little simple things and not so simple things you and dad have done for me and my kids. I know it was not alway easy. Thank you for all the time you spent with me,joey and the kids....these are memories i will never forgot. You and dad watched and let us learn from our mistakes and pointed us in the right diffection, but were always there to pick us back up, thank you mom and dad for just being you....
My biggest regret is not tellin you enough that i loved you, i will think of you every minute of every day, i know that you will continue to guide us and one day again we will meet again. Having you for a mother has been the best blessing for me and my family, as well a having dad to. You and dad walked with me through good and bad and because of the both of you i came out on the better side, so thank you mom and dad.
I will never ever forget you and all you have done for me and my family and we will see you again. Until then i wanted everyone to know that you were the best wife, mother, sister, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt.
I will never take any minute for granted ever again and i wish i had got together with you on thanksgiving, the one last chance would have made my heart ache a little less, but i guess god had different plans becaue i never dreamed in 2 weeks you would be gone...i am sorry please forgive me....i thought we had alot more time together...
I Love you mom,
colleen pulliam, joey pulliam
Barbara Wilson
July 7, 2017
Gary just called me and I am heartbroken even though we lost touch when we both moved I still thought of you almost daily I have known you for 63 years and have so many memories. I tried so hard to find you. Gary and I talked and shared so many of our memories of you. There was camping, not to mention all the wonderful laughs we had unfortunately at Gary's expense. We were so fortunate that he had a good sense of humor and ended up laughing with us that's after he got over being mad! Then Gary reminded me of something I had forgotten when you were in Alaska how we played Yahtzee by mail. We shared our lives together for so many years way before Gary, when there was the slide incident and then there was the cake on the windowsill just too too many memories to mention here. I am heartbroken that I won't get to see you again here on Earth and I so wish I had been there at the end for you also but I know you're in heaven and we'll have fun again someday we grew up together and we grew old together so I know we will meet again. In the meantime I used to have one Cardinal in my backyard all the time after Marilyn and I was wondering why I suddenly had two, now I know it's you. I love you and I will always miss you.
December 25, 2016
As only Elvis could sing...."I'll HAVE A BLUE CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU".... I miss you terribly!!!
All My Love:
Gary

MY 1st CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
December 25, 2016
Jason Scott
December 21, 2016
I am deeply saddened by her passing. Pat was a second mom to me and more. Her graciousness and hospitality was unparalleled. So many memories. I will forever love and remember her.
My best wishes (always) to the Woodman family especially during this time.
Love Jason.
Linda Camerlin
December 21, 2016
Gary, words cannot express how deeply sorry Joe and I to hear of Pat's death. We've had the pleasure of knowing you and Pat for over 42 years, remembering back in Lakehurst NJ babysitting for Collen then Bryan. Pat and I spoke often on the phone years and years ago, then we lost touch for a while. We are so thankful we got to see you guys this past summer and spend a few days with you and the family. I know she was the rock of the family and will truly be missed by all.
Barbara Williamson
December 18, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Pat for over 2 1/2 years. I not only considered her a team member but also a friend. She was always willing to help our team and she was a tireless worker. I especially enjoyed her sense of humor and her laugh.
Bryan Diehl
December 17, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Some of my favorite memories growing up involved time spent at your house in Pensacola. Gary, you and Pat, were Mom and Dad number two for me and many others. I am so thankful to have had Mom as part of my life. I will miss her, she was a true blessing.
Bryan, I can only imagine the stories our mom's are sharing now?
Love and miss you all.
Sheena St.Pierre
December 16, 2016
You will be missed dearly , love you mom!
Kasey Jacobs
December 16, 2016
Woodman family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. Thank you for allowing me to care for your loved one during her journey home. I am blessed to have met her and her loving family!
Kasey Jacobs
December 16, 2016
Goodman family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. Thank you for allowing me to care for your loved one during her journey home. I am blessed to have met her and her loving family!
Marie & Ken Woodman
December 15, 2016
Pat was very special to us and we will truly miss her. Our heartfelt sympathy to you Gary, Bryan, Tammi, Colleen and grandchildren. You all were her life and she loved you all so very much. She would want you to go on and be happy. Just know that she is looking down on you with a smile. We will always remember all the good times we had when we were able to get together. She was a wonderful person! Rest in peace dear Sister-in-Law.
Michael Woodman Jr.
December 15, 2016
What a great woman and we will miss her always.
December 15, 2016
She was a fantastic woman - We were pleased to be considered part of the family.You have our deepest sympathy Jim and Kathy Walsh
Donna Wentworth
December 14, 2016
Will miss her.
Barry Voight
December 14, 2016
I served a tour in the USN at Guantanamo, Cuba. Gary and Pat were great people and friends.
Gary my condolences to you and the family for your loss. May God bless you!
Barry Voight
2303 Shuttle Circle
Titusville, Fl
32796
Robin Geer
December 14, 2016
So sorry for your loss Woody, may God be with you and your family. Very Respectfully.
Mary Lou Eckstein
December 14, 2016
Gary, I was shocked to hear of Pat's passing. Will always have the memories of our many travels and you as our "secretary". My heartfelt thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol Pagano
December 14, 2016
Gary - thank you for emailing about Pat's passing. It broke my heart to find out that I won't get to see her anymore. What a wonderful friend, wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother - there should be more like her in this world.
Carol Pagano
Devan Pulliam
December 14, 2016
Growing up you just assume everyone will always be around and then one day it's goodbye and you can't grasp where time went. I think about all the letters and calls I should of have sent and the lifetime of stories that I never was able to hear. Even today in a world that can be so rude and cruel you and grandpa taught me how to be kind and have manners. Looking back now, getting poked by the fork for having my elbows on the tabel wasn't so bad, and I would give anything to be poked one last time by that fork and to see the look on your face only a grandmother can give.
Look after grandpa and I'll continue looking for you wherever life takes me. I love you and I can't wait to see you again.
Devan
December 14, 2016
Gary, we have treasured the friendship we have shared since GITMO ,will miss Pat and her wonderful sense of humor..thanks for all the memories.your friends Bill & Kathy Blankenship
Sue Duty
December 14, 2016
Prayers to all in the loss of your wife, mother and grandmother. She will always be with you!!
Gary
December 14, 2016
A candle burns at the house in your memory. I light one here for all to remember you.
Tammi Steven Bailey Dalton Dallas Bryson Loar
December 14, 2016
My mom will be dearly missed and is dearly loved. She was the rock of our family for so many years. She was a wounderful wife,mother and grandmother to all of her family. She was always there when you needed her no matter how she felt. She fought a good long fight and it was not easy. We will always think of her. My mom is the one that tought her kids how to be strong no matter what cause she was strong. Mom I promise you this Dad and all of us will get though this as a family cause we are strong like you. That is what you would have wanted us to do. We all miss you so much. I know Christmas was your favorite holiday and I promise we will be thinking of you. We all love you.
Bryan Woodman
December 14, 2016
To my mom
Now in passing,
My love for you
Is everlasting.
Fond memories
And times we've shared,
I know you loved
I know you cared.
It's time to rest
The pain's away,
But in my heart
You'll always stay.
I smile knowing
In heaven you are,
My very own ANGEL
My shining star.
So when it's my time
And earth I'll miss,
I know you'll greet me
With a big hug and kiss!
Thank you mom for all you've taught me and all the love you've provided. It will be forever with me. I miss you and love you.
Sheila Flemm
December 14, 2016
Gary I am so sorry to hear about Pat's passing. My heart and prayers go out to the whole family. Sheila
Bill Czyz
December 14, 2016
Gary I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a spouse at Christmas or anytime after all those years together must hurt. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish I could have met her.
God Bless
Bill
Veronica Johansen
December 14, 2016
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss.
Ralph, Melinda & Amanda Sizemore
December 14, 2016
So sorry for your loss Gary and to all of your children grandchildren and great grandchildren.
Nikki Pulliam
December 14, 2016
Love you grandma I'm so grateful for all the memories I've had with you and grandpa in Florida over the years, I'm so blessed to have you two in myself, I will always take the life lessons you two taught me. Thanks for never giving up on anyone and always loving us Until we meet again Love, Nikki
Kathi Havard
December 14, 2016
I treasure my memories of Pat. I can't begin to put into words how much she meant to Bill and I. She loved Gary and her family so much! May she rest in peace in God's Loving arms.
Ed Sanderson
December 14, 2016
May God look down on you all as you grieve the loss of Pat. I remember the great time we all had in GTMO with all of our kids running around at our picnics. I will always remember those days and I pray you all remember them as well.

Gary
December 14, 2016
Together 46 years, filled with memories I shall forever cherish. You are for all eternity in my heart, thoughts and prayers. You "fought the good fight" during these past months. I miss you terribly, and will continue walking that path we once traveled together until we meet again. Love You Always!
Gary
Tiffany Vanlue
December 14, 2016
She was a true fighter! I will miss her, please cherish your memories know she is and will always be with you! Also know during her battle her husband was able to obtain a medical degree just learning and understanding all he did! What a awesome husband he was to her. God Bless you all she was a proud mommy and grandma.
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