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Jonathan Grassbaugh Obituary
U.S. Army CPT Jonathan D. Grassbaugh, 25, of Hampstead, N.H. died in Iraq on April 7, 2007.
He was the husband of U.S. Army 2nd LT. Jenna (Parkinson) Grassbaugh; and son of Mark and Patricia (Layton) Grassbaugh of Hampstead, N.H. and formerly of Ohio. He is also survived by brother, CPT. Jason A. Grassbaugh, MD of Tacoma, Wash.; grandfather, Elmer Layton of Stow, Ohio.
Funeral Mass on Wednesday, April 18, 2007 at St. Anne's Church, Emerson Avenue, Hampstead, N.H. Burial at Arlington National Cemetery. Donations to The CPT Jonathan D. Grassbaugh Memorial Fund, C/O Citizens Bank, 45 South Broadway, Salem, NH 03079. Arrangements under the direction of Brookside Chapel & Funeral home, 116 Main St., Plaistow, NH.
www.brooksidechapelfh.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Jonathan Grassbaugh
Edward Liu
April 7, 2024
It has been more than 20 years since I knew you Jon , as we were getting our commissions together. When I first met you in sept 2000 9/11 had not even happened yet. But I sure miss you. Charles roller, Andy hoeprich, tenay, Mr Campbell- we all miss you really much . I hope you know you still touch people's lives today
Matt Casey
April 7, 2021
Thinking of you today. Miss you
Edward Liu
April 7, 2021
Always remembered. Always.
Katie Wolff
April 8, 2019
Remembered always! Our students will be visiting and paying respect to Jon in a few months at Arlington. Thank you, soldier.
S Roberts
April 7, 2019
Please accept my remembrance of Jonathan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten
April 15, 2017
Jon is remembered, peace to the Grassbaugh Family.
- Katie Wolff
Katie Wolff
April 7, 2014
Always remembered, thank you soldier for your love of country and giving others footsteps to follow.
Roger Rickert
April 6, 2014
Rest in Peace Hero, our Grateful Nation Salutes You.... Welcome Home
Edward Liu
April 5, 2014
For a number of reasons it has been difficult for me to visit Arlington Nat'l Cem over the last several years, primarily due to a number of poor experiences i've encountered in the service myself. But regardless, Jon Grassbaugh is always remembered - as a hero, a friend, a defender of freedom, a testament to the best this nation has to offer. I know his legacy will live on and I promise he will always be remembered. it's a wonderful mild weekend here in the Mid-Atlantic, i know Jon knows how many are thinking about him on this sad, yet sunfilled weekend. Out of the sunshine rises Jon's impact and those he influenced. Edward Liu
February 17, 2014
Seems like you should be arrving home most any day now. We sure do miss you and trust you know that. Love Ya - dad
April 14, 2013
In memory and honor of Jonathan on the recent 6th anniversary of his passing. (Please forgive me for entering this a little late).
A Native New Englander
April 14, 2013
As I came across this memorial today, I would like to express my sorrow for the loss of your Jonathan. I did not know him, but with the testament to him here there is little else I can say. So instead I will say a prayer for his family and friends for their healing.
John Carr
December 2, 2012
Proud of all Grassbaugh descends and wish to add Jonathan D. to our family tree on Ancestry.com by searching Mathias Grassbaugh 1786-1865. Blessings to our hero.
November 30, 2012
Some days are hard indeed -
dad
Christmas Eve, 2006. Our last night on earth together <3
November 29, 2012
Some days are just hard, baby. I miss and love you with all my heart. I will be lighting my holiday candles for you every day during this tough Christmas season.
~Your wife,
Jenna
Roger Rickert
November 28, 2012
Rest in Peace Hero, our Grateful Nation Salutes You
Welcome Home
Matt Casey
October 19, 2012
Dear Jenna,
Although it had been years since I last saw Jon, I will always remember Jon's smile, his personality, and his outlook on life.
I know Jon loved you with every ounce of his being. I know it is hard for you, but take comfort in the fact that you two will be reunited for eternity.
I will always remember Jon and remember our time together as reenactors in the 28th Massachusetts, and although I lost contact him when he went off to high school and college, there will always be a special place for him in my heart and in my memory.
Matt Casey
July 9, 2012
Some days the veil is heavy....
Love & miss you
Dad
April 13, 2012
To Jon's Family & Jenna,
Jonathon will always be remembered. I have been thinking of you and Jon's memory this past week. My warmest blessings are always sent your way.
Jon's courage is a model for us all to emulate. I share Jon's memory and his dedicated love of his country with my students often!
Always with peace,
Katie Wolff
Jenna Grassbaugh
April 13, 2012
Missing you today, tomorrow and always, baby. I love you so very much - life sure is sad without my soul mate to share it with...until me meet again.
Your wife,
Jenna
Peggy Childers
April 12, 2012
April 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh:
Always remembering Jonathan. "Some gave all."
September 9, 2011
Sure miss you today --- dad
Katie Wolff
May 31, 2011
Jon and his dedication to our nation is remembered this Memortial Day and always.
Renee Ray
May 30, 2011
To the family, he is still greatly missed.
Your PBO
L Neal
May 10, 2011
To the family of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
April 23, 2011
To The Grassbaugh Family,
Jon will always be remembered and his spirit lives on forever in Hampstead. I pause to send my thoughts, prayers and blessings. Please know that Jon's service to our nation, his dedication, his courage will continue to inspire Hampstead's youth. Sending PEACE and LOVE to you.
Katie Wolff
April 23, 2011
To The Grassbaugh Family,
Jon will always be remembered and his spirit lives on forever in Hampstead. I pause to send my thoughts, prayers and blessings. Please know that Jon's service to our nation, his dedication, his courage will continue to inspire Hampstead's youth. Sending PEACE and LOVE to you.
April 19, 2011
As Mark/Dad said, 4 years ago today we all gathered at Arlington to say our final goodbyes. Yet, as the last 4 years have passed, I realize there are no final goodbyes because you are always, always with us in all that we do. I only wish we could still reach out and touch you and hear your infectious laugh. I hear it in my memories and my thoughts all the time. We love you so very much and you will always live in our hearts. Thank you for all the joy and happiness you gave and continue to give us even now. You're our hero, baby.
Love you always and forever,
Jenna
April 18, 2011
The time has been long and it has also been short - and in some ways you might say it just stands still. 4 years ago tomorrow we went with you to ANC. As Jenna always says, loved always and forever !
Dad & Mom
Peggy Childers
April 16, 2011
April 7, 2011
To the family and friends of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh:
Please accept my remembrance of Jonathan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jenna Grassbaugh
January 9, 2011
You are loved always and forever, baby...
Your wife,
Jenna
Chris Gilbert
June 29, 2010
I am so sorry that I did not keep in touch and just found this out. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I will try to get in touch with Jason soon. To Mark, Patti, and Jason, I hope that you have been able endure these last years since since Jon's death. From reading the below entries, it seems that he was nothing less than a hero in many people's eyes. Words cannot express my gratitude for his service and ultimate sacrifice.
May 26, 2010
Thank you to all that continue to visit this site and leave words of remembrance --- appreciated more than you can ever realize.
Jon's dad - mark
God Bless each of you !
Peggy Childers
April 8, 2010
To the family and friends of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh:
Remembering Jonathan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mike Herbek
June 23, 2009
I still remember the day that I heard what happened to Jon. My unit had been in Kuwait for 3 days, waiting to go into Iraq. I had just been told by my wife that I would be a father, and the very next minute I received news about Jon. The juxtaposition of the two events was absolutely surreal. I have since gone to visit Jon at Arlington, but I have not been able to fully process it even to this day. I knew Jon very well in Korea and had the honor of his presence at my wedding. Jon was a great man, a great husband, and the consummate soldier. Not a day goes by that I do not think about him and how things just ended too soon for Jon. I hope these words do not seem too harsh or insensitive.
Thomas Kim
May 25, 2009
It's been over two years, and I've struggled wondering something else could have been done on 07APR07. I finally came to realization that I nor two medics on ground could have done anything differently. CPT. Grassbaugh is truly an American Hero. He (nor other members of 5-73, especially SFC Sebban) will never be forgotten. It was absolute privilege and honor to have provided CSC support for the Unit. I just wish outcome would have been different on that road. I finally shared with my son about the events on that day when I visited Arlington in January this year with my son. My son sees CPT Grassbaugh as his hero...
Kristen DesAutels
May 25, 2009
I am remembering my cousin on this Memorial Day. We are so proud of him and his family and for what they have sacrificed for our country. We will never forget and promise to keep his memory alive!
Jonathan Chow
May 24, 2009
To the Grassbaugh Family,
There is hardly a day that goes by when I don't think of Jon and of all the fun times we shared together at Exeter and in DC. I remember him in the Prayers of the Faithful every Sunday when I go to Mass. I know he's still up there watching over us and I can never thank him enough for his sacrifice, giving his life up for his friends and untold numbers of strangers. Just wanted to let you know on this Memorial Day that I still remember and I will never forget.
Cozette Haggerty
May 14, 2009
Re: CPT Jonathan D Grassbaugh
Hello,
I represent PRAYER SHAWLS 4 FALLEN SOLDIERS (PS4FS), an organization that since October 2007 has sent over 2,800 prayer shawls to military families who have lost a loved one. We are an organization of over 240 groups from all over the country. We make every effort to reach families even when post cards are returned after they have moved. Would you kindly send me a contact email/address so that we may send a loving hand-made prayer shawl to the family? Thank you!
Cozette Haggerty, Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
Email: [email protected]
Website Address: http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls
Peggy Childers
April 10, 2009
To the family of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh:
Jonathan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
January 30, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
June 23, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Capt Grassbaugh!
The last picture taken of Jon, just one hour before he died (3:07pm, 7 April 2007)
June 18, 2008
Jon and Jenna dancing at our wedding (9 June 2006)
June 18, 2008
Jenna, Jon, Jason and Kirsty at the Cleveland Champ Car Race (25 June 2006)
June 18, 2008
Ranger Jon with dad Ranger Mark (9 April 2004)
June 18, 2008
Jon and Jenna (3 June, 2006)
June 18, 2008
michael schaefer
May 18, 2008
cpt grassbaugh was my mentor in korea. i had the honor of serving under him in his first platoon. he was the best officer i have ever had in my short four years in the army. i miss him and will always think about him.
Thomas Kim
April 12, 2008
I have and continue to pray for CPT. Grassbaugh's wife and his family. Though my interactions were brief, he was exceptional/wonderful person. He truly cared for his guys. I pray that God will grant you peace, comfort, and strength... as we remember the loss of fellow soldiers on that day.
Debra Estep
April 7, 2008
To the family and friends of Jonathan.
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jonathan, but he is my hero.
xo xo
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Fellow Soldier
March 27, 2008
To this day I still keep a copy of CPT Grassbaugh's prayer card and program from the ceremony on my desk. As we approach the one year remembrance of CPT Grassbaugh's death I will always remember the deep love his family showed for him at his funeral.
Katie Wolff
March 1, 2008
Today, as the snow falls peacefully form the New Hampshire sky, I reflect with gratitude on the service and sacrifice of a local hero. The Hampstead community and local students have worked to memorialize Jon's life by dedicating the East Hampstead Post Office in his memory. The journey over the past year has proved to be an incredible experience for Hampstead students. These young people recognize the importance of honoring service and paying tribute to Capt. Jonathan Grassbaugh. The students' work to honor a soldier soon will become a reality when President Bush signs the bill started by their young political activism. Appreciation is expresssed to Senator John E. Sununu for whom Jon interned for sponsoring the post office bill intiated by Hampstead students.
Jon's memory will continue to inspire our youth and his legacy and spirit will always be remembered.
Jon's courage, dedication to our country, and his sacrifice for our democratic principles will forever live in our hearts.
britney pinker
December 10, 2007
i love him
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 12, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Capt Grassbaugh and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Kelsey Wright
August 1, 2007
Jenna,
I'm a friend of Jeff Chang and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your strength is inspiring and I wish you peace and hope for the future.
God Bless you and Jonathan.
July 8, 2007
Please accept our condolences for your loss. May God ease your pain and give you strength in this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers, that you find comfort in God’s love and joy in the memory of your Soldier.
Ray and Gloria Shanklin
June 28, 2007
Our deepest sympathy and sincere gratitude for the supreme sacrifice you and your family has made in the loss of Jonathan, A True American Hero!
May you find comfort in knowing that others share your pain.
God be with you and yours.
Sincerely, Ray and Gloria Shanklin
Massillon, Ohio
ROBYN Garside
May 22, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Ronn Massie
May 20, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Jonathan. You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Jonathan for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Glen
May 5, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Dianne Sterling
April 27, 2007
Love Lives On
Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
they'll live on in the heart.
I wish I had the words to bring you comfort and peace. I know what you must be feeling, for my son Spc. Hoby F. Bradfield Jr. is at rest in Arlington.
If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.
April 24, 2007
While I never met Jonathan, my wife and I know his older brother Jason from USMA and MAMC. Jonathan also served in 4-7 Cavalry in Korea several years after I did and was a rare Ranger-qualified Armor officer. Our deepest sympathies to all the Grassbaugh family. What a devastating loss. To Jonathan's parents: you should be rightly proud of your incredibly talented sons; you did a remarkable job rearing them. Jonathan, be thou at peace.
MAJ Adam, CPT (Dr.) Julie, Elisabeth & Daniel Ake
Rich McKeever
April 23, 2007
As a Veteran of the Regular Army I wish to express my condolences to the bereaved family of the late Captain Jonathan D. Grassbaugh. From what I have read, Captain Grassbaugh was a fine young man who had a bright future ahead of him. He was an outstanding soldier who attained the rank of Captain/03 at a very young age and would have accomplished even more if he had not suffered such an untimely death. It is always a tragedy when fine young Americans like Captain Grassbaugh are taken from us at such an early age. May this outstanding young American Soldier rest in peace with his comrades who preceded him in making the supreme sacrifice on behalf of our Republic.
C. J II
April 21, 2007
Mark, Patti & Jenna,
We are so sorry for the loss of Jonathan. We keep you all in our prayers and in our hearts. We never had the pleasure of meeting Jon but because of my friendship with Mark over the last 20 years or so, I can believe that he was so much like his Dad. Always giving, always there for you with trusted guidance. Someone who had a deep passion for life and the respect of all who knew him. Jon's gift to us was God's gift to you and we are truly grateful. Our love & prayers.......
C.J. II and Sharon
Tom Gugliuzza
April 21, 2007
To the Grassbaugh family; I previously signed Jonathan's guest book. It was an honor to meet each of you at ANC yesterday. Patti and Jenna I am at ANC three to five days a week and as I promised you I will visit/honor Jonathan each time I am there. I am sorry I do not remember the names of your family members, but Jonathan's uncle walked over to me and asked if I would make sure he is taken care of. I promise each of you I will. Jonathan is my hero and he will NEVER be forgotten nor will the others be forgotten. I honor each of them. Know that each of you are though of and prayers are with you. I did take some pictures after you left yesterday please contact me and I will forward them to you.
Tom
Patricia and Morad Kaviani
April 20, 2007
Jason and the Grassbaugh Family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are at a loss for words. A great loss to you and our county. Rest in Peace John.
Tom Gugliuzza
April 20, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Grassbaugh family in the loss of Jonathan. I did not know Jonathan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jonathan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there weekly. I promise you that each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Jonathan.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
anonymous
April 20, 2007
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13
We will never forget you, Jon. Take care up there.
Kristen Desautels
April 18, 2007
Jon is a true American Hero and will be remembered by so many as such. He is not only my cousin, but my own hero. I am so proud of you Jon.
Carol Cline
April 18, 2007
Know in your heart that Jonathan is a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace Jonathan. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To Jonathan's family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
The Rankins
April 16, 2007
In every life,
there comes a time
to walk in shadows and in sunlight,
to hear silence and song,
to shed tears of sadness and of joy,
to forget what has been taken,
and remember
what has been given.
Author Unknown
Please accept our condolences in the loss of your son and husband. He had a sometimes thankless job, but made the ultimate sacrifice and for that we send you all of our prayers and well wishes.
And while a thank you probably doesn't make much of a difference now, we appreciate his life and what he sacrificed for this country.
Know that you have the love and support of many during this time.
Alysia Fowler
April 16, 2007
To The Grassbaugh Family,
I am so very saddened by your loss. I know that no words will take away the ache in your hearts or the tears from your eyes, but maybe the thought of knowing just how proud every one is of your son, brother and husband will lift your spirits, even if just for a moment.
He will be missed every day and always remembered.
-My deepest Sympathies.
April 16, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
The Jackson Family
April 16, 2007
To the Grassbaugh family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Jonathan was an all american hero. Our hearts are breaking as this world has lost a true friend and a rare gentleman. He will never ever be forgotten.
God must have needed an Angel when he took Jonathan. I know he is and will always be with you loving you and protecting you as always.
His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. He is a man to be proud of.
Our prayers are with you now and always.
Mary Crano
April 15, 2007
Patty, my heartfelt simpathy goes out to you and your family. Know that you all are in my prayers.
Mary (Greene)Crano
ARTIE PAPPA
April 15, 2007
DEAR PATTI & MARK
JUST A NOTE TO TELL YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HOW MUCH WE APPRECIATE AND ADMIRE WHAT YOUR SON DID FOR US AND OUR COUNTRY.
WE HOPE THE LOVE AND PRIDE YOU HAVE FOR JON WILL HELP LESSEN THE PAIN AND HEARTBREAK.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND COURAGE TO CARRY ON.
GOD BLESS YOU, JON, AND WAY YOU REST IN PEACE WITH THE REST OF OUR FALLEN HEROS.
ARTIE PAPPA & SISTER CARMELA PURVIS
Joe and Lynn(Ivers) Pappano
April 15, 2007
Dear Pat,
We are keeping you, your family, and your son in our thoughts and prayers.
God bless you.
Freda DeCerbo
April 15, 2007
Dear Patty,
I am so saddened at your loss. I cannot imagine your pain. Know that I think of you and pray for YOU. HE SERVED US ALL. YOUR
ELMS FRIEND FREDA Dye DE CERBO
Jennifer Brown
April 14, 2007
johnathan
all though i did not know you i am just saying to your family i am sorry for your loss just remember he was a loved soldier thank you johnathan for fighting for us
Marsha Brown
April 14, 2007
Grassbaugh familiy,
Jonathan was a friend of my son Allen Brown. Allen was in ROTC with Jon at Johns Hopkins and served with him in the Army. Jonathan has visited in our home and he attend our younger son's graduation from Basic Training in South Carolina.
My husband and I send our heartfelt sympathy for which no words adequately express how deeply we feel or can in any way assuage your grief.
Jon was indeed one of America's best and brightest. We honor his memory and grieve with you.
Please know that we are holding you in our prayers today and in the days to come.
cora
April 14, 2007
I want to thank Him for serving our country and know that he is a Hero to me. Cora
Teri
April 14, 2007
Johnathan, You don't know me either. But you died protecting my family and our country. You are a true hero. My prayers go out to your family.
TRICIA CHRISTIAN
April 13, 2007
I know you don't know me. But i wanted to tell you how sorry I am.And to thank Jonthan for serving our contry.You are in our hearts and prayers.God bless you all.
April 13, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Gary Allain
April 12, 2007
Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Bruce and Karen Thurston
April 12, 2007
When I'm Gone
When I come to the end of my journey
And I travel my last weary mile,
Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
Forget unkind words I have spoken;
Remember some good I have done.
Forget that I ever had heartache
And remember I've had loads of fun.
Forget that I've stumbled and blundered
And sometimes fell by the way.
Remember I have fought some hard battles
And won, ere the close of the day.
Then forget to grieve for my going,
I would not have you sad for a day,
But in summer just gather some flowers
And remember the place where I lay,
And come in the shade of evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west
Stand for a few moments beside me
And remember only my best.
Your family is in our prayers;
Blue Star Mothers of NH
Dennis (USMC - Viet Nam) & Pam Robertson
April 12, 2007
We are saddened at the loss of this fine young soldier, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you as only He can. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
In loving memory of our nephew
Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06
Frances Bertolino
April 12, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Grassbaugh, words cannot express how deeply saddened we are to hear of your loss. We will always be appreciative to you and remember your kindness at the memorial service you held on 9/15/06 at the Hampstead Middle School for my nephew PFC. Matthew L. Bertolino, killed in Afghanastan on 2/9/06.
May the love and support of your family and friends (and of caring strangers) carry you through the difficult days, months and years to come. Your son and all of those that have gone before him, will be cherished for what they have given up for us. They will not be forgotten.
Frances Bertolino & family
SHIRLEY DONEY
April 12, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Sandy Bonesteel
April 12, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
April 11, 2007
Please accept my Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy regarding the loss of Capt. Jonathan D. Grassbaugh.
The price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Dedication and Service.
May Jonathan rest safely in God's Care and may God's Loving Grace Bless the Grassbaugh family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage
and He shall strengthen your heart"
~ Psalm 27:14 ~
May the Peace of God and your precious memories of Jonathan, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days ahead.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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