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Phillis DeSimone Obituary
Phillis Bowles DeSimone, 58, of Ocala, FL passed from this life to the arms of Jesus on Friday, September 23, 2011 from her home under the loving care of her family and Hospice of Marion County. Phillis grew up the second of three children as a lifelong resident of Fayette, AL until her move to Ocala twenty- five years ago. She raised two wonderful sons, Clay and Russ. Phillis loved working alongside her husband, Dale. She faithfully attended Trinity Baptist Church of Ocala where she was active in the Prayer Group. Phillis was a loving and caring daughter, sister, wife, mother and grandmother and also a dedicated and devoted friend. Phillis fought a courageous fight with cancer for three years; during which time she reached out to many with the love of God. She shared her faith openly and was evidence of the strength and peace that only God gives. She is survived by her loving husband Dale DeSimone of Ocala, FL; parents, Delmer and Bessie (Gregg) Bowles of Fayette, AL; sister, Diana Wilson (Butch) of Fayette, AL; brother, Tommy Bowles (Becky) of Northport, AL; sons, Clay McDonald (Tiffany) of Cumming, GA and Russ McDonald (Rachel) of Ocala, FL; stepson Joseph DeSimone of Ocala, FL; stepdaughter, Erin DeSimone of Tampa, FL and four precious grandchildren-her pride and joy- Ashley, Addison, Rusty and Ruby. A memorial service to honor her life will be held at Trinity Baptist in Ocala, FL on Monday, September 26, 2011 at 4:00PM. Her funeral will be held at Southside Baptist Church in Fayette, AL. Burial will be at Fayette Memorial Gardens. Contributions may be made to a memorial fund at Ocala Christian Academy in her honor: OCA Phillis DeSimone Memorial Fund, 1714 SE 36th Ave, Ocala, FL 34472. Local arrangements are under the care of Hiers-Baxley Funeral Services, 910 SE Silver Springs Blvd, Ocala. Condolences may also be expressed at www.hiers-baxley.com
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Faith Cramer
October 14, 2011
Phillis was more than a landlord to me over the past seven years, she was a dear friend and an inspiration. Seldom have I met someone with such compassion for others as Phillis. She did everything in her power to selflessly help others. Phillis B. DeSimone will hold a very special place in my heart. She was an angel who walked amongst us and everyone who knew her was blessed to have known her.
Jennifer Jenkins
September 28, 2011
Dear Clay and Russ, I was so saddened to hear about the loss of your Mom. Phillis was one of the sweetest ladies, and my Mom, Judy Graham, was close friends with her throughout elementary and high school. I have this vivid memory, when I was probably 5 or 6, of Mom and Phyllis carrying me and Clay to the movies in Tuscaloosa. They took us to see Field of Dreams with Sally Field. It was boring for us because we were so young, but I know Mom and Phillis probably wanted an excuse to go see it. I know how hard it is to lose a parent, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families as you remember the many years of happiness your Mom brought to yours and so many others' lives.
THALIA & INDIA HARRELL
September 28, 2011
GOD HAS CALLED ANOTHER ONE OF HIS ANGELS HOME.... EVEN THO I ONLY KNEW PHILLIS FOR THE TIME SHE WAS MY LANDLORD, LET ME SAY SHE WAS THE SWEETEST PERSON ANY TENANT COULD WANT... MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND GOD BLESS DALE AND GIVE HIM THE STRENGTH TO CARRY ON.....
Judy Graham
September 28, 2011
Dear Phillis, I am remembering you today, remembering your beautiful smile and the friendship we shared from grammar school through high school and beyond. One of my deepest memories is of the day I stood beside you in Southside Baptist Church at the age of 12. You sensed that God was calling me to accept him. Without a word, you simply touched my arm and it was all that I needed to step forward and express the emotions that were flooding my soul. I remember days on the playground, how pretty you were as a majorette, how you borrowed my glasses in class because you couldn't see, how we shared the joys of having children who were friends. I remember the laughter and joy our close little group of friends shared. I remember seeing you a few years ago on Christmas Eve at Fairhope Methodist Church and meeting your husband. I remember how happy you were. I know that your beautiful smile is shining from heaven onto all of us. You are not gone, my friend. You will live always in my mind's eye and in the wonderful memories we shared. May God bless your famiy as they face each day without you.
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Lynn Henderson
September 27, 2011
Dale, I'm so sorry for your loss of Phillis. My prayer is for God to give you the strength to get through this difficult time and for peace - knowing that Phillis is in a place where there is no more illness.
Chris Gledden
September 26, 2011
Dale and family just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family god bless TIm and Chris Gledden
September 26, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Phillis many years ago at E-ONE. I have never met a nicer person in my life. My condolences to her family. God took a good one home, just too soon.
Sheila Williams (Ocala, FL)
September 26, 2011
Clay...so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. We are keeping you and your famly in our prayers during this difficult time.
Dr. Michael Kemp and Family.
September 25, 2011
Phillis, you fought a good fight, very brave. Jesus is saying, well done my faithful servant. You will be missed, buy your loving spirit will live on..... Kathy Dell
James Heaney
September 25, 2011
God Bless you and your family. James Heaney
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